I Was the Only One from My Family Who Wasn’t Invited to My Cousin’s Wedding—When I Learned Why, I Lost It

Everyone in my family was invited to my cousin’s wedding — except me. I showed up anyway, thinking it was a mistake. But when my cousin pulled me aside and told me the real reason she didn’t want me there… I swear, I’ve never felt anything hit me like that.

I stared at my reflection in the full-length mirror, smoothing down the lilac fabric of my new dress. The subtle sparkles caught the light as I turned, a small smile playing on my lips. For once, I felt pretty and wanted.

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Portrait of a gorgeous woman in a lilac dress | Source: Midjourney

“Kylie, are you ready?” Mom called from downstairs. “We need to leave in 10 minutes!”

“Almost!” I shouted back, giving my curled hair one final spritz of hairspray.

This was Debra’s big day. She was my cousin, my childhood best friend, and practically my sister growing up. I couldn’t wait to see her walk down the aisle.

My phone buzzed with a text from my sister, Emma.

“Already at the venue. Where are you guys?”

I typed back quickly: “On our way. Save me a seat!”

Little did I know, there wouldn’t be a seat for me at all.

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A delighted woman looking at her phone | Source: Midjourney

“You look beautiful, sweetie,” Dad said as I descended the stairs. “That dress is worth every penny of your babysitting money.”

I twirled, feeling the fabric swish around my knees. “Thanks, Dad. I wanted to look nice for Debra’s photos.”

Mom smiled, ushering us toward the door. “Let’s go celebrate her wedding!”

“I can’t believe Debra is actually getting married,” I said, sliding into the backseat of our sedan. “Seems like just yesterday we were playing dress-up with her mom’s clothes.”

“You girls grew up too fast,” Mom sighed, adjusting her necklace in the rearview mirror. “Time flies.”

Dad turned the key in the ignition. “Let’s make some new memories today.”

If only he knew what kind of memories we’d be making.

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A man driving a car | Source: Pexels

The venue was stunning. A renovated barn with fairy lights strung across wooden beams, and white roses and baby’s breath adorned every surface. Guests in formal wear milled about, champagne flutes in hand.

I spotted my brother, Ryan, near the entrance and waved.

“Hey, sis,” he said, ruffling my hair. “You look nice.”

I swatted his hand away. “Don’t mess up my curls! I spent forever on them.”

“Have you seen Debra yet?” Mom asked.

Ryan shook his head. “Emma’s with the bridal party. I think they’re in some room in the back.”

I fidgeted with excitement. “I’m going to say hi before the ceremony.”

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An excited woman in a wedding venue | Source: Midjourney

I weaved through clusters of guests, smiling politely at distant relatives and strangers alike. The hallway to the bridal suite was quiet, away from the growing crowd. I smoothed my dress one more time before knocking.

A bridesmaid I didn’t recognize opened the door, her perfectly contoured face registering confusion. “Yes?”

“I’m Kylie, Debra’s cousin. Is she in there?”

The girl turned. “Deb, your cousin is here.”

There was a pause, then Debra appeared in the doorway. She looked breathtaking in her white gown, her hair swept up elegantly. But when her eyes met mine, her smile faded.

“Kylie? What are you doing here?”

The question hit me like a slap. “What do you mean? I came for your wedding.”

A shocked bride | Source: Midjourney

A shocked bride | Source: Midjourney

Her eyes darted past me, then she stepped into the hallway, pulling the door closed behind her.

“Why did you come?” she asked in a low voice.

I blinked, confused. “What do you mean? The invitation was for the family. I thought I was —”

“I didn’t invite you.”

The words hung between us, sharp and cold.

“What… why?”

Before she could answer, footsteps approached, and a handsome man in a tuxedo appeared. It was Brian, the groom. His face lit up when he saw me.

“Hey! So glad you came! Debra told me you couldn’t make it. Nice surprise!”

I looked at him, then at Debra, whose face had gone pale.

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A man smiling | Source: Midjourney

“Brian, can you give us a second?” she asked nervously.

He shrugged, leaned in to kiss her cheek, and walked away whistling.

Debra turned back to me, her arms crossed. “Like you don’t know?”

“Know what? Debra, what are you talking about?”

She sighed heavily, glancing around to make sure no one was listening.

