As parents, we tend to teach our children to know right from wrong, but oftentimes, because of different reasons, we fail. One father learned that his daughter was bullying a girl who had cancer at school. Things went far and she even pulled the girl’s wig off. This made the father angry so he decided to take matters in his own hands and punished his daughter in a way that caused a stir, as well as mixed emotions, on the Internet. Since many slammed him for how he dealt with his bully daughter, the father later deleted the post.
“My ex-wife and I have a 16-year-old daughter together of which I have full custody (she has moved on with her new family)… My daughter recently got in trouble at school for making fun of a student that lost her hair from cancer treatment. Including pulling off her wig,” he started his post.
“Apparently there is some pre-existing bad blood between the two of them, but I don’t think that even begins to excuse her behavior.”
As it turned out, his daughter was now dating this other girl’s ex-boyfriend and that was the reason why they weren’t fond of each other.
“At some point the other girl mentioned how my daughter’s boyfriend was just using her for sex (this was actually a big shock to me as I had no idea she was sexually active) and called my daughter a sl*t,” the father shared with CafeMom. “That’s what escalated the situation and resulted in the wig incident. Supposedly they have been arguing in class ever since my daughter started dating the guy in question. Basically just stupid teenage ‘he said she said’ nonsense.”After he learned of what was going on and what his daughter did, he gave her two options to choose from in order to teach her a lesson. The first one was for him to throw all her electronics away, and the second one was for her to go to the hairdresser and get a bald haircut. The daughter chose the latter and went to school with a bald head.
“…Everyone thinks I went way overboard. Her mother went ballistic at me saying it will make her the target of bullying (kind of the point, teach her some compassion),” the father wrote.
He believed he did just the right thing, but not many agreed with him. A lot of people took their time to comment on the situation. One person wrote: “Your daughter is a bully because you are a bully. I seriously doubt this is the first time you used abuse and humiliation to ‘teach her a lesson.’” Another person added: “There’s a term for what you did. It’s called child abuse. Taking away her electronics would have been an appropriate punishment. Grounding her would have been an appropriate punishment. Disrespecting her right to bodily autonomy and humiliating her is not an appropriate punishment. She’s unlikely to learn from it and if anything it risks perpetuating a cycle of bullying.”
However, there were also those who praised his parenting. “I support your decision completely. You’re her parent so you have every right to do this, it’s not abusive, it’s real life. If she’s comfortable attacking someone for something they have no choice over she needs to see how it feels,” someone in support of the father wrote.
“She will see what kind of impact actions like hers have on the victim and that will teach her a very important lesson,” another supporter added.
So, what do you think? Do you believe the father went too far with the punishment? Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.
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Only girls understand
Some things in life don’t need explanations—they just are. And one of those things? The universal truth that girls wear lipstick when they go out but almost never at home. It’s an unspoken rule, a beauty enigma, and a habit that many women instinctively follow without even realizing it. But why does this happen? What makes lipstick an essential when stepping outside but unnecessary in the comfort of home? If you’re a woman, you already know. If you’re not, prepare to have your mind blown.
The Power of Lipstick: More Than Just Makeup
Lipstick isn’t just a cosmetic product—it’s a confidence booster, a style statement, and sometimes even a form of self-expression. A bold red, a soft nude, or a daring plum shade can change the entire vibe of an outfit. But as soon as the front door closes behind her, that carefully applied lipstick magically disappears.
Why? Because lipstick has a purpose. It’s meant to enhance, captivate, and complete a look. At home, there’s no need to impress, no social expectations, and no reason to keep reapplying something that will only fade while binge-watching Netflix.
The Effort Factor: Lipstick Is High Maintenance
Let’s be real—lipstick is work. Unlike other makeup products like foundation or mascara, lipstick requires upkeep. It smudges, it fades, it transfers onto everything from coffee cups to shirt collars. When out in public, women are willing to go through the effort of checking their reflection every so often, blotting, reapplying, and making sure it doesn’t bleed.
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At home? No, thank you. Who wants to deal with lipstick stains on pillows or the dreaded moment when you absentmindedly rub your lips and smear it across your face?
The Comfort Zone: Bare Lips Feel Better
There’s something freeing about being at home—shoes come off, hair gets tied up, and makeup? It either comes off completely or gets toned down to the bare minimum. Lipstick, in particular, can feel heavy or dry after a few hours. Even the best formulas leave a noticeable texture, and nothing beats the natural feeling of bare, hydrated lips.
A swipe of lip balm? Absolutely. A creamy lipstick that requires maintenance? Not so much.
Social Standards: Looking Good for the Outside World
Like it or not, there’s a certain societal pressure to look polished in public. Lipstick is one of the quickest ways to transform a look from “just woke up” to “put together” in seconds. Even on no-makeup days, a little lip color can make it seem like effort was made.
But when it’s just you, the couch, and your favorite hoodie, who’s there to judge? Nobody. And that’s the beauty of it—girls don’t wear lipstick at home because they don’t need to.
The Ritual of Getting Ready
For many women, putting on lipstick is part of the “getting ready” ritual. It signals the transition from home mode to outside mode. The moment that lipstick glides on, it’s game time—whether that means heading to work, going out for brunch, or just running errands.
At home, that ritual isn’t necessary. The absence of lipstick signifies relaxation, comfort, and an environment free of expectations.
The Science Behind It: Lipstick and Mood Psychology
Believe it or not, there’s actual psychology behind the lipstick phenomenon. Studies have shown that wearing lipstick can boost confidence and even influence perception. A red lip, for instance, has been linked to increased feelings of power and attractiveness.
But at home, where comfort takes priority over power moves, there’s no need for that extra confidence boost. Women aren’t trying to project anything—they’re just being themselves.
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The Unspoken Sisterhood: Every Girl Just Knows
This is one of those things that doesn’t need to be taught—it’s just understood. Ask any woman, and she’ll instantly get it. Lipstick is for the world outside; natural lips are for home. It’s not laziness, nor is it a rejection of beauty. It’s simply an unwritten rule of self-care and practicality.
Final Thoughts
If you’ve ever wondered why the same girl who rocks a flawless lipstick outside suddenly ditches it the moment she steps through her front door, now you know. It’s a mix of comfort, practicality, and the simple joy of being makeup-free when no one’s watching.
Lipstick is a powerful tool, but at home, the only approval that matters is her own. And that’s a beauty rule only girls truly understand.
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