What does bravery really mean? Is it the bravery to hold on when you know the end is close and the battle you fought so hard is lost, or is it the capacity to face terrifying things?
For a sixteen-year-old girl, bravery meant standing by her father, who never wavered even under the most trying circumstances.
A man by the name of Tom Mitchell told the following tale.
This loving father remembered his daughter complaining that she didn’t feel well and requesting to be taken to the doctor because she thought she had a sinus infection.
Yes, sweetie, I’ll come get you tomorrow after school. If you’d like, we can have supper together afterward,” he replied.
The next day, the two did enjoy dinner together, but it was not at their preferred eatery. Rather, kids were having difficulty swallowing the food at Fairfax Hospital’s pediatric oncology unit. These father and daughter would have more than 450 meals there together, not to mention the hundreds more in the years that followed.
Instead of a sinus infection, his daughter had a massive tumor that had gone to her lungs and collapsed one.
It was a genuine struggle. Even though they knew it wouldn’t be simple, they were committed to fighting as a team.
Hodgkin’s illness, stage four, was Shayla’s diagnosis.
Tom tried to convey to them what it meant to be brave and withstand the trials and problems life placed in front of them by purchasing two sterling silver “feather” bracelets and placing one on each of their wrists.
Then he made three promises: he would stay at the hospital every night until Shayla was cancer-free; he would wear the bracelet until then; and he would persevere as long as she did.
Shayla’s cancer struggle dragged on for years, during which she had blood transfusions, chemotherapy, radiation, painkillers, and more medication. Her body could not take all of this, and as a result, her heart grew weak and a defibrillator had to be quickly implanted within her chest.
Shayla was getting ready for chemotherapy one day when she started screaming, “Help me, Dad! I’m shocked by it! ..I’m shocked by it.
Tom continued his explanation of what had occurred. I drew her in and gave her my strongest embrace. It almost blew her out of my arms and stunned her once more. But I resisted letting go. That’s exactly how I hugged her, fiercely as I could. As swiftly as it had begun, it stopped startling her, and we hurried to the hospital.
As it turned out, the device’s maker had to recall thousands of them because they were malfunctioning, and Shayla’s chest contained one of them.
More chemotherapy sessions, blood transfusions, a botched bone marrow transplant, and more uncomfortable sleepless nights ensued. But until the very last, Shayla never once considered giving up.
“How in the world was I meant to talk to my sweet kid about this? How would I ever have the courage to tell my daughter that she was going to die? There’s a quote I once heard that kind of captures my thoughts. “Can a guy who is terrified still be brave? He can only be bold at that moment. I had to have courage for HER! Of course, I did have that talk with her, and despite how unbelievable it may sound, it ended up being the most incredible, lovely, magical, and fantastic conversation I have ever had in my life. I sincerely pray you never, ever have to have it. Tom gave a portion.
“Dad, am I still brave?,” she murmured in his ear.
Then he met her gaze directly and saw into her soul. He was aware that she was beyond tired of battling and that it was becoming impossible for her, but he suddenly came to a chilling realization. She exhibited bravery for him rather than for herself.
Shayla tragically passed away a few days later, but her father will always remember her bravery and strength.
Shayla, rest in peace.
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Protect Your Garden: Eliminate the Invasive Jumping Worm
An invasive type of worm from Asia is posing a new challenge to Midwest gardeners. In gardens and yards, these jumping worms are wreaking havoc, so you need to take precautions to save your prized plants. Because they are tenacious and lack natural predators in the United States, these worms can proliferate quickly and cause destruction wherever they go.
The Asian jumping worms eat the soil, leaving it depleted and in bad condition. Their insatiable appetite modifies the structure of the soil, causing it to lose moisture retention and become depleted of nutrients. This makes the soil more susceptible to erosion, which further complicates the situation for plants trying to grow.
These worms may be really scary in addition to harming the soil. Despite the term suggesting they may “jump,” they move more like a twisted snap, which contributes to their unsettling appearance. Several states have acted to stop this dangerous invasion because they understand how important it is to handle this matter. Wisconsin, Missouri, Illinois, Iowa, Minnesota, Nebraska, Ohio, Texas, Louisiana, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Tennessee, and Oklahoma are among the states that are impacted.
If you see these worms, you should get rid of them immediately to protect your garden. By stealing nutrients from the soil, these invasive worms deprive nearby plants and animals of their food supply. The local ecosystem deteriorates in the absence of a suitable habitat, which causes a decrease in the number of plants and animals.
There are steps you may take to fight these worms if you live in one of the impacted states. The University of Wisconsin-Madison Arboretum’s Brad Herrick, an ecologist, advises sprinkling a mixture on the ground to encourage the worms to come up for air and leave their underground homes. This technique can shield your garden from them and help lower their population.
A distinguishing feature of the Asian jumping worm’s body is a white ring that is situated near to its head. It’s best to get rid of these worms right away if you find them. Any mature worms you find should be disposed of after being placed in a plastic bag and left in the sun for at least 10 minutes. Furthermore, it’s crucial to avoid buying these worms for composting, gardening, or bait. Since their eggs cannot withstand temperatures higher than 104 degrees Fahrenheit, only purchase mulch or compost that has been thoroughly heated to reduce the chance of their spreading.
We can preserve the health and vibrancy of our ecosystems as well as our gardens by acting proactively to combat this invasive plant. By working together, we can end the jumping worm’s destructive reign and bring harmony back to our Midwest gardens. To find out more about these invasive worms and their effects, watch the video below:
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