Sadie and Jarvis Sampson tried for years to have a baby, using every method they could think of. They eventually accepted that they might only ever be an aunt and uncle. Then, one day, they got a text that changed their lives completely.
The couple had been trying to get pregnant since they got married in January 2018, but when it didn’t happen on its own, they tried everything else.
“We used ovulation tests, took prenatal vitamins, tracked cycles with apps, and used fertility monitors,” the Houston mom told Love What Matters.
“We even tried advice from friends, family, and strangers. For 14 months, we tried, prayed, and waited. Month after month, it was always a negative pregnancy test. It seemed like we might need help to conceive, so we even talked to doctors about it.”
Doctors didn’t offer much help to the couple. They mostly told Sadie to lose weight to improve her chances of getting pregnant. With no other advice, she had gastric surgery and lost 28 pounds.
Sadie’s OBGYN was excited about the weight loss and praised her for it.
“She told me that if I wasn’t pregnant within six months, she would refer me to a fertility specialist because she couldn’t prescribe fertility medication herself,” Sadie said. “I was thrilled! We finally got a positive step forward, even if it wasn’t immediate. We were excited about the progress.”
Unfortunately, the couple didn’t get pregnant after Sadie lost the weight, and they felt like they were back where they started.
“I always felt like I was meant to be a mother,” Sadie said. “Even though my surgeon warned me that I’d be very fertile after the surgery, I still wasn’t getting pregnant. So, we gave up and accepted that we might just be aunt and uncle to our nieces and godparents to our goddaughters.”
Just when the couple had decided to stop trying to have a baby, Sadie got a text from a friend asking if they would think about fostering a baby from a couple she knew.
At first, the couple was hesitant because they were told by a caseworker to take care of the baby while the birth mom was getting treatment. They worried they might get too attached. But then, the situation changed.
“The birth mom has decided she wants you to adopt the baby instead,” the caseworker said.
Sadie remembered saying, “‘Holy crap!!’ out loud when she found out she was going to be a mom.
“We went from having no kids to possibly fostering one, to suddenly being told, ‘You’re going to be parents!’ I was still in shock as I listened to the caseworker. I hung up and called my husband, shouting, ‘Babe!! They want us to adopt the baby! We’re going to be parents!’ He said, ‘Wait! REALLY?! I thought they just wanted us to foster him!’ I told him, ‘Nope! They want us to be his mom and dad.’”
The couple spent the weekend trying to take in the shocking news and getting ready, just in case the birth mom changed her mind.
By Monday, they were not only told that the birth mom still wanted them to adopt the baby, but she also wanted to do an independent adoption and was ready to sign the papers that day.
Their baby boy was born at just 33 weeks, which is seven weeks early. He weighed 4 lbs. 5 oz. “He was so tiny, he literally fit in one of my husband’s hands,” Sadie wrote.
“He was wrapped in a white blanket with pink and blue stripes,” Sadie said. “He had a small tube coming out of his nose because he couldn’t eat on his own since he was born early. But he was so cute!!!”
The couple shared their news on social media and were encouraged to create a registry. They listed 72 items, and within just three days, 55 of them were already bought for them.
Ezra Lee’s adoption was finalized in October 2020, and the couple had adorable family photos taken, all wearing t-shirts that said, “Families don’t have to match.”
In 2021, Sadie and Jarvis became parents to twin girls, Journee and Destinee, through embryo donation. True to their family motto, “Families don’t have to match,” the Black couple now has three white children – a boy and two girls.
For anyone who might judge their beautiful family, they have just one response: their family is built on the strongest foundation ever – love.
Australia Implements ‘Glow In The Dark’ Road Markings To Improve Safety
Using a novel approach, Australians are paving the way for safer nighttime driving: glow-in-the-dark road markers. These creative marks are inspired by the glowing hands of tactical watches and are intended to increase road safety and visibility, especially at night.
Selected highways in the state of Victoria will be painted with fluorescent paint as part of this ground-breaking effort, which is being led by Regional highways Victoria as part of an extensive road safety campaign. The state’s Innovative Package includes glow-in-the-dark lines, which have the potential to completely transform nighttime driving conditions for drivers all around the region.
Although the idea has been praised for its potential to improve traffic safety, other people are worried about possible risks brought on by the increased luminance. The criticisms vary from worries about the photoluminescent paint’s durability and safety to worries about the temptation for drivers to turn off their headlights.
Advocates of the effort, however, are unfazed, highlighting the revolutionary potential effects it may have on road visibility and driver attentiveness. The investment in glow-in-the-dark road markings, which is expected to cost AUD $4 million (USD $2.82 million), highlights the dedication to innovative solutions that put public safety and well-being first.
In addition, the installation of LED tactile paving at controlled pedestrian crossings is a critical step in improving pedestrian safety, especially in metropolitan settings where there are many distractions. The LED hues are synchronized with traffic light signals to provide pedestrians with enhanced visibility and direction, thereby reducing the risks associated with low visibility conditions.
Even though there were some initial concerns and doubts about the application of glow-in-the-dark road markings, the basic objective is still very much the same: to create a safer and easier-to-navigate road environment for everyone. With Australia leading the way in these cutting-edge approaches to road safety issues, there is a bright future ahead for safer nighttime driving. The idea of safer roads illuminated by progress is becoming closer with constant attention to detail, teamwork, and creativity.
Some individuals believe it to be extremely dangerous since people may be tempted to switch off their headlights in an attempt to show off how awesome it is, despite the positive reviews and potential for increased safety.You simply can’t prevail, can you?
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