Weddings are some of the most beautiful celebrations one can experience in their life (usually). The deep connection between two lovers taking physical form in a ceremonious act for all to see is one that a lot of couples look forward to.
However, it also comes with months upon months of planning, stress, and even more planning. The one thing that a bride cannot go without—the special dress. Whether it be white, maroon, black, fluffy, frilly, or form-fitting, it must make the wearer feel likе the most beautiful woman in the whole entire world.
Some brides take the plunge of crafting their own dresses, be it for the challenge, for the love of the craft, or both. Today we delve into the story of Veronika Lindberg Heino, or Kika, who knitted her special gown for her big day in 6 weeks. She was kind enough to answer some of Bored Panda’s questions so let’s get into it!
Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, decided to take up the challenge of knitting her own stunning wedding dress
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If you were given 2.5 kg of yarn and 250 hours, what would you create? Mayhaps a blanket, mayhaps a 3D portrait, or maybe a knitted wedding dress. Seeing as you clicked on this article for a very particular reason, you probably know by now that we’ll be speaking about the last option.
Opening herself to the challenge was Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, who documented the birth of her special white dress, sharing the ups and downs with her followers on Instagram (which she started in 2017) and YouTube.
This project came about when she and her husband-to-be were both moving house and planning an impromptu wedding, making for a very stressful 7 weeks
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For what was already an intense project, life decided to add an extra bit of *spice*: they were moving house and planning their wedding, happening 7 weeks later, at the same time, so why not add in a project of great significance on top of it all? Unless you’re as skiIIed as Kika, I wouldn’t recommend it!
“I do love a challenge and I’m often a little bit over-ambitious, and the thought felt so wild and inspiring that I just decided to take the risk and do it,” the Finland-based knitter told Good Morning America (GMA). “I ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced my crazy plan on Instagram, and knew right then, there was no turning back anymore.”
She ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced her plans to her followers on Instagram, getting the project officially started with no way to turn back
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Kika based her design around Dior, Chanel, and Ulla Johnson’s dresses. She then sketched and planned the patterns. After all that, the knitting began!
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Nothing worth doing ever comes easy. It was a struggle finding time to knit in between moving, planning the wedding, and publishing her first book
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Instead of throwing Kika off balance, this added project seemed to have the opposite effect: it kept her grounded through the tumultuous time, at least for a while. Nothing worth doing comes easy, and this project was no exception, especially as she’d never knitted a dress before.
“The process was definitely intense, and the biggest struggle was to find enough time for knitting since we were in the process of moving and organizing the wedding at the same time,” said Kika. “Plus I published my first-ever knitting book, so it was definitely hectic. But, I also enjoyed it immensely and loved seeing my vision come to life in the process.”
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Then a big setback occured—her bodice was far too big, requiring her to rip it all up and start again. Her sleeves then kept slipping off, which took lots of time to fix
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Glaring issues started appearing about two weeks in when Kika had finished the bodice and tried it on for the first time—it was way too big. Disappointed, but not defeated, the bride-to-be ripped it all up, starting all over again, describing it as “a tough and frustrating moment where some tears were shed.”
One more issue came along with the slippy sleeves that kept on slipping, revealing a tad bit too much, which Kika found hilarious yet time-consuming to fix. “I made sure to film all my mistakes so I could be real and honest with my viewers, rather than only showing them the picture-perfect moments,” she told Insider.
Not having any other option (you typically can’t just go and buy a dress off the rack, as those require alterations, which take a long time), she kept moving forward until it was one week til the wedding. Encouraging messages from her followers kept her spirits up, the promise she’d made to the project at the very beginning providing her with a sense of accountability.
However, “the biggest motivator was definitely seeing for myself if I could pull my idea and vision off, and the thought of having the dress as a memory for life really kept me going, too.”
But all that didn’t deter her! Just 4 days before the big day, the dress was finished and Kika got to have a well-deserved rest
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Everything was done. She finished her dress on Tuesday, feeling more tired and frustrated than elated, but once she put it on for the ceremony, she couldn’t have been happier with the end result.
