I Finally Found Love in My 40s, but My Boyfriend Disappeared When I Needed Him the Most

At 42, Anya finally dares to love again, only to be met with silence from the man who promised to be there. He vanishes without a word when she needs him the most, leaving her questioning if love is worth the risk after all.

I’ve built a life most would call complete. A successful career as an architect, good friends, and a steady rhythm to my days.

Yet, I’d often feel so lonely in my quiet apartment. My friends would tell me it was about time I found a partner, but I’d never agree.

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A woman sitting in her house | Source: Midjourney

“Anya, when was the last time you went on a date?” my friend Lisa teased one day.

“Oh, I think my soulmate must be my drafting table at this point.” I laughed it off, but deep down, her words struck a nerve.

She rolled her eyes. “Come on, seriously. Don’t you miss having someone around?”

I forced a half-smile. “I don’t think it’s in the cards for me. Too much history, too much… complication.”

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A woman talking to a friend | Source: Midjourney

I was 25 the last time I was in love.

My high school sweetheart, Stephan, and I had dreams as big as the sky. But life happened. My mom passed away, and grief consumed me.

I still remember Stephan’s last words before he left.

“Anya, I can’t do this anymore,” he’d said in a cold voice. “You’ve changed. You’re just too sad, and I need someone who’s happy. I need someone who’s there for me. Not someone who just spends her entire day crying!”

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A young man sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney

I couldn’t believe it. Instead of staying with me during the worst time of my life, Stephan chose to walk away.

I didn’t even ask him to stay back. I cried like a baby the night he left me.

However, I soon picked up the broken pieces of my heart and tried to distract my mind by focusing on my work.

As years passed, I told myself I didn’t need a man to be happy. I had a thriving career and became the strong, independent woman I’d dreamed of.

But deep down, I’d feel the ache for something more whenever I’d see couples on the street.

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A couple walking on the street | Source: Pexels

Lately, though, it wasn’t just the loneliness bothering me. I’d feel worn down and fatigued and would often get headaches and spells of dizziness.

Lisa and some others nudged me to see a doctor, but I brushed it off as stress from work. After all, a few aches were nothing compared to what I’d been through, right?

A few weeks after Lisa’s pep talk, I found myself at a neighborhood charity event. It was one of those pop-up art galleries that featured local artists.

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People in an art gallery | Source: Pexels

I was standing in front of a watercolor painting of a misty mountain when a deep, cheerful voice spoke beside me.

“Not bad, right? Although the brushwork here is, uh, interesting.”

I looked over, meeting the eyes of a man with a mischievous grin and an infectious energy that caught me off guard.

“I’d say unique,” I replied, raising an eyebrow. “I take it you’re an art critic in disguise?”

“History professor, actually,” he laughed. “Liam’s the name. And you?”

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A man standing in an art gallery | Source: Midjourney

“Anya,” I said, trying not to smile too much. But something about him drew me in. I guess it was his intelligence.

As we talked, his sense of humor and insight made me feel instantly comfortable. I learned he was a history professor, just 35, but surprisingly mature for his age.

Unlike other men I’d known, he didn’t rush to impress or make advances.

He seemed genuinely interested in art, and in me, without any hidden agenda. There was something refreshingly steady about him.

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A man talking to a woman | Source: Midjourney

I told myself he was just a nice guy I’d chat with once and then forget. But that turned out to be wishful thinking.

Over the next few weeks, we kept running into each other at different places. We even started meeting up on purpose.

I found myself looking forward to seeing him in a way I hadn’t felt in years.

One evening at the diner, we were talking over coffee when I asked him about his family.

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A woman holding her coffee | Source: Pexels

“They, uh, they’re a bit different,” he told me. “And I don’t see them often.”

He didn’t elaborate, and quickly changed the topic. He rarely mentioned them after that.

It was strange, but I didn’t push. I understood the need to keep some things close to the chest.

Soon, our friendship blossomed into something deeper, something I hadn’t let myself feel in years. Every time I’d catch myself replaying our conversations in my head, I knew it was more than just companionship.

