As parents, we tend to teach our children to know right from wrong, but oftentimes, because of different reasons, we fail. One father learned that his daughter was bullying a girl who had cancer at school. Things went far and she even pulled the girl’s wig off. This made the father angry so he decided to take matters in his own hands and punished his daughter in a way that caused a stir, as well as mixed emotions, on the Internet. Since many slammed him for how he dealt with his bully daughter, the father later deleted the post.
“My ex-wife and I have a 16-year-old daughter together of which I have full custody (she has moved on with her new family)… My daughter recently got in trouble at school for making fun of a student that lost her hair from cancer treatment. Including pulling off her wig,” he started his post.
“Apparently there is some pre-existing bad blood between the two of them, but I don’t think that even begins to excuse her behavior.”
As it turned out, his daughter was now dating this other girl’s ex-boyfriend and that was the reason why they weren’t fond of each other.
“At some point the other girl mentioned how my daughter’s boyfriend was just using her for sex (this was actually a big shock to me as I had no idea she was sexually active) and called my daughter a sl*t,” the father shared with CafeMom. “That’s what escalated the situation and resulted in the wig incident. Supposedly they have been arguing in class ever since my daughter started dating the guy in question. Basically just stupid teenage ‘he said she said’ nonsense.”After he learned of what was going on and what his daughter did, he gave her two options to choose from in order to teach her a lesson. The first one was for him to throw all her electronics away, and the second one was for her to go to the hairdresser and get a bald haircut. The daughter chose the latter and went to school with a bald head.
“…Everyone thinks I went way overboard. Her mother went ballistic at me saying it will make her the target of bullying (kind of the point, teach her some compassion),” the father wrote.
He believed he did just the right thing, but not many agreed with him. A lot of people took their time to comment on the situation. One person wrote: “Your daughter is a bully because you are a bully. I seriously doubt this is the first time you used abuse and humiliation to ‘teach her a lesson.’” Another person added: “There’s a term for what you did. It’s called child abuse. Taking away her electronics would have been an appropriate punishment. Grounding her would have been an appropriate punishment. Disrespecting her right to bodily autonomy and humiliating her is not an appropriate punishment. She’s unlikely to learn from it and if anything it risks perpetuating a cycle of bullying.”
However, there were also those who praised his parenting. “I support your decision completely. You’re her parent so you have every right to do this, it’s not abusive, it’s real life. If she’s comfortable attacking someone for something they have no choice over she needs to see how it feels,” someone in support of the father wrote.
“She will see what kind of impact actions like hers have on the victim and that will teach her a very important lesson,” another supporter added.
So, what do you think? Do you believe the father went too far with the punishment? Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.
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Supercharge Your Hair Growth with Japanese-Inspired Potato Juice Treatment
Hair growth is a common concern for many of us as we age. But what if we told you that there’s a secret remedy that can potentially boost hair growth? It’s time to uncover the Japanese-inspired potato juice treatment for hair growth!
Potatoes are not only delicious, but they’re also packed with vitamins and minerals that are beneficial for promoting healthy hair growth and preventing hair loss. They contain vitamin C, niacin, and iron, which are all essential for nurturing your hair’s health.
How to Make Potato Juice
To harness the power of potato juice, follow these simple steps:
- Start by washing 1-2 large potatoes thoroughly to remove any dirt and pesticides. Cleanliness is key!
- Peel the potatoes to avoid any bitterness that the skin might impart.
- Take a fine grater and grate the peeled potatoes over a bowl. This will help us extract the juice.
- Squeeze the grated potato over a fine mesh strainer or a cheesecloth to extract the juice into a separate bowl. If you have a juicer, you can also use that for convenience.
How to Apply Potato Juice for Hair Growth
Once you have your potato juice ready, it’s time to apply it to your scalp. Follow these steps for best results:
- Using your fingers or a cotton ball, apply the potato juice directly to your scalp. Make sure to massage it gently to ensure complete coverage.
- Leave the juice on your scalp for at least 20-30 minutes. This will allow your scalp to absorb all the nourishing nutrients from the juice.
- After the waiting period, rinse your hair thoroughly with lukewarm water. If you find the scent strong or your hair feels sticky, you can follow up with a mild shampoo.
Frequency and Benefits
Consistency is key when it comes to natural remedies for hair growth. For optimal results, apply this treatment at least once a week. Here are some of the incredible benefits you can expect:
- Vitamin C in potatoes helps build collagen, which is crucial for hair growth.
- Niacin (Vitamin B3) promotes better circulation to the scalp, potentially leading to improved hair growth.
- Iron is essential for reducing hair loss, and potatoes provide this mineral in modest amounts.
Important Note
While many people find natural remedies like potato juice helpful for hair growth, it’s important to note that results may vary. If you have underlying scalp issues or experience irritation, it’s always best to consult with a dermatologist.
Give your hair the TLC it deserves with this simple and natural potato juice treatment. Nurture your hair’s health and promote faster growth with this Japanese-inspired secret. Try it out and embrace your luscious locks!
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