Kika got married to her husband Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home (which inspired the cottage-themed wedding tone), just 4 days after she’d finished her dress. Although her partner was a bit more skeptical about her last-minute knitting project, “in the end, he was super impressed and proud of me, and thought it looked really good too,” Kika said.
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Kika told Bored Panda that they’d met back in Spring of 2020, when she moved back home to Finland from London, as the pandemic put the world in lockdown. “Just a few months after moving back I met Juki and for our first date we walked around in Helsinki for hours since all cafés and bars were closed due to the restrictions,” she said.
“I was immediately drawn to his humor and often colorful stories of his adventures which made me laugh, and of course I found him really handsome. I think he was drawn to my enthusiasm, something we both have in common and my positive attitude towards life.”
She married Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home. Everyone loved her dress, praising her for all the effort she’d put into it
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“Over the course of the day, guests would come up to me and immediately feel the dress and comment on it. It sometimes felt likе they were more interested in the dress than in me, but I love talking about knitting, so I didn’t mind too much,” she told Insider.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295, which is a bargain when it comes to wedding dresses, which go for $1,800 on average. Her 149k followers on Instagram absolutely loved the journey, jumping in with suggestions and support any time she needed it.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295
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The 46-minute vlog of the whole journey posted on YouTube has garnered over 3.4M views, quickly becoming the highlight of her channel, which has over 253k subscribers that look forward to her knitting tutorials. “I’m absolutely amazed by all the positive attention the video and my dress has gotten, wow!” said Kika.
“I’ve received messages from people all over the world telling me I’ve inspired them to take up knitting again or to learn it, which makes me so glad. I’m also proud that I’ve maybe been able to push the boundaries and show what is possible using knitting.”
According to Kika, “knitting was actually done primarily by men at some point in history, so the fact that knitting nowadays is associated with something mostly feminine hasn’t always been the case.” Knitting is not just for grandmas, y’all!
The 46-minute vlog of the entire process garnered over 3.4M views on YouTube, inspiring hundreds of people to take up or go back to the craft
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What began as a bonding activity with her grandma when she was 5 years old has become a lifestyle, bringing together likе-minded people from all over the world. The one lesson she’d always kept was to be playful with the craft, rather than searching for perfection.
“With knitting there are a lot of ‘rules’ or principles that come with the territory which sometimes can make it feel likе you’re not doing things the right way,” she told Bored Panda. “My grandmother always encouraged me to make things without getting hung up on perfection, being creative and playful was more important.”
She hopes her followers and those who jumped on the bandwagon to see the final dress get inspired to embrace creative projects they might feel tempted to try—“even if it might feel a bit ambitious, I say go for it!”
We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and can’t wait to see what’s coming up for them next!
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A post-pandemic resurgence of knitting is a very welcome sight for many who are getting into arts and crafts for the first time or returning back to the familiar time-passing activity. Recent research shows that knitting has a measurable effect on calming anxiety, relieving stress, and aiding with chronic pain, as well as helping one build a community of friends. And you end up with a cute hat and mittens in the meantime!
“I think knitting as a craft teaches you a lot about patience and really makes you think about what kind of garments you most likе to wear,” Kika said. “When you’re going to spend 40-60 hours making a sweater, you really want to make sure it’s something that is going to stay in your wardrobe for a long time, which makes knitting a very sustainable practice, too.”
Honestly, what’s not to love!? We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and hope to see many more exciting knitting projects! Let us know your thoughts on the dress in the comments below, and I shall see you in the next one!
People have absolutely loved this project and the final dress. Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
Saleswoman Told My Little Daughter the Dress She Wanted Was Too Expensive for Her – I Gave Her a Reality Check
When a saleswoman told a little girl that the dress she wanted was “too expensive,” her mother decided to teach the store staff a lesson they would never forget. What started as a routine shopping trip quickly escalated into a dramatic showdown, revealing unexpected twists and powerful lessons on respect and empathy.
