Sonia Todd of Moscow, Idaho, died of cancer at the young age of 38. But knowing the end was near, she decided to write her own obituary before passing away. As she explained, obituaries were usually written a couple of different ways that she simply didn’t care for. So, as one of her last acts on this earth, she put pen to paper and decided for herself how her obituary would read.
The result of Sonia confronting her own mortality as she penned her obituary was a piece full of humor as well as wisdom, appearing in the Moscow-Pullman Daily News. The words were so honest and inspirational that long after her death, they will still ring true, giving others something to aspire to. Ironically, Sonia wrote, “I never really accomplished anything of note.” How wrong she was. The truth expressed in the obituary she wrote proved to be quite an accomplishment in and of itself.
“Other than giving birth to my two wonderful, lovable, witty and amazing sons (James and Jason), marrying my gracious, understanding and precious husband (Brian), and accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior – I have done very little. None of which requires obit space that I have to shell out money for,” Sonia Todd began, explaining why she was writing her obituary and why it wouldn’t be like others.
Adding that she didn’t want a bunch of her loved ones sitting around to write a glowing report of her, which she says would be “filled with fish tales, half-truths, impossible scenarios, and out-right-honest-to-goodness-lies,” Sonia explained she simply didn’t like putting people in those kinds of situations. With the explanation out of the way, she got to her version of the truth about her own life.
“I just tried to do the best I could. Sometimes I succeeded, most of the time I failed, but I tried. For all of my crazy comments, jokes and complaints, I really did love people. The only thing that separates me from anyone else is the type of sin each of us participated in. I didn’t always do the right thing or say the right thing and when you come to the end of your life those are the things you really regret, the small simple things that hurt other people,” Sonia admitted.
Although she said that she mostly enjoyed life, she also said it wasn’t perfect and that she encountered many bumps in the road, especially in her teens and early 20s. Even though some parts of her life were harder than others, Sonia said, “I learned something from every bad situation and I couldn’t do any more than that.” She also claimed there were benefits to dying young. Jokingly, she wrote, “I still owe on my student loans and the jokes on them cuz I’m not paying them. Plus, I am no longer afraid of serial killers, telemarketers or the IRS.”Addressing the fact that some people have told her that writing her own obituary is morbid, Sonia Todd continued, “I think it is great because I get a chance to say thank you to all the people who helped me along the way. Those who loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile.”
It was the conclusion of her obituary that was the most important, however. Sonia encouraged others to change their lives. “If you think of me, and would like to do something in honor of my memory do this: Volunteer at a school, church or library. Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive effect on your life. If you smoke – quit. If you drink and drive – stop,” she wrote.
Her advise continued, “Turn off the electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it. Stop at all lemonade-stands run by kids and brag about their product. Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so.”
Today seems like a good day to honor Sonia’s memory by completing some of these simple requests and reminding others to do the same. Luckily for us, we still have time for these things. And, thankfully, with her dying wish, Sonia Todd left us these words of wisdom that few realize until it’s too late
Shocking Moments at the Olympics: Athlete Scores Zero in Diving
There are usually moments of success and disappointment during the Olympics. This year is no exception, with competitors vying for gold hailing from all across the world. But some sportsmen are more unfortunate than others in their circumstances. In one such instance, an Olympic diver’s perfect score startled onlookers.
Olympic women’s 3m springboard diver Alison Gibson of Team USA produced a devastating performance in the preliminary round. Her feet collided with the springboard on her debut dive, resulting in an agonizing error that left the spectators in shock. Sadly, the impact damaged her form, and she placed last among the 28 participants. She was disappointed to learn that she received a score of 0.0 for the dive from the judges.
Later on, Alison talked about the discomfort she felt during the dive. She’s still determined to keep doing what she loves in spite of the setback. She wants everyone witnessing to understand the perseverance required to move forward even when things don’t go according to plan. Alison thinks that every experience can be used to grow and learn, and she wants the athletes of the future to know that they can persevere bravely through difficult times.
These kinds of situations serve as a reminder of the highs and lows of the Olympic Games. In addition to applauding the wins and celebrating the successes, we should recognize the tenacity and will displayed by sportspeople like Alison Gibson. Their experiences encourage us to persevere and never give up in the face of difficulties.
Now let’s examine a few more noteworthy Olympic moments:
Yusuf Dikec of Turkey Wins Silver Medal “Without Equipment”
Turkish athlete Yusuf Dikec approached his sport in a unique way. During his event, he was seen appearing quite at ease, with one hand in his pocket and no shooting gear on. His relaxed approach paid off, and he and his partner unexpectedly took home the silver medal.
With a 100-meter personal best, Noah Lyles
American sprinter Noah Lyles won the 100-meter event with amazing style. He won by a mere 0.005 seconds, setting a new personal best time of 9.784 seconds. Taking less than ten seconds for all eight competitors to reach the finish line made this race the fastest-ever competition.
A chaotic 5000-meter race
During the 5000m race, a number of competitors staggered and fell face down onto the track, causing mayhem. Hugo Hay, a French runner, and George Mills of Team GB were among them. After the event, Mills had some harsh words to say to Hay, demonstrating the players’ intensity and rivalry.
Unforgettable Moment with Snoop Dogg
When Snoop Dogg arrived at the Grand Prix Special dressage team at the Olympics wearing breeches, a dressage tailcoat, and a hard hat, he made an impression. His distinct appearance and mannerisms gave the occasion a dash of excitement and fun.
These are only a handful of the many remarkable moments from the Olympics this year. We see amazing tales of tenacity and devotion from the Games, from unexpected triumphs to unanticipated obstacles. With their zeal, the athletes motivate us and serve as a constant reminder that anything is achievable with willpower and perseverance.
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