When people fall in love, they often make big changes for each other. They might quit bad habits, eat differently, or dress better. But when it comes to pets, things can get tricky.

A 22-year-old man shared his problem on Reddit. His girlfriend of seven months told him he had to choose: give up his cat, Mittens, or end their relationship.

His girlfriend is a dedicated vegan and believes that having a cat goes against her values.

He explained in his post: “I’ve been dating my girlfriend for seven months. She’s amazing, and we get along great in many ways. She’s a strong vegan and told me early on that she wants her partner to share her cruelty-free lifestyle. Since I was already a pescatarian, it wasn’t hard for me to switch to a plant-based diet. She was proud of me for going cruelty-free, and we became known as ‘the vegan couple’ on our college campus.”

Vegan Girlfriend’s Shocking Demand: Boyfriend Must Choose Between Her and His Cat!

When people fall in love, they often make big changes for each other. They might quit bad habits, eat differently, or dress better. But when it comes to pets, things can get tricky.

A 22-year-old man shared his problem on Reddit. His girlfriend of seven months told him he had to choose: give up his cat, Mittens, or end their relationship.

His girlfriend is a dedicated vegan and believes that having a cat goes against her values.

He explained in his post: “I’ve been dating my girlfriend for seven months. She’s amazing, and we get along great in many ways. She’s a strong vegan and told me early on that she wants her partner to share her cruelty-free lifestyle. Since I was already a pescatarian, it wasn’t hard for me to switch to a plant-based diet. She was proud of me for going cruelty-free, and we became known as ‘the vegan couple’ on our college campus.”

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However, the issue of his cat, Mittens, was always in the background. “I’ve had her for three years and I love her. She’s so sweet and cuddly. But my girlfriend was always a bit nervous around her, saying it was because she didn’t grow up with cats. So, we kind of agreed to hang out at her place more, and we didn’t really talk about Mittens again.”

Their relationship grew stronger during the pandemic, and they started talking about moving in together. This led to a serious conversation where his girlfriend surprised him by saying she couldn’t see a future with him unless he gave up Mittens. She believed owning a cat went against vegan principles because cats hunt and eat meat.

“I was shocked,” he wrote. “I told her there was no way I would give up Mittens. I explained that I was doing my best to minimize harm by buying reputable cat food. Many vegans own cats and feel the same way. But my girlfriend got angry and asked, ‘How much meat does your cat eat? How many animals died to make that food? Would you be okay if it was human meat?’”

Frustrated, he left her apartment and went home to cuddle with Mittens. Later, his girlfriend sent him a link to a Reddit thread about why domestic cats should go extinct.

He ended his post by saying: “I’m not going to get rid of my cat. But it hurts to think our otherwise great relationship might end because of this. I don’t really get where she’s coming from, because lots of vegans own cats.”

In a subsequent update on r/relationship_advice, he clarified that his girlfriend’s extreme views on domestic cats were not representative of the vegan/vegetarian community as a whole. “I do think that, sometimes, new vegans can be a little overzealous. In reality, most of us are just doing the best that we can to not hurt animals!”

He also revealed that they had broken up. “I would never, ever give up my cat Mittens,” he said. Reflecting on the situation, he admitted: “Many users said that this situation was about control, not veganism, and looking back, I do see a pattern of control on my girlfriend’s part.”

Ultimately, he decided that parting ways was the best decision given the issues in their relationship. Would you have done the same in this situation?

Understanding Skin Red Dots: Causes and Potential Implications

Red spots appearing on the skin can stem from various causes, ranging from benign to requiring medical attention.

Among the common culprits are allergic reactions, residual marks from acne, vascular birthmarks, angiomas, overproduction of proteins, heat rash, insect bites, leaking capillaries, and autoimmune conditions.

Petechiae and Purpura: These are tiny red dots resulting from damaged blood vessels or capillaries. Stress, coughing, or certain medications can trigger them. While usually harmless, they might indicate underlying platelet disorders.

Cherry Angiomas:

These small, raised, bright red bumps occur due to blood vessel overgrowth. Typically harmless, they tend to appear in older individuals.

Heat Rash:

Sweat trapped in sweat ducts causes itchy, red dots on the skin.

Allergic Reactions:

Redness can stem from allergic reactions to food, substances, medications, or insect stings.

Folliculitis:

Inflammation of hair follicles, often due to bacterial or fungal infections, results in red, pus-filled dots on the skin.

Cellulitis:

A bacterial skin infection leading to redness and swelling, often requiring antibiotics.

Impetigo:

A contagious bacterial infection, particularly affecting children, characterized by red sores that ooze fluid and form crusts.

Vasculitis:

Involving inflammation of blood vessels, often associated with autoimmune disorders or infections.

Hemangiomas:

Birthmarks resulting from abnormal blood vessel growth, typically harmless but may require medical attention.

Home remedies for managing and alleviating red dots include:

Aloe Vera: Apply fresh aloe vera gel extract on the skin twice daily for 15 to 20 minutes.

Coconut Oil: Massage freshly cleaned skin with coconut oil and leave it overnight for optimal results.

Dandelion: Boil dandelion root powder in water, strain, and sip for detoxification.

Should you notice changes in the red dots or patches, consult a doctor. Maintain a healthy lifestyle and diet rich in fruits, vegetables, juices, and healthy fats.

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