With tattoos becoming increasingly popular, it is not uncommon to come across individuals who have extensive body art. Unfortunately, some people face criticism and even calls for their children to be taken from them. One such case is that of a Canadian man named Remy who has spent over $100,000 on tattoos and has encountered criticism on social media, with some people telling him he’s not a suitable father.
He doesn’t feel guilty about being a tattooed dad.
Despite his extensive amount of ink, Remy doesn’t feel guilty about his tattoos, nor does he believe they’ve changed who he is as a person or a father. He says, “Tattoos and piercings haven’t changed at all, so I wasn’t worried that my son would see me differently.”
But the man has been criticized for not being a stereotypical father.
Remy shared that he has received online comments suggesting that his son should be taken away from him due to his appearance. He stated, “I’ve had a few people say things like my son should be taken from me because of how I look, but this is only ever online.”
He continued, “My argument to that would be that if you think that way, you should never have children yourself.”
Remy added that while people stare at him in public, they only say nice things and ask questions about his tattoos. “People stare a bit [in public] but they only say nice things and ask how long it took, how I handle the pain, and generally compliment my work,” he attests.
His child is nonchalant toward his father’s tattoos.
Remy’s first tattoo was of his son’s name, but since then, he has become obsessed with getting more and more ink. His son never really noticed his tattoos.
“He’s never really noticed them, as I was already pretty different looking [when he was born in 2009] — it’s completely normal for him. As he’s gotten older, he’s become very nonchalant, and it’s actually made him more tolerant of people being different looking, I believe,” Remy says.
In fact, Remy’s son’s favorite tattoo is the eye on his stomach and chest.
Being a good parent has nothing to do with superficial looks.
While some may argue that Remy’s tattoos make him an unfit parent, it’s important to remember that body modification is a personal choice and doesn’t necessarily reflect one’s ability to be a good parent. As long as a parent is providing a safe and loving environment for their child, their appearance should not be a factor in determining their ability to care for their children.
One of Remy’s fans explained things in a wonderful way.
As one commenter on Remy’s story put it, “You give the cloth and care about what you do. As long as you can put a roof over your child’s head, it’s not anyone’s job.” Ultimately, it’s up to each individual to decide how they want to present themselves to the world, and that decision should not be used to judge their worth as a parent.
As we conclude this story of unfair judgment and inked journeys, it’s only the beginning of our exploration into the world of those living tattooed lives. In our next article, we’ll introduce you to a mom whose 800 tattoos have become a barrier to employment, shedding light on the surprising consequences of living life fully inked.
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53-Year-Old Woman Gives Birth to Twins, Son-In-Law Notices Familiar Birthmarks on Them
When 53-year-old Barbara saw the two lines appear on the pregnancy test, she was in complete disbelief.
Becoming a mother is a precious experience, but at her age—and already a mother and grandmother—it was the last thing she expected. The news was overwhelming. She wasn’t just anxious about her daughter’s reaction but deeply concerned about how she would raise children again, this time on her own.
Realizing she couldn’t keep the pregnancy a secret for long, Barbara decided to call her daughter, Melanie, and reveal everything.
Melanie knew her mother had been dating someone named Jackson, an old classmate from high school and college whom she’d reconnected with on Facebook. But she hadn’t taken the relationship seriously—until she saw her mother’s message and the ultrasound scan. The pregnancy was very real.
“Don’t worry, Mom,” Melanie told her gently. “If this is part of God’s plan, then He’ll also give you the strength to handle it. I’m here for you.”
Barbara was deeply moved by her daughter’s compassion. “But sweetie, don’t you want to know more…” she started.
Barbara hesitated. “I’m afraid people like Josh and others will judge me for being pregnant at my age. What will society think of the babies?”
“Who cares what people think?” Melanie replied. “You know how people are—they gossip today and forget tomorrow. And Josh? He’s understanding. Let me talk to him.”
True to her word, Melanie stood by her mother, visiting often and providing support.
Her husband, Josh, was equally kind, even accompanying her to hospital visits to help care for Barbara. But everything changed the day the twins were born.
When the nurse brought the newborns into the room, Melanie and Josh immediately noticed matching birthmarks on the babies’ shoulders. Melanie froze in shock, and Josh looked stunned.
“The birthmarks… No way. Josh, how could you?” Melanie cried out. “Did you cheat on me—with my mother?”
Josh was speechless. The resemblance struck him, too, but he wasn’t the father. “Please, Melanie, it’s not what you think…”
Barbara, just waking from delivery, noticed her daughter’s distress. “Sweetheart, what’s wrong?”
“How can I stay calm?” Melanie sobbed. “I stood by you this whole time, Mom! I thought Josh might be hesitant, but he supported you, and now I wonder if it was because he’s the father. You even tried to tell me something during that call, but I didn’t let you finish. I can’t believe this—I’m done with Josh. I want a divorce!”
Seeing her daughter so hurt, Barbara reached for her hand. “Melanie, Josh, come here. There’s something important I need to explain…”
Barbara revealed the truth: the father of the twins wasn’t Josh, but his father, Andrew Wilson. Months earlier, during a family gathering at Andrew’s ranch, Barbara and Andrew had shared drinks and ended up sharing a night that neither of them could have predicted.
“I should’ve been honest sooner. I’m sorry,” Barbara said tearfully.
Once Melanie heard the whole story, she realized she had misjudged the situation and apologized to both her mother and her husband.
Barbara decided to call Andrew and share the truth. Though shocked at first, he took responsibility and visited her in the hospital later that day, with flowers and a heartfelt proposal. To everyone’s surprise, Barbara accepted.
A few months later, Barbara and Andrew were married in a small, intimate church ceremony, surrounded by family. Today, they live together as a loving, blended family—proof that life can still surprise us, even in the most unexpected ways.
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