Anne Hegerty, known from The Chase, shared that her biggest fear about dating is having a man invade her personal space.
The quizzer, who was diagnosed with autism at 45, opened up about her challenges, mentioning a time when she unplugged her phone to stop a boyfriend from contacting her.
At The Paul Strank Roofing Charity Gala in Kensington, London, she honestly said that she thinks she would make a terrible partner.
Anne, 66, said, “I really struggle with being close to others and having anyone else in the house.
“I think a lot of autistic people don’t get married or settle down.”
Anne explained, “I don’t even have pets because of this, and my ability to live with other people is getting smaller. I need a lot of alone time.
“I always feel like I need more space than anyone can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find one, but honestly, I don’t.”
She also mentioned that her longest relationship only lasted four months. Reflecting on that time, she said, “It only worked for those few months because I was in Manchester. I kind of set it up so it wouldn’t last.”
In the end, she wrote to him to end things. “I remember crying with relief and then crying with guilt,” she shared.
Anne felt overwhelmed during that relationship. “Sometimes, I unplugged the phone because he tried to call me every day. I just wanted it to be over.
“I’d sit there waiting for the phone to ring, thinking, ‘Don’t phone, don’t phone, don’t phone!’ Other times, to get over the waiting, I’d call him, but that made him think I wanted to talk. I really just wanted to end it. I didn’t want to talk to him or anyone!”
Anne joked that she hasn’t lacked offers from admirers who seem to like her “Mrs. Trunchbull” Governess outfit.
She said, “I’m sure some people are attracted to the whole look of The Governess. I think there are some who might be interested if they let me.”
Anne said, “I do meet attractive men, but I know it won’t work out. I feel like it’s not fair to them because I won’t treat them well.”
She added, “I always want more space than they can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find someone, but I don’t.”
She thinks it’s better not to date at all and enjoys having men as friends more than women. She recalled a quiz she attended in June, where a woman pointed out they were the only two women in the room, but Anne hadn’t even noticed because she was talking to her male friends.
Anne also shared that this is part of why she never had children, even though she is great with kids. “I did want children, but I knew I wouldn’t be able to handle it very well.”
About 20 years ago, two kids from her neighborhood used to come over. “We limited their visits to just one hour a day, but they always wanted to stay longer. They were wonderful kids, and we’re now friends on Facebook, but I couldn’t handle that for more than an hour.”
Anne takes her role as godmother to Mark “Beast” Labbett’s eight-year-old son, Lawrence, very seriously.
She said, “Lawrence’s birthday is at the end of November, so I usually send a birthday and Christmas present at the same time—but they are not the same gift. My parents had winter birthdays, and I knew they hated getting just one present for two celebrations.”
Anne joked that one of the gifts she gave Lawrence was a bit inappropriate—a toy crossbow. “So, weaponry,” she laughed. “But lately, I’ve been giving him Minecraft vouchers since he really loves that.”
She also mentioned that she has spent Christmas alone for the past 40 years. That’s why she’s especially happy to be playing the Fairy Godmother in this year’s panto, Cinderella, in Scarborough.
Anne, who was on I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here in 2018, said, “Now that I’m in panto, I can say, ‘Sorry, I’m in Scarborough!’ and that’s my only day off.”
She sees it as a great day off. Even though many people invite her to spend Christmas with them, she prefers not to. “I don’t do Christmas dinner or a tree. When I was a kid, I just remember all the pine needles everywhere!”
Earlier this year, Anne took on another acting role, making a cameo as a neighbor in a film called Exorcising Barry, which is about a man obsessed with a demon.
Anne said that any chance of going to Hollywood is out of the question.
She explained, “America wouldn’t want me because I’m fat. I have a friend who went there for work, and even though she looks amazing, they told her she needed to lose weight. I’m fine with how I am, but they don’t like fat British actresses.”
Despite this, she has had great success in Britain. Talking about The Chase’s recent National Television Award win, she said, “I’m so happy. Bradley Walsh is amazing. It’s been 14 years, and I love it.”
She added, “Other kids used to sing in front of the mirror with a hairbrush. When I was younger, I practiced being interviewed for when I became famous. I don’t know why, but it’s always been my dream.”
Kenny Rogers Had Twins Late in Life – Legacy Lives On Through His Twins
Kenny Rogers was a famous country music star known for his great voice and many hit songs. He had a life full of fame, money, and several relationships.
While he was well-known for his music, his personal life was just as interesting. Although he married several times and had five children, it took him a long time to find his true love, a relationship that lasted until he passed away at 81 years old.
In his life, Rogers was married five times. Even though his earlier marriages did not work out, he always said that he loved each of his wives during their time together. However, he admitted that his music often came first. He once shared that music was like a “mistress,” a passion that made it hard for him to fully focus on his family.
Kenny Rogers always put his music first, even though he deeply cared for his wives and children. He openly admitted that his passion for his career was often the reason his marriages ended. Rogers took full responsibility, never blaming his former wives for the breakups.
His first marriage happened when he was just 19 years old, to Janice Gordon. They got married after their daughter was born, hoping to show Gordon’s parents they were serious. However, the marriage only lasted two years. After their split, Rogers stepped away from his daughter’s life, allowing Gordon’s second husband to raise her.
Not long after his first marriage ended, Rogers married his second wife, Jean Rogers, the same year. But this relationship also didn’t last long—they divorced after only three years.
Rogers’ third marriage to Margo Anderson was his longest so far, lasting over a decade. During this time, they had a son, Kenny Jr. But the pressures of Rogers’ career, which required him to travel constantly, caused strain in their relationship, leading to their eventual divorce.
In 1977, Rogers married actress Marianne Gordon. Together, they had a son named Chris. Their marriage lasted nearly two decades, but as Rogers approached 50, his commitment to his music career once again created distance between them. This led to their separation in 1993. This pattern in his life shows how the demands of a high-profile career, similar to public figures in any culture, can sometimes take a toll on personal relationships.
Kenny Rogers’ divorce from Marianne Gordon was one of the most expensive in the entertainment industry. Gordon received a hefty $60 million settlement. However, Rogers held no resentment about the outcome. He told the Irish Independent, “She deserves every penny.” He appreciated her steadfast support, especially during a tough time when his career was not doing well. He expressed that “Marianne really did deserve the $60 million because she is a great girl, and we had a perfect marriage for 15 years.”
Four years after his divorce from Gordon, Rogers met Wanda Miller, who became his fifth and final wife. Despite their significant age difference of 28 years, their marriage thrived. Together, they had twin sons named Justin and Jordan, which brought Rogers great happiness in his later years. Although he was initially unsure about having more children at that stage in his life, he eventually embraced the idea. When he learned he was having twins, he exclaimed, “When I was told it was twins, man, I was thrilled.” This new chapter filled his life with joy and renewed purpose.
Rogers’ relationship with Wanda Miller stayed strong until his death in 2020. Even though raising a family at his age came with its challenges, he truly cherished being a father and a husband. After his passing, Miller honored his memory and promised to celebrate the love they shared.
In the end, Kenny Rogers’ journey through love and marriage had its ups and downs, but he ultimately found the deep and lasting connection he had always been looking for. His legacy, as both a musician and a devoted family man, continues to resonate with all who knew and loved him.
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