“When Brian’s family first saw pictures of you… the Christmas party ones? They kept asking who you were. Said you were so young and beautiful, asked if you were a model. When I said you were also studying engineering and acing it, they were even more impressed.”

I stared at her, uncomprehending. This couldn’t be happening.

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A stunned woman | Source: Midjourney

“And then his mother said, ‘Are you sure she’s the cousin and not the bride? I smiled through it, but I was dying inside. I wanted them to focus on ME. On MY engagement. Not YOU.”

“You didn’t invite me because… because you thought I’d look better than you?”

“You wouldn’t understand. You’ve always been the pretty and smart one. Everything comes easy to you.”

“Easy? You think my life is easy? I work my butt off for my grades. And pretty? I’ve spent most of high school feeling invisible!”

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A distressed woman looking at someone with disbelief | Source: Midjourney

“Well, you’re not invisible to Brian’s family,” she snapped. “I didn’t want you to come and… steal the spotlight, okay? I didn’t want you to outshine me on my own wedding day.”

The unfairness of it all crashed over me. All this time I thought we were growing apart because she was busy with college, Brian, and her adult life. But it was jealousy… over things I couldn’t even control.

“So that’s why you’ve been so distant? Because you’re jealous? I thought we were family.”

“We are. But you wouldn’t understand.”

“No, I don’t. I don’t understand how you could exclude only me from your wedding. How you could let me get dressed up, excited to celebrate you, only to tell me I’m not wanted because I might what? Be too pretty? Too smart? What did you tell everyone else about why I wasn’t invited?”

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An emotionally overwhelmed woman | Source: Midjourney

“I said you had a conflict,” she mumbled. “A school thing.”

I shook my head in disbelief. “That’s messed up, Debra.”

A tear slipped down my cheek. I wiped it away, careful not to smudge my mascara. “If you feel better without me here, I’ll leave. I didn’t mean to make your day harder. But I never thought being me would make you feel so small. That breaks my heart more than anything.”

Debra’s eyes welled up, and before I could step back, she pulled me into a hug.

“I’m sorry. I just… I let my insecurity get the best of me. I’ve been so stressed about this wedding and fitting in with Brian’s family. They’re all so perfect and polished… and I feel like I’m not good enough.”

A guilty bride | Source: Midjourney

A guilty bride | Source: Midjourney

I stood stiffly in her embrace, unsure how to respond. Part of me wanted to forgive her immediately because this was Debra, who had braided my hair and taught me how to dance. But another part felt deeply wounded.

“You hurt me. I thought I did something wrong. I’ve been wracking my brain trying to figure out why you’ve been avoiding me all these years. You were still chatty with my siblings like always… but with me, it was like you flipped a switch.”

“I know. I’m sorry. Please stay. Please.”

“Are you sure? What about Brian’s family?”

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A sad woman | Source: Midjourney

“Screw what they think,” she said, a flash of the old Debra returning. “You’re my family. I want you here. I’ve been so stupid. Please forgive me… please.”

A bridesmaid poked her head out. “Deb, it’s almost time.”

Debra nodded, then turned back to me. “Will you stay?”

I looked at her, surrounded by luxury, about to marry the man she loved, and still somehow insecure.

“I’ll stay. Not because you asked me to, but because I choose to. For us.”

“Thank you. I need to finish getting ready, but… we’ll talk more later?”

“Go. Be a bride. I’ll be cheering for you.”

She smiled, a real smile this time, before disappearing back into the bridal suite.

A relieved and emotional bride | Source: Midjourney

A relieved and emotional bride | Source: Midjourney

I leaned against the wall, taking deep breaths. What a mess. But at least now I knew the truth.

***

The ceremony was beautiful. I sat with my parents, watching as Debra and Brian exchanged vows beneath an arch of white roses. When they were pronounced husband and wife, I cheered as loudly as anyone.

At the reception, I kept to myself, nursing a glass of sparkling cider near the edge of the dance floor. My brother found me there.

“Why the long face?” Ryan asked, bumping my shoulder with his. “Wedding food not up to your standards?”

I forced a smile. “Just tired.”

“Liar. What’s going on?”

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A suspicious man | Source: Midjourney

I sighed, knowing he wouldn’t let it go. “Did you know Debra didn’t actually invite me?”

Ryan’s eyebrows shot up. “What? Of course she did.”

“No, she didn’t. She only invited you guys. I was supposed to be excluded.”