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The morning sun cast a warm glow over the local park, where my daughter Lily and I had spent hours playing and laughing. It was one of those perfect days when time seemed to stand still. We were both dressed for the occasion, me in my worn jeans and a comfortable t-shirt, and Lily in her favorite overalls and sneakers.
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Our plan was simple: enjoy the day and maybe grab an ice cream before heading home. After a delightful impromptu picnic, I suddenly remembered something that made Lily’s face light up with excitement. “Mommy, the pink dress!” she exclaimed, her eyes sparkling at the memory.
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A few days earlier, we had passed by a store window where a beautiful pink dress had caught Lily’s eye. She had talked about it non-stop since then. So, with a spontaneous decision, we decided to take a quick detour to the mall.
As we entered, Lily’s eyes immediately locked onto the dress on display. Her joy was infectious as she ran over to it, her tiny hands clutching the fabric with awe. “Mommy, can I try this one?” she asked, her voice filled with hope.
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“Of course, sweetheart,” I replied, unable to resist her enthusiasm. I loved seeing her so happy, and this dress clearly meant the world to her.
Just then, a young sales assistant probably in her early twenties approached us. I couldn’t help but notice her smile was more forced than friendly. “Can I help you with something?” she asked, her tone flat.
“Yes,” I said, maintaining my cheerful demeanor. “My daughter would like to try on this dress.”
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The assistant looked Lily up and down, then glanced at the price tag with a snobby smirk. “This dress is quite expensive,” she said, her voice dripping with judgment. “Are you sure you can afford it?”
Lily’s face fell instantly, confusion and disappointment clouding her bright eyes. I felt a surge of anger but took a deep breath, keeping my composure. “We’ll take the dress to the fitting room, please,” I said firmly. The assistant shrugged and handed me the dress, muttering something under her breath as she walked away.
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Inside the fitting room, Lily’s excitement was contagious. She slipped into the pink dress with my help, her tiny fingers fumbling with the delicate fabric. As soon as the dress was on, she twirled around, her eyes wide with delight.
“Mommy, look at me! I’m a princess!” she exclaimed, her voice ringing with pure joy. She spun around again, the skirt of the dress flaring out beautifully. “Do you think I look like the princesses in my storybooks?”
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I smiled, my heart swelling with love and pride. “You look even more beautiful than any princess in a storybook, Lily.” She giggled, her cheeks flushing with happiness. “Can we buy it, Mommy? Can I wear it to Grandma’s birthday party?”
“Of course, sweetheart,” I replied, bending down to her level. “You can wear it anywhere you want.”
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“Let’s pay for it first,” I said, squeezing her hand reassuringly. Her face lit up again. “Yay! Thank you, Mommy!”
We approached the counter, and I handed over my credit card, noting the assistant’s surprised expression. She clearly didn’t expect us to buy the dress.
As we walked out, I caught the assistant smirking at us. That’s when I decided I needed to give her a reality check she wouldn’t forget.
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The next morning, I woke up with a steely determination. I knew I had to address the situation from the previous day, not just for myself, but for Lily. I dressed casually again, in jeans and a simple blouse, wanting to maintain an unassuming appearance.
As I drove to the mall, I rehearsed what I would say, my resolve hardening with each passing minute. When I arrived at the store, I headed straight for the manager’s office. The manager, a middle-aged man with a kind face, listened attentively as I explained what had happened.
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“I understand your concern,” he said, nodding sympathetically. “Let me call the sales assistant over so you can speak with her directly.”
A few moments later, the young sales assistant appeared. She didn’t recognize me at first, her expression shifting from curiosity to annoyance as she realized I wasn’t there to shop. “Can I help you with something?” she asked, her tone indifferent.
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“Yes,” I said, keeping my voice calm but firm. “I’d like to talk about how you treated my daughter and I yesterday.”
The assistant rolled her eyes, clearly uninterested. “Look, if you have a complaint, you should talk to the manager.”
“I already have,” I replied, meeting her gaze steadily. “But I wanted to speak with you directly.”
She crossed her arms, her irritation growing. “Okay, what do you want to say?”
