Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
Isabella Strahan’s Inspiring Journey: A Battle with Cancer
The 19-year-old daughter of former NFL player Michael Strahan, Isabella, recently gave an update on her valiant fight against cancer. Isabella broke down in tears as she announced on social media that she would only need four chemotherapy sessions as opposed to the six that were initially scheduled. She was overcome with delight at hearing this unexpected news, which was a big step in the right direction for her recuperation.
Isabella was given a medulloblastoma diagnosis last year. This kind of cancer is found near the base of the brain. In January 2024, she courageously revealed her experience during an interview on Good Morning America, which made her diagnosis public. Isabella is resilient and unflappable in spite of her struggles.
“I feel fantastic. Not too awful,” Isabella said in the January interview, demonstrating her fortitude in the face of difficulty.
October 2023 marked the start of Isabella’s journey as she enrolled in her first year of college at the University of Southern California in Los Angeles. She sought medical attention when she began to experience recurrent headaches. As the symptoms worsened, nausea and trouble walking straightened out. When Isabella woke up one day in late October and started vomiting blood, her condition took a sharp turn for the worse. At first, her problems were thought to be caused by vertigo. She contacted her sister, who then alerted their entire family, as soon as she realized something was really wrong.
Isabella has fought cancer with incredible strength since learning of her illness. She gave a positive update in a recent YouTube video, revealing that she will only require four chemotherapy cycles as opposed to the original six. Knowing that Isabella is halfway through her therapy, the burden on her shoulders began to ease, and she shed these happy tears.
I’ll finish up in May. Isabella grinned and said, “And I can kind of try and have a summer to feel better.” And I’m overjoyed since I had assumed I would be finished by the end of July. My goal was to complete six rounds in all. After that, I would actually have to return to school immediately. I’m overjoyed.
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