Any parent would be happy to have a newborn, and Patricia Williams was no different. She thought her baby Redd was perfect when he was brought into the world. She had no idea that his unusual features would present obstacles as well as opportunities for success in the years to come.
Patricia and her husband Dale became aware of their son’s lateral eye movements when he was only two months old. Fearing for their lives, they searched Google and discovered something unexpected: it might be an indication of albinism. One in 17,000 individuals worldwide suffer with albinism, an uncommon disorder marked by pale complexion, white hair, and tracking eyes.
Patricia and Dale sought a formal diagnosis, and after consulting with experts, it was determined that Redd had Oculocutaneous Albinism Type I (OCA1). The pair was surprised since they were unaware of this illness. However, this realization was only the start of their adventure.
Redd’s unusual features presented difficulties as he grew older. He was the victim of bullying at school, but fortunately, his elder brother Gage stood up for him. When Patricia’s second son, Rockwell, was born with the same issue, her early hopes that Redd would outgrow his unique qualities were dashed.
The difficulties persisted after that. Rockwell’s photos were twisted into cruel memes on social media, adding insult to injury for the family. However, Patricia and Dale took a bold choice rather than focusing on the negative. They made the decision to become activists for albinism, spreading knowledge to stop bullying of other kids who have the illness.
Patricia became determined to spread awareness about albinism after realizing that most people had limited understanding of the condition and that uncommon films and scant representation had largely shaped people’s opinions. She recognized that she had a rare chance to dispel myths and raise awareness of this illness.
Redd’s strabismus was treated with eye surgery in order to improve his condition. The procedure worked, and Redd did well when he went from attending a school for the blind to a public one. He accepted himself and his special qualities with the help of his devoted family and friends.
Redd and Rockwell are still happy now and continue to shatter stereotypes. Apart from needing a hat, sunglasses, and sunscreen when playing outside, they are just like any other kids in the world. Love and adoration for Patricia’s latest video of Rockwell during his school’s “Western Day” went viral on social media. His charming beauty and the characteristic light blue eyes of an albino person grabbed the attention of many.
Patricia’s message of love, acceptance, and understanding is evident despite the difficulties of the voyage. The tale of this family inspires us all and serves as a reminder that individuality should be valued rather than disparaged.
The next time you come across someone special, stop to hear their tale and show them some love. We can make the world more compassionate and inclusive if we work together.
“Stop Equating Thinness With Health and Happiness,” How Lena Dunham Inspires People to Fall in Love With Their Curves and Scars
There are so many things in the world that we may admire or even get inspired by, but there’s one main thing we may want to fall in love with before we start noticing the beauty of other things. It’s our own reflection in the mirror. Among all the numerous recipes for conjuring up self-love within ourselves, psychologists advise us to never compare ourselves to others and stop caring about other people’s opinions. Actress and producer Lena Dunham knows a lot about cultivating love for her own body despite all the criticism she faced, and she happily shares her journey with us all.
Lena Dunham doesn’t accept the term “body positivity,” and here’s why.
Actress and writer Lena Dunham has recently added another string to her bow and collaborated with the brand 11 Honoré to create a plus-size clothing collection. But the very term “plus size” frustrates Lena, and so is the term “body positivity.” In one of her Instagram posts, she explains that she feels more “body tolerant” than “body positive.”
In her interview, Dunham said, “The thing that’s complicated about the body-positive movement is it can be for the privileged few who have a body that looks the way people want to feel positive. We want curvy bodies that look like Kim Kardashian has been up-sized slightly. We want big beautiful butts and big beautiful breasts and no cellulite and faces that look like you could smack them onto thin women.”
Dunham has a very special relationship with her own body.
Dunhams path to self-love started with a decade-long journey with endometriosis. Since she started her own fight against it, she has been candidly sharing how it influenced both her emotional health and her relationship with her own body image. In her Instagram post, she emotionally described how she fluctuated between loving her body and the opposite.
She wrote, “Ya know when you’re home alone, and you realize you’d be happier in a hot lil’ onesie than your ketchup and cat food stained pajamas? And it’s not about a boy or a photo shoot or a weight loss before-and-after, it’s just for the feeling of glee you get from dressing your one and only corporeal form in pleasing fabrics, the unique pleasure of admiring the twists and turns of the body that loves the heck out of you even when you don’t love it.”
Dunham is powerfully addressing all people who come to her page with criticism.
In 2021, Dunham tied the knot with musician Luis Felber. It was such a darling event for her that she wore 3 wedding dresses to marry her love and shared the photos on her Instagram. However, she started getting some “gnarly” comments in her feed from people who commented on her body and appearance. The actress didn’t hesitate for a minute to address them with a powerful message.
She wrote, “One narrative I take issue with, largely because it’s a story I don’t want other women, other people, to get lodged in their heads, is that I should somehow be criticized because my body has changed since I was last on television. […] But lastly, when will we learn to stop equating thinness with health/happiness?”
Dunham’s powerful message can be echoed in the hearts of many.
For all people who have ever hesitated about embracing their body image, Dunham has some simple yet wise advice. She says, “Of course weight loss can be the result of positive change in habits, but guess what? So can weight gain. The pics I’m being compared to are from when I was with an undiagnosed illness. In the last 4 years, I’ve begun my life as someone who aspires toward health and not just achievement.
These changes have allowed me to be the kind of sister/friend/daughter that I want to be and yes — meet my husband (who, by the way, doesn’t recognize me in those old photos because he sees how dimmed my light was). I say this for any other person whose appearance has been changed with time, illness, or circumstance — it’s okay to live in your present body without treating it as transitional. I am, and I’m really enjoying it. Love you all.”
Do you find Lena Dunham’s example inspiring? What do you love the most about your appearance?
Preview photo credit Steve Granitz / WireImage / Getty Images, lenadunham / Instagram
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