After 23 Years of Marriage, Wife Asks Husband on a Date and Learns He Is Ashamed of Her — Story of the Day

A woman decides to ask her husband out on a date to rekindle their flame. He refused, admitting he was ashamed of her, only to learn an important lesson from one of his good friends later.

Jack and Mary had been married for 23 years with four children who needed constant attention from Mary. Their life was a routine, something that no longer excited the couple.

Their daily routine differed from one another. Jack would come home from work, lay on the couch, and watch television until dinner. Meanwhile, Mary worked the entire day, cooking dinner, washing everyone’s clothes, caring for their youngest child, and guiding the other kids with their homework.

When Mary would finally have free time late at night, she’d watch romantic films and imagine herself in them. She’s been dreaming of going on a date, as she and her husband haven’t gone on one in a while.

Mary wanted to go on a date with her husband, as they haven't been on one in a while. | Source: Shutterstock

Mary wanted to go on a date with her husband, as they haven’t been on one in a while. | Source: Shutterstock

However, when Mary looked at herself in the mirror, she was saddened by what she saw. She looked nothing like the women in the movies.

She glanced at her wedding photo in front of the mirror and couldn’t believe her eyes. She now saw a tired, sad old woman instead of the cheerful young girl she once was.

Shaking the thought, she decided to change her reality. The next day, when Jack returned from work, she sat him down at the dinner table.

“Jack, I was thinking… maybe we can go on a date? There’s a nice place that opened downtown. Maybe we can go check it out,” she suggested.

Jack scoffed and was surprised that Mary even initiated it. “Date? Why would we go on a date? Is today a special day or something?” he asked.

Mary always looked tired, as she looked after the entire household every single day. | Source: Pexels

Mary always looked tired, as she looked after the entire household every single day. | Source: Pexels

Mary shook her head. “Well, we don’t have to wait for a special day to go out on a date… we can make any day special,” she smiled kindly.

Instead of feeling touched by Mary’s gesture, Jack started to feel irritated. “Look at you!” he told Mary. “You look terrible. I’m not going anywhere with you.”

Mary felt hurt by her husband’s harsh words, especially since she looked that way because she had just finished cleaning their house. “I just finished doing all the housework; that’s why I look like this,” she justified.

“Don’t be ridiculous. You look like this every day. You used to take care of yourself, fix your hair, dress up well, but now you look like an old maid. I don’t know when you started to let go of yourself,” Jack told her.

Mary’s eyes filled with tears. “Even when you cry, you look terrible. Do you want the truth? I’m ashamed of you. I can’t take you out like this,” Jack said before walking out the front door.

Mary couldn't help but cry after hearing such hurtful words from her husband. | Source: Pexels

Mary couldn’t help but cry after hearing such hurtful words from her husband. | Source: Pexels

Jack went to his friend Samuel’s house and invited him to a bar for a beer. But Samuel turned him down immediately. “Sorry, mate. I’m going on a date with my wife. There’s this new place downtown I wanna take her to.”

Jack was offended that his friend refused a trip to the bar for a date with his wife. Then he saw Samuel’s wife heading down the stairs. She looked beautiful in her dress and had a big smile as she held flowers in her arms.

“Sam, I just found this bouquet on the table in our room. Did you put them there?” she beamed, kissing Samuel on the cheek.

“Yep, surprise! Also, here…” he said, taking a paper bag from behind the front door. His wife opened it and inside was a beautiful evening dress.

“Oh, Sam. This is beautiful! You are the best husband! Let me change quickly. I will wear this dress on our date,” she said excitedly, rushing back upstairs.

Samuel surprised his wife with flowers before their date. | Source: Pexels

Samuel surprised his wife with flowers before their date. | Source: Pexels

Jack was stunned at what he had just witnessed. “Sam, your wife is beautiful, and you two look so in love! My wife always looks miserable. She barely ever smiles nowadays,” he said.

“When was the last time you asked Mary out on a date?” Samuel asked his friend.