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I reached into my bag and pulled out a gift-wrapped box. She looked at it, puzzled, before reluctantly taking it from my hands. “What’s this?” she asked, suspicion lacing her voice. “Open it,” I instructed.
She tore off the wrapping paper and opened the box, her eyes widening in shock as she revealed a beautifully crafted, high-quality handbag. It was far more expensive than the dress Lily had wanted.
“Why are you giving me this?” she stammered.
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I took a deep breath, choosing my words carefully. “I bought this for you, not because you deserve it, but because I want to make a point. You see, judging people by their appearance or assuming they can’t afford something based on how they look is not only rude but also unprofessional.”
Her face turned red, and she glanced around nervously. “I…I don’t understand.”
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“You never know who you’re talking to or what their situation might be,” I continued, my voice steady.
“Just because someone doesn’t look like they can afford something doesn’t mean they can’t. And just because someone looks wealthy doesn’t mean they are. Treat every customer with respect and dignity, regardless of how they appear.”
The sales assistant’s eyes filled with tears as she looked down at the handbag, her embarrassment evident. “I’m sorry,” she said quietly. “I didn’t mean to be rude.”
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“I hope you learn from this,” I said gently. “Everyone deserves kindness and respect.”
As I turned to leave, the store manager approached his face with a mask of concern and sincerity. “Ma’am, I am deeply sorry for the way you were treated,” he began, his voice low and earnest.
“I assure you, this will be a learning moment for our staff. We pride ourselves on excellent customer service, and what you experienced was unacceptable.”
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I nodded, appreciating his acknowledgment. “Thank you for understanding. It’s important that your staff treats every customer with respect, no matter their appearance.”
He sighed, running a hand through his graying hair. “Absolutely. I will be overseeing additional training for all our employees to ensure this never happens again.”
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As I walked out of the store, a wave of satisfaction washed over me. I had stood up for myself, and Lily, addressing the situation head-on. I hoped the lesson I imparted would linger with the sales assistant, fostering a greater sense of empathy and respect in her future interactions.
Back at home, the warm and familiar scent of cookies greeted me as I walked through the door. Lily was in the living room, surrounded by her toys, her laughter filling the space with joy. The sight of her, so carefree and innocent, was a balm to my frayed nerves.
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“Mommy, did you have a good day?” she asked, bounding over to me with her usual exuberance. Her eyes sparkled with curiosity as she wrapped her little arms around my legs.
I knelt down to her level, pulling her into a tight hug. “I did, sweetheart,” I replied, my voice tinged with the weight of the day’s events. “And I learned something very important.” Lily tilted her head, her brow furrowing in that adorable way she had when she was deep in thought. “What did you learn, Mommy?”
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I stroked her hair, feeling the softness beneath my fingers. “I learned that it’s always important to treat people with kindness, no matter what. Sometimes, people forget that, and it can hurt others. But we can choose to be different.”
She nodded solemnly as if understanding the gravity of my words. “Like how you helped the lady in the store?”
I smiled, touched by her perception. “Yes, just like that,” I replied. Lily’s face lit up with a grin. “Can we have cookies now, Mommy? I saved some for you!”
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“Of course, we can,” I said, standing up and taking her hand. As we walked to the kitchen, I felt a profound sense of peace. The events of the day had been challenging, but they had also reaffirmed the values I wanted to instill in Lily.
Years later, the story of the handbag and the sales assistant became a cherished family tale. Whenever we gathered around the dinner table or sat by the fireplace on cold winter nights, Lily would often ask me to tell the story again.
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“Tell us about the time you taught the lady a lesson, Mommy!” she’d say, her eyes wide with anticipation.
As Lily grew older, I watched with pride as she carried those values into her own life, treating everyone she met with the same kindness and respect she had learned from that unforgettable day.
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Just like the sales assistant was taught an unforgettable lesson for looking down upon a little girl, here is another story of a bus driver who ignored a 6-year-old girl begging for help, only to see her in his house that evening. This tale takes an unbelievable turn and imparts an equally powerful lesson. Read the full story here.
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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
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