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A woman standing in her kitchen | Source: Midjourney

Liam and I were together now. He was my boyfriend, though saying it out loud still felt surreal.

One afternoon, we met up for lunch at a small diner. In the background, the TV was showing a weather report.

Suddenly, I noticed Liam’s attention snap to the screen as the reporter announced, “Cosolia is expected to have a bout of bad weather. Prepare your umbrellas, folks, because this isolated town is sure to become even more closed off with the upcoming rain…”

Liam’s focus sharpened at the mention of the small town.

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A man standing in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney

Meanwhile, I’d never heard of the place before.

“You know the place?” I asked.

“Oh, yeah, uh, I’ve been there a few times,” he said. “I didn’t know they were going to have rain right now. Anyway, what are we having for lunch?”

He quickly changed the topic, but it didn’t bother me. I thought it was just the historian in him who was fascinated with odd places.

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A man looking away while talking to a woman | Source: Midjourney

After a wonderful evening with Liam, I found myself feeling unusually dizzy and faint. This was different. It was worse than the usual fatigue I’d brushed off as work stress.

My head felt heavy, and for a moment, my vision blurred. That was the day I finally decided it was time to see a doctor.

Sitting in the sterile waiting room, I kept telling myself it was nothing serious.

Just stress, just work, I thought. You’re gonna be okay.

But the doctor’s expression told me otherwise.

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A doctor studying a report | Source: Pexels

He explained that the tests showed I had Multiple Sclerosis. The words didn’t sink in right away.

“It’s probably just stress, right?” I laughed weakly.

The doctor told me to calm down before he explained more.

He said words like “tests,” “rare”, and “serious,” but I have no idea what he told me. I could only feel my heart pound against my chest as I looked at him.

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A woman in a doctor’s office | Source: Midjourney

At that point, I thought of Liam. He was the one person who’d brought light back into my life. Maybe he’d know what to say to make this all feel less terrifying.

As I left the doctor’s office, I felt tears stream down my cheeks. I quickly sat inside my car and typed out a message to Liam.

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A woman using her phone | Source: Pexels

Liam, I need to tell you something. I was at the doctor’s today… they diagnosed me with Multiple Sclerosis. I’m so scared. I don’t even know where to start dealing with this. I thought I’d be okay, but I’m not. I could really use your support right now, babe. Please meet me.

I hit send, praying he’d respond quickly.

Hours passed, though, and my phone stayed silent. By the time night turned to dawn, I was nearly sick with worry.

Maybe he doesn’t want to deal with this, I thought.

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A worried woman in her house | Source: Midjourney

Day one turned into day two, then day three, and still, there was no word.

He’s gone silent. Maybe he’s busy, but it’s been days. What if… what if he doesn’t want to deal with this? The thought hit me again, hard. I was alone again.

Memories of Stephan flooded back and his cold words echoed in my mind. “You’re just too sad, and I need someone who’s happy.”

Was I about to lose Liam the same way?

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A worried woman | Source: Midjourney

Desperation took over, and I combed through his social media, looking for any sign of life. I called him repeatedly, but it went to voicemail. I even went to his apartment, but his neighbor told me he’d left suddenly.

“Why would he just leave without a word? Did my illness scare him that much?” I whispered to myself.

The pain of abandonment was too familiar. I was convinced Liam had chosen to walk away, just when I needed him the most.

On the fourth day, just as I was starting to accept that Liam had disappeared, my phone finally rang. His name lit up the screen.

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A woman looking at her phone | Source: Midjourney

“Anya, I’m so sorry. I had to leave in such a rush,” he started, his voice sounding strained and exhausted. “My grandmother… she lives in Cosolia. She got really sick, and I just—”

Cosolia. That small town on the weather report, the one that had captured his attention at the diner. It all clicked, but the anger I’d felt these past days pushed through.

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A woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

“Do you have any idea what that did to me, Liam?” I interrupted. “You just vanished. I thought… I thought you were gone. Like everyone else.”