“But why would she —”

“Because I’m too pretty, apparently,” I said sarcastically. “Brian’s family saw pictures of me and made some comments, and Debra got jealous.”

“That’s ridiculous.”

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A shattered woman running her hand through her hair | Source: Midjourney

“Yeah, well.” I shrugged, trying to seem unbothered. “We talked it out. Sort of.”

“Are you okay?”

I looked across the room to where Debra was laughing with her husband. “I will be. It just… hurts.”

“Want me to go spill some wine on her dress?” Ryan offered, only half-joking.

That made me laugh genuinely. “No. But thanks for the offer.”

“That’s what big brothers are for.” He squeezed my shoulder. “Want to dance? I promise to step on your toes only minimally.”

“Maybe later,” I said. “I think I need some air.”

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An anxious woman lost in deep thought | Source: Midjourney

I slipped outside, the cool evening air a relief after the crowded reception hall. I was about to find a quiet spot to sit when a voice stopped me.

“You must be Kylie.”

I turned to see an elegant older woman in a designer dress, her silver hair styled impeccably.

“Yes, I am,” I replied cautiously.

She smiled. “I’m Eleanor, Brian’s mother. I’ve heard so much about you.”

I bet you have, I thought.

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A smiling older woman | Source: Midjourney

“Your cousin is lovely,” she continued. “Brian adores her. We’re so pleased to welcome her to our family.”

“Debra’s amazing,” I agreed, meaning it despite everything. “She and Brian seem very happy together.”

Eleanor nodded, studying me with interest. “You know, when I first saw your picture, I told Debra you could be a model.”

And there it was. I swallowed hard. “That’s very kind, but I’m focusing on software engineering. I’m starting college in the fall.”

“Engineering! How impressive. Beauty and brains. Your parents must be very proud.”

“I hope so,” I said, uncomfortable with the direction of the conversation.

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A software engineer at work | Source: Unsplash

“I must say,” Eleanor continued, “you’ve handled yourself with such grace today. Not many young women would be so mature.”

I stared at her, confused. “What do you mean?”

She lowered her voice. “I know my son’s wife didn’t originally include you in the festivities. I overheard them arguing about it weeks ago.” She touched my arm. “You have such grace, dear. I admire that.”

So she knew. They all knew. Somehow, that made it both better and worse.

“Thank you,” I managed. “Debra and I… we’ve been close our whole lives. I want her to be happy.”

“Well, I’m glad you’re here, dear. It wouldn’t be a proper family celebration without you.”

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A delighted older lady | Source: Midjourney

I stood frozen as she walked away, processing her words. This woman, who had unintentionally caused the rift between Debra and me, had just given me more validation than my own cousin.

As I moved to the dance floor and joined by my siblings and parents, I realized something important: we all have our insecurities and moments of weakness. Even people who seem to have it all together. The real test isn’t whether we mess up… it’s what we do afterward.

It wasn’t about outshining anyone or being outshone. It was about standing tall without stepping on anyone else. About being secure enough in your own light that you don’t fear someone else’s brightness.

And Debra? She learned that the people who love you the most will only ever want to see you shine… even if it’s not their turn in the spotlight.

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An emotional woman smiling | Source: Midjourney

I Saw My Neighbor Faint While Digging in Her Yard — I Gasped as I Looked into the Hole She Dug

When my 67-year-old neighbor, Mrs. Cartwright, collapsed while frantically digging in her yard, I rushed to help. I wasn’t prepared to uncover a buried wooden box that changed everything.

The sun bathed my quiet street in golden light as I folded laundry by the window. Across the way, Mrs. Cartwright, my elderly neighbor, was in her yard.

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A woman folding laundry | Source: Freepik

She was a petite woman, always wearing neat cardigans and a kind smile. Even at sixty-seven, she had a certain energy, though I knew her health was touchy.

Today, she wasn’t her usual composed self. She was digging. Hard. Her frail arms jabbed a spade into the dirt, sweat staining her blouse. It didn’t look right.

I opened my window and called, “Mrs. Cartwright! Are you okay?”

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A concerned woman looking out of the window | Source: Freepik

She didn’t look up, just kept at it like she didn’t hear me.

“Do you need help?” I tried again, louder.

Still no answer.

I watched her, uneasy. Maybe she was fine? I started to pull the window shut when she suddenly stopped, dropped the spade, and threw up her hands.

