Sabrina, an 18-year-old girl, felt ashamed of her father, Pete, a coal miner. With her graduation party just two days away, she was determined to keep him from attending. The thought of his sooty face and coal-stained hands embarrassed her; she feared that her friends would mock her because of him.
When Pete came home with two gifts, a stunning dress and a suit for himself, Sabrina thanked him but quickly expressed her wish for him not to come to the ceremony. She believed that her friends came from prestigious backgrounds and didn’t want her father to detract from her special day. Hurt by her words, Pete silently respected her wishes, even though he was eager to celebrate her accomplishment.
On graduation day, Sabrina arranged for a friend to drive her, insisting again that Pete stay away. However, he couldn’t bear to miss such a monumental moment in her life. Sneaking into the event, he took a seat in the parents’ section, excitedly cheering for her.
When the time came for Sabrina to receive her diploma, Pete jumped up to film her, shouting words of pride. Sabrina was mortified to see him there and wished the ceremony would end. Suddenly, the host called Pete to the stage. Confused and anxious, Sabrina watched as her father took the microphone.
He began by showcasing a heartfelt slideshow filled with memories of their life together, including pictures from her childhood. As the images played, he expressed his love for her, recalling her mother and emphasizing how proud he was of Sabrina’s achievements.
Overcome with emotion, Sabrina began to cry. She ran to her father, apologizing for her harsh words. In that moment, she realized how much he had sacrificed for her and that his love had never wavered, despite her previous shame.
As they embraced, Pete revealed a long-kept secret: her mother was alive and living nearby. This revelation shocked Sabrina, who had always believed her mother was dead. Pete explained that he raised her alone after their divorce, as her mother had insisted he could choose to keep her or leave her behind.
Sabrina, feeling a mix of regret and gratitude, apologized for her earlier behavior. She recognized the depth of her father’s sacrifices and the love he had poured into raising her. From that day on, she no longer felt ashamed of Pete; instead, she was proud to be his daughter. The experience taught her to appreciate the sacrifices made by those who love her, understanding that true worth lies in character, not appearance.
Why Do Married Couples in Japan Sleep Separately
Smaller houses and apartments don’t stop many Japanese couples from sleeping in different beds or even rooms. This is not some kind of an intimate issue or problem with the relationship, but something that they believe is good for them.
We at Bright Side found out why married couples in Japan choose to sleep separately, and we really like their reasons.
They have different sleep schedules.
The first thing that makes Japanese couples decide to go to bed separately is different work schedules. Waking up your significant other just because you got home late from work or have to leave early won’t result in good quality rest for them. This is why spending the night in a different room makes sense. This will give them both an undisturbed and healthier sleep.
Babies sleep with their mothers.
Japanese mothers sleep with their children and this is considered very important, so the father needs to decide if he wants to share the same bed or go to a different room. Even science has proven that co-sleeping can help parents and children get a more restful sleep. It helps the child to maintain a stable temperature and heart rate (which is really critical in infancy) and at the same time, it decreases the chance of sudden infant death syndrome. Also, this contributes to the child having better self-esteem, becoming independent faster, and doing great in school.
For them, sleeping separately means peace.
While many couples who start to sleep alone think that divorce is at their door, the Japanese see it differently. They value their sleep a lot and they don’t want to be disturbed while sleeping. This means that they don’t need and don’t like to put up with snoring, restless sleep, kicking, etc. Even though some don’t have the opportunity to sleep in different rooms, they still wish they could get their beauty sleep.
Couples have a history of sleeping separately.
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Futons are filled with cotton, which provides support and comfort. In the past, only single sized ones were used as beds. So, even if you wanted to cuddle up with your loved one, you would have ended up between the sheets, on the cold floor, and you wouldn’t feel comfortable. Today there are families that still use this type of bedding, especially because it doesn’t take up a lot of space and it is easy to store.
Do you sleep separately from your partner? Do you think this type of practice might be even better for your relationship?
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