How we choose to raise our children and the lessons we decide to ingrain in them from an early age differs from parent to parent.
It’s only natural, of course. Some mothers and fathers take a more disciplined approach, for example, while others prefer to let their kids go through a try and fail cycle so that they can learn right and wrong through their own experiences.
Now, for the most part, how one chooses to style their son or daughter’s upbringing is their business, no one else’s. Yet that doesn’t stop people commenting and criticizing online every time a debate is sparked over some parental decision or another…
I remember when I was younger, doing chores was considered part and parcel of everyday life. I mean for me and my siblings, of course, not only my mother.
Doing dishes, making beds, helping to prepare food before mealtimes… the list goes on and on.
I understand times change, but in my mind getting children to help out with tasks around the house – providing there’s no danger involved – is a great way to instill values and a worth ethic that will come in handy later on.
It seems, though, that not everyone agrees. According to reports, one mother found this out the hard way a few years back after she uploaded pictures of her son and shared her method of giving him chores to do with the internet.
The mom in question, 22-year-old Nikkole Paulun, reportedly explained how she proudly put her 7-year-old son, Lyle, to work around the house, where he would help out with things like cooking and cleaning.
Nothing too dramatic, I’m sure we can all agree, but that didn’t stop online detractors from verbally attacking her and expressing concern over the potential impact on the child’s emotional well-being.
The bulk of the critics targeted the fact that the mother had shared her son’s chores online, not only potentially making other parents question themselves, but also flagging the idea that the child might not want to have his daily activities shared with a large number of strangers online.
One woman went as far as to write in the comments that Nikkole couldn’t just let her child “be your slave. Or to do the chores that you yourself don’t want to do.”
Another wrote: “So I take it you can do everything ur teaching ur son to do or are you just putting pressure on ur child?”
A third added: “Don’t get me wrong… a child should know responsibility. .. but should not be operating a stove that young.“
A fourth wrote: “Lazy mother’s are sweeping the country. It’s good to teach them while they’re young but i notice alot of these single mom’s are just raising their boy’s to be the man that they wish they always had.“
There were many who defended Nikkole in the comments, too, with her post gaining viral status after it garnered over 8,000 comments and 156,000 interactions on Facebook.
Nikkole herself insisted that she enjoys doing housework and that her son Lyle “just helps along the way & earns allowance as well.
What’s more, she added that her then-one-year-old daughter, Ellie, would be following in her elder siblings steps and doing the same thing when she was a little older.
What do you think to Nikkole’s parenting approach and the criticism she got for it? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.
He was a true Hollywood heartthrob, recognized for his deep voice. Today he is eighty years old
Sam Elliott: The Man, The Mustache, The Legend
If there’s one face (and mustache) that instantly brings to mind the rugged, raw essence of the American West, it’s Sam Elliott. With a voice as deep as the canyons of Arizona and a look that could have been carved out of granite, Elliott has become a living legend in Hollywood. But beyond the screen persona lies a man whose journey to stardom is as intriguing as any role he’s ever played.
From Portland to Hollywood: A Journey of Grit
Born on August 9, 1944, in Sacramento, California, Samuel Pack Elliott spent much of his childhood in Portland, Oregon. It’s easy to imagine young Sam running wild in the woods, developing that deep connection with nature that he’s become so famous for on screen.
But his path to Hollywood was anything but smooth. After high school, Elliott attended Clark College in Vancouver, Washington, where he studied English and psychology. However, his heart was set on acting—a passion that led him to the Los Angeles theatre scene in the late 1960s.
Hollywood wasn’t kind to newcomers, and Sam Elliott’s early years were marked by small roles and a lot of determination. His big break came in 1969 when he was cast in the classic film Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid as “Card Player #2.” It wasn’t a role that would put him on the map, but it did put him in the right circles. The rest, as they say, is history.
The Voice That Became a National Treasure
Sam Elliott’s distinctive baritone is as recognizable as his mustache. It’s the voice that has narrated countless commercials, documentaries, and even animated features. But what many people don’t know is that Elliott’s voice wasn’t always the iconic drawl we know today. In his early career, he worked on refining it, adding that gravelly, deliberate cadence that makes every word he speaks sound like it’s been aged in oak barrels.
His voice became a defining feature in movies like The Big Lebowski and Thank You for Smoking, where his roles, no matter how brief, left a lasting impact. Whether he’s playing a cowboy, a biker, or just the voice of reason, Elliott’s delivery is always pitch-perfect.
Love and Longevity in Hollywood
In 1984, Elliott married actress Katharine Ross, known for her roles in The Graduate and Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid. The couple met on the set of The Legacy in 1978, and their love story has become one of Hollywood’s rare enduring romances. They share a daughter, Cleo Rose Elliott, who is a talented musician.
Their relationship is a testament to Elliott’s grounded nature, which has helped him avoid the pitfalls of Hollywood excess. Despite his success, he’s always remained a private, humble man who values his family above all.
The Cowboy Rides On: A Milestone Birthday
A few years ago, Sam Elliott hit a milestone that few would guess, given his still-vigorous presence on screen—he turned 80. Yes, the man who’s embodied the rugged cowboy for decades has been wrangling time just as skillfully as he has roles. And he’s done it with a grace and dignity that befits a man who has spent his life portraying the best of American manhood.
Sam Elliott recently
In recent years, Elliott has continued to take on roles that challenge him, most notably in A Star is Born (2018), where his portrayal of Bobby, the older brother of Bradley Cooper’s character, earned him an Academy Award nomination. It was a role that allowed him to showcase his depth as an actor, reminding us all that Sam Elliott is far more than just the mustache.
A Living Legend
As Sam Elliott continues to ride into the sunset of his career, one thing is certain: his legacy is secure. He’s not just an actor; he’s a symbol of a certain kind of American toughness and integrity. Whether he’s on a horse, behind a microphone, or simply living his life, Sam Elliott embodies the timeless qualities of strength, loyalty, and resilience.
So, as we celebrate the life and career of a man who has become an American icon, let’s raise a glass to Sam Elliott—the man, the mustache, the legend. Here’s to many more years of that unmistakable drawl and those unforgettable roles that have made him a treasure in Hollywood and beyond.
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