“I can’t remember… two years ago, maybe?” he replied.

“You last asked her out on a date two years ago, and now you’re complaining to me that she doesn’t smile?!” Samuel said, hitting his friend playfully on the arm.

Shaking his head, Samuel decided to give Jack a valuable piece of advice. “You know, mate. I make every single day special for my wife. She’s the light of our home. She deserves all the love and appreciation from me. She’s always been beautiful, but every day, she puts in extra effort to look even more beautiful – because she feels loved.”

Samuel makes every day special for him and his wife. | Source: Pexels

Samuel makes every day special for him and his wife. | Source: Pexels

Jack stood there, quietly absorbing what Samuel was saying. He realized he had a responsibility he hadn’t been fulfilling toward his wife.

“When I take my wife on a date, it’s not because it’s a special day. It’s because I choose to make every day special. Try it, mate. It might work wonders on your marriage,” Samuel suggested.

Jack nodded, realizing that what Samuel said was what Mary was trying to tell him earlier. “Thanks, Sam. Well, enjoy your date tonight. I’ll go back home now.”

When Jack returned home, he had a gift for Mary. “I’m sorry for hurting you with my words earlier today. I was being disrespectful, and you didn’t deserve that,” he said, handing her the gift box. “Would you like to go out on a date with me tomorrow? I booked us a table at that cool place downtown…”

Jack surprised Mary with a gift before asking her out on a date. | Source: Pexels

Jack surprised Mary with a gift before asking her out on a date. | Source: Pexels

Mary looked at Jack, surprised. She was thrilled and smiled the same cheerful smile she used to show him every day when they were younger. She opened the gift box and saw a beautiful silver necklace.

“This is so beautiful, Jack. Thank you. I would love to go on a date with you tomorrow,” she replied.

The following day, Jack saw Mary transform right in front of his eyes. She looked breathtaking, and he was reminded that he had the most beautiful woman by his side. He was happy, and so was she.

Since then, both Mary and Jack have made it a point to work on their relationship. They rekindled the flame between them, and it did wonders not only for themselves but also for their family life.

What can we learn from this story?

  • You don’t need a special day to celebrate. You can make every day special. Jack initially believed dates should only be celebrated on special occasions. His good friend Samuel made him realize that every day could be memorable, and it was up to him to make it that way.
  • Show your loved ones your love, support, and appreciation every day. We often overlook the little things our loved ones do for us every day. It’s important to pay attention to them and show your appreciation so that love continues to bloom at home.

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I Left My Son with My New Husband for a Work Trip – My Boy’s Audio Message Made Me Rush Home Immediately

I thought everything was fine at home while I was away on a work trip until a message from my 10-year-old son shattered that belief. In just a few words, he revealed how my husband had made him feel like an outsider, and I knew I had to act fast to protect my child.

I was three days into a work trip. Just three days. I should’ve been enjoying my time and focused on my meetings. But instead, I found myself booking the first flight home after hearing that message from Jake.

A woman in a hotel lobby | Source: Midjourney

A woman in a hotel lobby | Source: Midjourney

Everything had seemed fine at first. Our family wasn’t perfect, but we were happy, or so I thought. Jake, my eldest, was from my first marriage. He was ten now, a bright kid with a love for drawing and adventure.

Tommy, who was six, was from my marriage to Mark. The two boys got along like real brothers, always playing and laughing together. I never saw a problem.

Two boys playing together | Source: Midjourney

Two boys playing together | Source: Midjourney

Each night, I would FaceTime the boys. They’d show me their drawings, tell me about their day, and I’d laugh along with them. Mark, my husband of seven years, was at home taking care of them. I trusted him. He’d always been great with Tommy. And I thought he was good with Jake, too.

Well, one regular evening, Jake sent me an audio message. His sweet voice filled the silence of my hotel room.