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An elderly woman and a newly dug hole | Source: Midjourney

“Finally!” she cried out. Then, like a puppet with its strings cut, she crumpled to the ground.

“Mrs. Cartwright!” My voice cracked. I bolted out the door, sprinting to her yard.

Her thin body lay sprawled by the hole, one hand resting on the edge. I shook her shoulder gently.

She didn’t move.

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An unconscious woman lying on the grass | Source: Midjourney

My heart pounded as I checked her pulse. It was faint but there. Thank God. I leaned in closer, listening for her breath. Slow and shallow, but steady. Relief washed over me.

“Okay, hang on,” I murmured, unsure if she could hear.

While adjusting her head for better airflow, something caught my eye. In the hole she’d been digging, something wooden peeked through the dirt. A box?

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A small wooden box | Source: Pexels

I hesitated. Helping her was the priority. But the box glinted faintly, pulling my focus like a magnet.

“What were you looking for?” I whispered, glancing between her and the hole. My curiosity got the better of me. I reached into the dirt and tugged at the box. It came loose with surprising ease.

The wood was weathered but intact, and the lid creaked as I lifted it. Inside were bundles of letters tied with faded twine. Next to them lay yellowed photographs and a sealed envelope.

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A wooden box with letters | Source: Midjourney

“What…?” My voice trailed off as I pulled out one of the photographs. It showed a young Mrs. Cartwright, smiling beside a man in uniform. Her husband?

I stared, stunned. The letters looked so old, yet they were preserved remarkably well. What kind of story was hidden here?

As I pieced through the contents, a faint groan startled me.

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A woman looking through the contents of the box | Source: Midjourney

“Mrs. Cartwright?” I asked, dropping the photograph. Her eyelids fluttered.

“Mm… where…?” Her voice was raspy.

“You collapsed,” I said softly, kneeling closer. “Just stay still. I’ll call for help.”

“No!” Her hand shot up, gripping my arm with surprising strength. “The box. Is it—” She coughed, struggling to sit up.

An unconscious woman in her backyard | Source: Midjourney

An unconscious woman in her backyard | Source: Midjourney

“It’s here,” I said, pointing. “But you need to rest. Please.”

She ignored me, eyes wide as she reached for the box. “Let me see.”

Reluctantly, I passed it to her. She cradled it like something precious, her frail fingers brushing over the wood.

“Sixty years,” she whispered, tears slipping down her wrinkled cheeks.

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An elderly woman holding a wooden box | Source: Midjourney

“Sixty years?” I asked, confused.

“My husband,” she began, her voice trembling. “He buried this before he went to war. Said it was… a way to keep his dreams safe. He told me to find it… if he didn’t come back.”

I blinked, unable to speak.

“He didn’t come back,” she continued. “And I looked, oh, how I looked. But I couldn’t find it. I thought it was gone forever.”

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A woman holding a letter | Source: Midjourney

Her voice cracked. I stayed quiet, letting her speak.

“But I started dreaming about him again,” she said, her gaze far away. “He told me—’Under the tree, my dove.’ That’s what he called me.” She laughed softly, though tears kept falling. “I didn’t believe it at first. Just a dream, I thought. But something… something told me to dig.”

“And you found it,” I said gently.

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Two women talking with letters in their hands | Source: Midjourney

“Because of you,” she replied, meeting my eyes. “I couldn’t have done it alone.”

I didn’t know what to say. There was so much emotion, so much weight in her words.

“What’s in the letters?” I finally asked.

“Everything,” she whispered, her hands trembling. “Everything he wanted to say but couldn’t.”

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An elderly woman reading a letter | Source: Midjourney

She reached for the envelope, her fingers brushing over its seal.

“Help me open it,” she said, looking at me with eyes full of unspoken gratitude.

She pulled out a letter, carefully unfolding the fragile paper. The sunlight streaming through the trees illuminated the delicate handwriting.

“Can I read it?” I asked gently.

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A woman holding a letter | Source: Pexels

She nodded, handing it to me.

I cleared my throat and began:

“Dear Family,

If you are reading this, it means my dove has found what I left behind. First, know that I loved you all, even those I never had the chance to meet. This world moves fast, and we forget what matters most. But love—love always stays. Take care of one another. Forgive, even when it’s hard. And don’t let time or distance make you strangers.