There was a pause, and his voice softened when he spoke again.

“I know, Anya. And I hate that I put you through that. I wanted to reach out, but everything went wrong. The storm knocked out all the power, the roads flooded… I couldn’t get to you.” His words poured out in a rush. “I couldn’t even find a working phone. The whole area was cut off.”

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A man talking on the phone | Source: Pexels

Was he telling the truth? I wondered, feeling a flicker of doubt. Why hadn’t he ever mentioned this grandmother before? Or even that she lived in Cosolia? And what about all those times I’d asked about his family… why had he dodged my questions? Was he hiding more? My mind raced with questions, one after another. Should I trust him?

“Anya? Are you there?” His voice broke into my thoughts, pulling me back.

I took a breath. “Why didn’t you ever tell me about your family, Liam? Every time I asked, you brushed it off.”

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A woman talking to her boyfriend on the phone | Source: Midjourney

“Because…” he sighed. “I was ashamed. My family doesn’t have much. They live in a small town, and I thought you’d see me differently if you knew. My life’s messy, Anya. I didn’t want you to see that part of me.”

I stayed quiet for a moment, letting his words sink in. The sincerity in his words felt real.

“Liam,” I said softly, “I’m not the kind of person who judges someone for where they come from or how much they have. I care about you for who you are.”

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A woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

“Thank you, Anya,” he said before taking a deep breath. “That… means everything to me. I’ll be back by tomorrow. And I’ll be here for you, for whatever you need.”

When Liam returned the next day, he came straight to my place. We sat on the couch and talked about everything. About my diagnosis, his family, and our fears.

And for the first time, I let down my walls completely.

“I don’t want to be a burden, Liam,” I said quietly, tears brimming. “You didn’t sign up for this…”

He took my hand and looked straight into my eyes.

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A man holding his girlfriend’s hands | Source: Pexels

“Anya, life isn’t about ‘signing up’ for things. It throws us surprises. Good and bad. And I’m not going anywhere.” He squeezed my hand gently. “You don’t have to do this alone. I’ll be here with you, for as long as you need me.”

Tears streamed down my cheeks as I looked at him.

“I’m so sorry for putting you through this, Liam,” I managed to say between sobs. “I…”

He wrapped his arms around me, holding me close. It was exactly the kind of hug I needed at that moment.

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A man hugging his girlfriend | Source: Pexels

A few days later, Liam drove me to my next doctor’s appointment. He opened the door for me and held my hand as we entered the office.

For the first time in years, I had someone standing by my side during one of the lowest points of my life. Someone who wouldn’t leave if I cried too much. Someone who was ready to accept both the good and the messy sides of me.

I don’t know what I did to deserve a person like Liam. He’s the best thing that has ever happened to me.

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A man smiling at his girlfriend | Source: Midjourney

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BROKEN HEARTS

LOVED Saoírse Ruane, who was on The Late Late Toy Show, died of cancer when she was only 12.

The brave girl from Galway, whose appearance on the Toy Show won hearts across the country, died on Tuesday, her family said this morning.

Saoírse was diagnosed with cancer in November 2019 after complaining of an injured ankle. In 2020, her leg was cut off because an Osteosarcoma tumor in her tibia was found to be cancerous and likely to kill her.

When Saoírse joined Ryan Tubridy on the Late Late Toy Show in 2020, her story became well known.

The Galway girl’s fight against a rare form of bone cancer amazed everyone with how strong and tough she was.

The death of Saoírse has broken the hearts of her parents, Roseanna and Ollie, and her little sister Farrah-Rose.

They told everyone about their terrible loss by saying, “After a long brave and dignified battle, our hearts are shattered to tell you that our beautiful little Saoírse took her last breath in our arms on Tuesday.”

“Thank you to all of our wonderful fans for thinking about Saoírse and us over the past few weeks.

“Today, we also think of you because we know how much the country loved Saoírse and how she changed the lives of so many people.”