A boy talking on his phone in his room | Source: Midjourney

A boy talking on his phone in his room | Source: Midjourney

“Hey, Mom. Today was good. Tommy and I played outside. Oh, and Tommy and Dad finished their food first, and then I got to eat what was left. Dad says it’s normal, and I should be okay with it. But, um, I think it was kinda weird. Was it?”

I stopped breathing. Played the message again. Leftovers? My 10-year-old son was eating leftovers? Why? And why would Mark say that was okay?

A shocked woman with her phone in a hotel room | Source: Midjourney

A shocked woman with her phone in a hotel room | Source: Midjourney

I called Jake right away. He answered on the second ring, his voice light, not a care in the world.

“Hey, Mom!”

“Hey, sweetie,” I tried to keep my voice calm. “Can you tell me again about dinner?”

“Yeah,” Jake said. “Tommy and Dad ate first. He said it was their special time. Then Dad said I could have the rest. He said I could eat with my real dad if I wanted more time with him. But it’s fine, Mom. It’s no big deal.”

A boy watching his father and brother eat | Source: Midjourney

A boy watching his father and brother eat | Source: Midjourney

No big deal? My heart ached. How could Mark say something like that to Jake? How could he make my son feel like he didn’t belong?

“I’ll be home soon, Jake,” I said, trying to keep the anger from my voice. “Okay? I’ll be home.”

Jake was quiet for a moment. “Okay, Mom. See you soon.”

A concerned woman talking on her phone | Source: Midjourney

A concerned woman talking on her phone | Source: Midjourney

I didn’t think twice. As soon as Jake hung up, my mind was made up. My son needed me, and I had to get home. My job, the meetings, the deadlines — they all seemed so insignificant compared to this.

I booked the next available flight without hesitation. My hands were shaking as I packed my bag, thinking about Jake sitting at the table, eating leftovers while Mark and Tommy enjoyed their dinner together. How could Mark do that to him? How could he make Jake feel like he didn’t belong in his own home?

A boy eating leftovers | Source: Midjourney

A boy eating leftovers | Source: Midjourney

My mind went back, looking for any signs of previous mistreatment. Had Mark ever hinted that he didn’t see Jake as his own? Had he ever made Jake feel like a stranger in our home?

Mark had always been a great dad to Tommy. I watched him play with Tommy for hours, teaching him how to ride a bike or helping him with homework.

A man playing with his son | Source: Midjourney

A man playing with his son | Source: Midjourney

When I first met Mark, he embraced my situation. He knew I had Jake from my first marriage, and he stepped into our lives without hesitation. It wasn’t always easy blending a family, but we made it work.

He seemed like the perfect stepfather to Jake, too. Sure, it was different—Jake wasn’t his biological son—but I never thought Mark would treat him any less than a part of our family. Or, at least, until now.

A man teaching his son to ride a bike | Source: Midjourney

A man teaching his son to ride a bike | Source: Midjourney

“Mom, is it normal that I only got to eat what was left?”

How could he do this?

When I landed the next day, my stomach was in knots. I needed to see Jake, to hold him, to make sure he was okay. But I also needed answers from Mark.

Would he even understand how badly he had hurt my son?

A concerned dark-haired woman in an airport | Source: Midjourney

A concerned dark-haired woman in an airport | Source: Midjourney

When I got home, I was determined. I walked in, and there were Jake and Tommy playing on the floor, just like normal. Jake’s face lit up when he saw me.

“Mom! You’re back early!” he said, running over to hug me.

I held him close, my heart breaking a little. “Yeah, sweetie, I missed you too much.”

Mark was in the kitchen, and when he saw me, he looked surprised. “You’re back already?” His tone was casual, like nothing had happened.

A man cooking | Source: Midjourney

A man cooking | Source: Midjourney

I didn’t respond. Not yet. I had a plan.

That evening, I made dinner — Jake’s favorite meal: spaghetti and meatballs. I didn’t ask Mark to help. I didn’t say anything to him at all. I just focused on my boys, making sure Jake and Tommy knew they were loved.

