As parents, we tend to teach our children to know right from wrong, but oftentimes, because of different reasons, we fail. One father learned that his daughter was bullying a girl who had cancer at school. Things went far and she even pulled the girl’s wig off. This made the father angry so he decided to take matters in his own hands and punished his daughter in a way that caused a stir, as well as mixed emotions, on the Internet. Since many slammed him for how he dealt with his bully daughter, the father later deleted the post.
“My ex-wife and I have a 16-year-old daughter together of which I have full custody (she has moved on with her new family)… My daughter recently got in trouble at school for making fun of a student that lost her hair from cancer treatment. Including pulling off her wig,” he started his post.
“Apparently there is some pre-existing bad blood between the two of them, but I don’t think that even begins to excuse her behavior.”
As it turned out, his daughter was now dating this other girl’s ex-boyfriend and that was the reason why they weren’t fond of each other.
“At some point the other girl mentioned how my daughter’s boyfriend was just using her for sex (this was actually a big shock to me as I had no idea she was sexually active) and called my daughter a sl*t,” the father shared with CafeMom. “That’s what escalated the situation and resulted in the wig incident. Supposedly they have been arguing in class ever since my daughter started dating the guy in question. Basically just stupid teenage ‘he said she said’ nonsense.”After he learned of what was going on and what his daughter did, he gave her two options to choose from in order to teach her a lesson. The first one was for him to throw all her electronics away, and the second one was for her to go to the hairdresser and get a bald haircut. The daughter chose the latter and went to school with a bald head.
“…Everyone thinks I went way overboard. Her mother went ballistic at me saying it will make her the target of bullying (kind of the point, teach her some compassion),” the father wrote.
He believed he did just the right thing, but not many agreed with him. A lot of people took their time to comment on the situation. One person wrote: “Your daughter is a bully because you are a bully. I seriously doubt this is the first time you used abuse and humiliation to ‘teach her a lesson.’” Another person added: “There’s a term for what you did. It’s called child abuse. Taking away her electronics would have been an appropriate punishment. Grounding her would have been an appropriate punishment. Disrespecting her right to bodily autonomy and humiliating her is not an appropriate punishment. She’s unlikely to learn from it and if anything it risks perpetuating a cycle of bullying.”
However, there were also those who praised his parenting. “I support your decision completely. You’re her parent so you have every right to do this, it’s not abusive, it’s real life. If she’s comfortable attacking someone for something they have no choice over she needs to see how it feels,” someone in support of the father wrote.
“She will see what kind of impact actions like hers have on the victim and that will teach her a very important lesson,” another supporter added.
So, what do you think? Do you believe the father went too far with the punishment? Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.
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They Adopted A Pit Bull From An Animal Shelter, But What The Dog Did One Day They Were Shocked
In a quaint Minnesota town, a family’s journey took an unexpected turn when they welcomed Joy, a pit bull mix, into their fold from a local animal shelter two years ago. Little did they know, Joy would soon become more than just a pet; she would emerge as a guardian angel for their two children, Emilly, 6, and Jonas, 10.
The bond between the kids and Joy was instantaneous and unbreakable. Days were spent in joyous companionship, with playful romps, leisurely strolls, and even shared bedtime stories. But it was the special connection between Jonas and Joy that truly warmed the heart.
One fateful evening, as the family basked in the tranquility of their backyard, a sudden commotion upstairs jolted them from their reverie. Jonas’s mother, sensing something amiss, hurriedly made her way to investigate, her heart racing with apprehension.
What she discovered in the bathroom sent shivers down her spine. Jonas lay unconscious in the tub, perilously close to slipping into the water. And there, amidst the chaos, was Joy, frantically barking and tugging at Jonas’s hair and hands, her instincts kicking into overdrive.
In a moment of sheer terror, Jonas’s mother realized that Joy was not the cause of distress but rather the beacon of hope in their darkest hour. With trembling hands, she dialed 911, and within moments, paramedics were on the scene, whisking Jonas away to safety.
It was Joy’s unwavering determination and quick thinking that saved Jonas’s life that night. Gratitude overflowed in the family’s hearts as they reflected on the miraculous turn of events. “Without Joy, I shudder to think what might have happened”, Jonas’s mother remarked tearfully. “Her heroism knows no bounds, and for that, we are eternally grateful. She deserves all the steaks in the world.”
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