A woman was utterly surprised when her Uber driver offered her an unsolicited tip on how to care for her remarkable skin.
Celebrating her striking beauty, the fashion icon, famously known as the “Queen of the Dark,” responded with laughter, dismissing his remarks with ease.
Read on to discover what the Uber driver said and how she transformed the situation into a learning opportunity!
Having spent her early years in refugee camps in Ethiopia and Kenya, Nyakim Gatwech envisioned America as a “heaven on earth.”
However, upon arriving in Buffalo at the age of 14, Gatwech found herself often alone, crying over the harsh judgments she faced due to her deeply pigmented skin.
Based in Minnesota and originally from South Sudan, the model endured years of bullying for her radiant dark complexion, with comments like, “You don’t take showers. That’s why your skin is dirty,” or, “Smile so we can see you, Nyakim. We can’t see you.”
“In class, for example, the teacher would ask a question and say, ‘Oh, Nyakim, can you answer that?’ A kid would say, ‘Who are you talking to? We can’t see her. She’s not here.’ The whole class would start laughing, and I would just cry,” the now 31-year-old woman shares with Cosmopolitan.
As a young girl desperate to fit in, it was tough when random men would bet on whether she was wearing leggings or if her skin was genuinely that dark.
“At one point, I did consider [bleaching my skin]. When I came to America from a refugee camp in Africa [at age 14], I lived in Buffalo, New York. I would cry myself to sleep after being bullied [about my skin],” she says. “There are so many beautiful dark-skinned Sudanese women who bleach their skin.”
Gatwech revealed that her own sister was among those who bleached their skin. “My own sister did it. But when I told her I wanted to [after living in America for a few months], she told me no. ‘I’m not going to let my daughter do it, or you, nobody.’”
Queen of the Dark
Now hailed as the Queen of the Dark, this woman – who has faced discrimination from designers, makeup artists, and even fellow models – feels empowered by overcoming negativity.
Gatwech’s confidence and profound love for her deep chocolatey skin are supported by her 962,000 loyal Instagram followers.
“My chocolate is elegant. So is what I represent… A nation of warriors,” she writes in one post.
Fans are captivated by her striking beauty.
“Omgggggg I love your skin and melanin,” one fan comments, while another says, “love your beautiful skin tone so much! God makes beautiful creations such as you to remind us of His magnificence!”
Responding to the overwhelming support, Gatwech states, “I grew to learn to love myself… Now, I am not bothered by it [the negativity]. I accept my skin, I love myself, and I’m not insecure about my skin anymore. I don’t think I’m ugly anymore. I have confidence in myself.”
‘Stupidest questions’
A few years ago, Gatwech recounts an encounter with an Uber driver who asked if she’d ever consider bleaching her unique skin.
“He said, ‘Wow, you’re dark,’” Gatwech tells Cosmopolitan about her conversation with the driver. “I just laughed. I wanted to know why he thought I should. He said because life would be easier for me. It would be easier for me to be in a relationship, or guys would be more attracted to me if I was lighter. If I was going to a job interview, I would get the job opportunities because I’m lighter. I just said, ‘[Even if] being lighter would make my life easier, I’d rather take the [hard] road.’”
She adds, “I’m accustomed to people asking the most absurd questions about my skin.”
Gatwech then shared her story on Instagram, accompanied by a stunning photo of herself with three other dark-skinned Sudanese women.
She wrote, “A nation with people so dark you won’t believe your eyes… skin so rich and teeth so bright. Gosh, how I love my country, my people, and everything that comes with it.”
She detailed her encounter with the Uber driver: “[SIC] I was asked by my Uber driver the other day, he said, ‘Don’t take this offensively, but if you were given 10 thousand dollars, would you bleach your skin for that amount?’ I couldn’t even respond; I started laughing so hard. Then he said, ‘So that’s a no?’ and I was like, ‘Hell to the f*cking yeah, that’s a no. Why on earth would I ever bleach this beautiful melanin God blessed me with?’ Then he asked, ‘So you see it as a blessing?’”
Her followers quickly responded with praise and support.
“I guess he didn’t get the memo… black is beautiful,” one fan commented.
“I love you for loving you,” shared another. A third added, “Why would we ever want to mess up something so beautiful?”
When asked by Yahoo Beauty what advice she would give to young black girls facing similar challenges, she said, “You are beautiful, you are unique, and there are people who love you just the way you are. They say the darker the berry, the sweeter the juice. Embrace your darkness!”
Owning a Piece of History: Antique Solid Mahogany Dessert Serving Table
Do you find the thought of possessing a special and noteworthy item of history fascinating? Something that reminds you of a bygone era when fine workmanship and meticulous attention to detail were highly prized? If so, let’s examine the charm of a vintage dessert serving table made of solid mahogany.
In addition to captivating us with their deep, dark patina, these priceless finds from the 18th and 19th centuries also stand as a tribute to the finesse and grace of their era.
An Ageless Piece of Art
These dessert serving tables, which are made of the best mahogany, which is prized for its strength and rich, warm tones, are more than just useful objects; they are artistic creations that highlight the woodworker’s talent. Because mahogany is so beautiful and easy to work with, craftspeople have been able to create long-lasting, smooth, lustrous finishes and detailed detailing.
How to Maintain Your Antique Table
Taking good care of your antique table is crucial to its durability. Its polish and wood will be protected with periodic applications of high-quality furniture wax and regular dusting. It may be kept in good shape for years to come by avoiding harsh sunlight and humidity fluctuations.
A Peep into the History
Whether these tables are Chippendale, Queen Anne, or Sheraton, the exquisite carvings and elegant legs will captivate you as you look upon them. They each capture the sophisticated elegance of the century in which they were made. Because of its flawless surfaces’ exquisite light reflection, the table is a striking center point in any space. Moreover, the robust mahogany guarantees that it can support the weight of beautiful china, crystal decanters, and silver serving dishes filled with mouthwatering goodies for your guests to savor.
A Harmony of Antique and Contemporary Style
An antique mahogany dessert serving table is more than just useful in today’s modern environment; it is a work of art that unites the past and present. It gives warmth and heritage to a dining room or living area and encourages discussions about its creation and the hands who made it with love. For those who collect and love antique furniture, finding a well-maintained piece is like finding treasure since it gives you a useful historical piece that you can use to beautify your house in addition to a stunning display piece.
More than just a piece of furniture, the antique solid mahogany dessert serving table is a window into the past, preserving the grace, artistry, and social mores of a bygone period. For those who value the better things in life, it is a treasured possession due to its ageless beauty and usefulness. So why not use this amazing example of traditional woodworking to give your home a dash of beauty and history?
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