“Cancer, you took her away from us. You also took away our dreams and the life we had.” Things will never be the same!

Please give us some space as we go on our last and final trip with our beautiful girl. “Farrah Rose and Mamma Dadda.”

President Michael D. Higgins and stars from all over show business have paid tribute to the beloved girl. Her story was told on The Toy Show the first year they started their huge charity campaign.

through her battle, Saoírse’s family gave a “devastating” health update in November of last year, saying that her cancer had spread.

After a recurring tumor was found in her left lung earlier in 2023, they said it was a “huge shock” to them that the cancer had spread to her other lung.

It was Saoírse’s “biggest battle to date” because she had to go through more chemotherapy.

In April, Roseanna said, “Little did they know that their world was about to fall apart again.”
“To say we’re devastated just doesn’t cover it,” she said. It’s not fair that she’s been to war so many times and fought so hard.

Saoírse had already had a few dreams come true, like going to Old Trafford to see Manchester United play and going on her dream vacation to Disneyland.
When people heard that Saoírse had died, they sent her a lot of tributes.
The office of President Michael D. Higgins said, “President Higgins has sent his deepest condolences to the family of Saoírse Ruane from Kiltullagh, Co. Galway, after her death at the age of 12.” Everyone was moved by Saoírse’s strength and kindness.
Tanaiste Micheal Martin also said, “Very saddened by the death of Saoírse Ruane.”
“I will always remember meeting Saoirse and her mother Roseanna in Croke Park and seeing her beautiful smile and love for GAA.”
“The Toy Show Appeal is an amazing thing she left behind.” We’re very sorry for her family and friends’ loss.
Tubs’ tears
After Saoirse’s appearance on The Toy Show, Ryan Tubridy, who used to host Late Late, became friends with her family. He said that the “world is a poorer place” without her.

According to him, hearing the news of his dear young friend Saoírse Ruane’s death made him feel the saddest thoughts possible.
“As soon as we met, we became friends.” People all over the country fell in love with her, and because of her, a charity was founded. Through this, she helped make the lives of thousands of Irish children better and more hopeful.
“A child who is selfless, humble, kind, hopeful, and thoughtful.” She was everything our country should and could be, and her death will make a lot of us think about things.
“My condolences and all the love I can muster go out to Roseanna, Ollie, and Farrah Rose. They are a beautiful family whose whole world has been turned upside down by this tragedy.”
“Thank them for letting us all know about their amazing Saorse.”
“The world is a poorer place without Saoírse but I do hope that twinkle in her eye shines on and on.”
The legacy of Saoírse
Roz Purcell, a radio host on RTE 2FM, said, “No one will forget Saoírse; she left a huge mark and mark on Ireland.”
“In 12 years, she did so much.” May she rest in peace. Think about all of her family and friends who will miss her a lot.
Patrick O’Mahony, the captain of Ireland’s rugby team, said, “I’m very sorry to read this.” She was an inspiration.
Rosana, I’m so sorry, said Kathryn Thomas of RTE. Your lovely daughter made our lives so much better.
“A small part of what she brought into your life.” That smile is great. Thinking about all of you. “Take it easy, little angel.”

Today FM It was DJ Declan Pierce who wrote, “My beautiful friend. It breaks my heart so much.
“The best thing about my job is getting to know Saoírse through the radio show. From the bottom of my heart, I love you all the time.
Singer RuthAnne wrote on her blog, “Heartbroken. She was truly unique, and her bravery knew no bounds.”
“I am so thankful that I met her and had the chance to sing with her. What an honor!”
“That is something I will always treasure and hold close to my heart. Lots of love and light to everyone.”
Saoirse’s funeral will be held at St. Peter and Paul’s Church, Kiltullagh, on Sunday at 1.45 p.m.
It also said, “Saoírse will rest at home on Friday, March 8, from 2 p.m. to 8 p.m.”
“From the Bullaun Church parking lot (H62 YH66), a bus service will leave. Please follow the stewards’ instructions and only use the bus service to get to the event.”

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