“Dinner’s ready!” I called, setting the table. Jake and Tommy ran over, excited. I served them both big portions, making sure Jake got his plate first. The three of us sat down, and I started eating with them, smiling and chatting about their day.

A woman having breakfast with her two sons | Source: Midjourney

A woman having breakfast with her two sons | Source: Midjourney

Mark stood by the table, waiting. At first, he didn’t seem to notice that I hadn’t made him a plate. He just stood there, watching us eat.

Finally, he cleared his throat. “Where’s mine?”

I looked up at him calmly. “Oh, I thought you could have some special time with your food after we’re done. Just like you did with Jake.”

His face changed. He frowned, confusion spreading across it. “What? That’s different.”

A woman talking to her husband in the kitchen | Source: Midjourney

A woman talking to her husband in the kitchen | Source: Midjourney

I shook my head, keeping my voice steady. “Is it? Because this is exactly what you did to Jake.”

Mark stood there, staring at me, trying to figure out what to say. He looked down at the table, realizing I wasn’t going to budge. I let the silence stretch for a moment, giving him time to think.

“You made Jake feel like he wasn’t part of this family,” I said quietly but firmly. “That’s not okay. Not ever.”

A man standing in his kitchen | Source: Midjourney

A man standing in his kitchen | Source: Midjourney

Mark’s frustration was clear, but he didn’t argue. He sat down, and I handed him a plate with the leftover spaghetti. He didn’t say much, but I could tell he knew I was serious.

After dinner, once the boys were in bed, I sat down with Mark. I wasn’t angry anymore — just tired and disappointed. He needed to understand the damage he’d done, and I needed him to hear me.

A woman having a serious talk with her husband | Source: Midjourney

A woman having a serious talk with her husband | Source: Midjourney

“Look,” he started, “I didn’t think it was a big deal. I just wanted to spend time with Tommy. Jake has his own dad, you know? I figured it’d be good for him to bond with his dad when he’s with him.”

I shook my head. “That’s not how this works, Mark. Jake lives here. He’s part of this family. When you married me, you married into this family, and that includes Jake. You don’t get to treat him like he’s second-best just because he has another dad.”

A man looking to his side | Source: Midjourney

A man looking to his side | Source: Midjourney

Mark looked away, his jaw clenched. “I didn’t mean to hurt him.”

“I know you didn’t, but you did,” I replied softly. “You made him feel like he doesn’t belong here. That’s not something he should ever feel in his own home.”

He sighed, rubbing his face with his hands. “I didn’t think about it like that. I just thought—”

“You thought wrong,” I interrupted, my voice firm. “Jake is your son too. Maybe not by blood, but in every other way, he’s yours. If you can’t see that, then we have a problem.”

A serious woman talking to her husband in their living room | Source: Midjourney

A serious woman talking to her husband in their living room | Source: Midjourney

Mark was silent for a long time. I could see him processing what I’d said, but I didn’t let him off the hook.

“If you ever make Jake feel like he’s not part of this family again, we’re done. No warnings. No second chances. You treat both boys equally, or you don’t treat either of them at all.”

He finally nodded, the weight of my words sinking in. “Okay,” he said quietly. “I understand.”

A shot of a serious dark-haired woman | Source: Midjourney

A shot of a serious dark-haired woman | Source: Midjourney

The next morning, I watched from the kitchen as Mark made breakfast. He scrambled eggs for both boys, setting the table for all three of them. Tommy was his usual bubbly self, but I could see Mark making an effort with Jake, asking him about his drawings, trying to include him in the conversation.

A man cooking breakfast | Source: Midjourney

A man cooking breakfast | Source: Midjourney

It was a small start, but it was something. Trust would take time to rebuild, but for now, it seemed like Mark understood what was at stake.

I wasn’t ready to forgive him yet. But I was hopeful that maybe, just maybe, things would get better.

A family having breakfast | Source: Midjourney

A family having breakfast | Source: Midjourney

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