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A man writing a letter | Source: Pexels

Inside this envelope, I’ve left a locket. Ruthie knows its meaning. Pass it down as a reminder: no matter what life brings, hold on to each other. Love is what lasts.

With all my heart,

Your father and, I hope, grandfather”

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A handwritten letter and flowers | Source: Pexels

I lowered the letter and looked at Mrs. Cartwright. Tears streamed down her cheeks as she reached for the envelope.

Her fingers found a small, intricate locket inside. She opened it, revealing a miniature photo of herself and her husband, smiling as if frozen in a perfect moment. The locket seemed to glow in the sunlight.

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A heart-shaped locket | Source: Pexels

“He always said this would outlast us both,” she whispered, her voice thick with emotion. “And now, here it is.”

“It’s beautiful,” I said.

She turned the locket over in her hands, her face thoughtful. “You should have this.”

My head jerked up. “What? No, Mrs. Cartwright, that’s… this is for your family.”

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Two women talking in the garden | Source: Freepik

“You’re part of this story now,” she insisted, her voice steady despite the emotion behind it. “Robert believed in timing. He believed things came to people when they were meant to. I think he’d want you to have it.”

I hesitated, but the sincerity in her eyes was undeniable. Slowly, I reached out and took the locket, its warmth almost surprising in my palm. “I’ll take care of it,” I promised.

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Holding a heart-shaped locket | Source: Pexels

She smiled softly. “I know you will.”

In the days that followed, Mrs. Cartwright and I spent hours sorting through the letters. Each one painted a vivid picture of her husband’s love, courage, and hope during the war.

“He wrote about everything,” she told me one evening. “How he missed me, how he dreamed of coming home. But most of all, he wanted our family to stay close, no matter what.”

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Two women drinking tea | Source: Freepik

I could see the weight of those words on her face. “Have you thought about sharing these with your family?” I asked.

Her expression faltered. “We haven’t spoken much in years,” she admitted. “After Robert passed, we all drifted apart. There were arguments… regrets.”

“That doesn’t mean it’s too late,” I said gently. “This could be a way to bring them together again.”

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A woman talking to her mother | Source: Pexels

She didn’t respond right away, but the idea seemed to take root.

Two weeks later, Mrs. Cartwright invited her family to a gathering. With her health, she needed help organizing it, and I was more than happy to pitch in.

On the day of the reunion, her living room was transformed into a warm, welcoming space. The letters were arranged on a table, along with the photographs and the locket.

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An elderly woman welcoming her family | Source: Pexels

As her children and grandchildren arrived, there were hesitant smiles and awkward greetings. But once everyone settled in, Mrs. Cartwright stood, her frail frame somehow filled with strength.

“These letters,” she began, her voice trembling but clear, “are from your grandfather. He wrote them during the war and buried them for us to find. They’re his way of reminding us what’s most important.”

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An elderly woman laughing at a family gathering | Source: Pexels

Her oldest son picked up a letter and began to read. As his voice filled the room, emotions ran high. Some cried softly; others smiled through tears.

“I remember this story,” one granddaughter said, holding up a photograph. “Grandma told me about this day!”

Mrs. Cartwright beamed, watching as her family connected over the memories. The locket made its way around the room, each person marveling at the tiny photo inside.

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A happy woman with her friends | Source: Freepik

“Grandpa wanted us to pass this down,” Mrs. Cartwright said as her youngest great-grandchild held the locket. “To remind us to stay close, no matter what.”

As the evening ended, the once-distant family members lingered, talking and laughing like old friends. Mrs. Cartwright’s eyes glistened with joy as she squeezed my hand.

“You did this,” she said softly.

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An elderly woman talking to a young woman | Source: Freepik

“No,” I replied. “Robert did. And you.”

She smiled, but I could see how much the moment meant to her.

That night, as I walked home, I held the locket in my hand. Its weight felt different now, not heavy but significant—a symbol of love and the bond that had been rekindled.

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A woman walking home at night | Source: Pexels

What started as an ordinary day had become something extraordinary. I’d learned that even the smallest gestures like helping a neighbor or listening to a story could change lives.

And as I glanced back at Mrs. Cartwright’s house, glowing with light and laughter, I knew that her husband’s message would endure, carried forward by those who loved him.

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A happy family | Source: Pexels

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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