Here’s Why I Refused to Take Care of My Mother with Disability– Story of the Day

My mother had a clear favorite her entire life, while I was raised by my grandparents mostly. When she got old and sick, I helped financially but refused to do more than that for a crucial reason.

While most good parents would tell you that they don’t have a favorite, my mother was not ashamed to tell me that my brother, Stanley, was her golden boy. My father walked out of our family because caring for two children became too much.

In the end, my mother blamed me for it. “He wouldn’t have left if I hadn’t gotten pregnant with you,” she told me one day. I was just a child at the time and only wanted my mother’s love.

“But that’s not my fault,” I replied. “I didn’t ask to be born.”

“Don’t talk back to me! I’m the parent, and you’re the kid, so shut up,” she finished. We would have similar conversations through the years whenever she was mad at me. Finally, my mother sent me to live with my paternal grandparents.

They felt so bad that our father had walked away from our lives that they took me in and gave me all the love I never received at home. That’s how I learned that the word family has lots of meanings.

All I heard about my mother and brother over the years was that she helped him with everything. He got into some trouble with the police, and my mother paid all his legal fees. Eventually, she had to sell her house and pay for his apartment.

Stanley was spoiled and couldn’t hold down a job, but my mother coddled him. Meanwhile, my grandparents didn’t have much money, but they gave me everything they could. I had to work to afford my college and my home.

I learned a whole ton of responsibility, and when I graduated, I got a pretty decent job. That’s where I met my husband, Lawrence. We had two daughters whom I cherished equally. When my grandparents got sick, I was there for them until the very end.

They gave me their house, and one of my daughters moved there when she got married. Unfortunately, my husband died shortly after her wedding. She asked me to live with her, but I wanted to stay in our home.

I didn’t hear from my brother or my mother for many years. They didn’t care about me at all, so why should I care about them? But one day, Stanley called. “Hello?” I answered the phone.

“Hey, Brooke. It’s Stanley. How are you?” my brother said through the other line.

“Oh, hey, Stanley. Long time, no speak. I’m fine. How about you?” I replied.

“Yeah, it’s been a while. Listen, I’m calling because Mom broke her hip. I need your help,” Stanley continued.

“Oh, that’s too bad. Is she ok?” I asked.

“She’s fine. It’s just that the hospital bill will be pretty expensive, and I need help paying for it. She’s our mother after all,” he explained.

“Oh, well. Ok. Give me the details, and I’ll send some money,” I told him. My husband and I had accumulated decent savings, so I could afford to send Stanley some money for whatever our mother needed.

“That’s great, Brooke. Thank you. I’ll talk to you later,” Stanley said and hung up. I didn’t feel any obligation to my mother, but I wasn’t heartless. I sent him the money and forgot about it until a week later when my brother called again.

“Hey, Brooke!” Stanley started.

“Hey. How did everything go?” I asked.

“The operation for her hip went well, but the doctor just told me she’s going to need tons of rehab and round-the-clock care. I was wondering when you could come to pick her up?” my brother asked.

“What do you mean pick her up?” I probed, confused.

“I told you. She needs someone to take care of her. I’ve been by her side our whole lives. It’s time you take responsibility, Brooke. I can’t watch her,” Stanley added.

“Excuse me? Responsibility? Mom sent me to live with our grandparents because she hated me, and you were her golden boy. She essentially abandoned me,” I snapped.

“Please. Stop the melodrama. You need to step up because she needs you. She gave you life. You owe her,” Stanley demanded.

“No. I don’t owe her anything. I needed my mother when I was growing up, and she refused. She gave all her love to you, so you will need to figure out something. I gave you money for her hospital bills out of the goodness of my heart, but I won’t be her caretaker,” I told him.

“YOU’RE HORRIBLE, BROOKE! HOW CAN YOU DO THIS? I CAN’T WATCH HER!” Stanley started screaming through the phone.

“Honestly, I don’t care, Stanley. You don’t get to call me horrible. I was a kid when she abandoned me, and my grandparents became my REAL PARENTS. Don’t call me again!” I finished and hung up the call.

Stanley tried calling, texting, e-mailing, and more for several days, but I blocked him. He also tried contacting my daughters, but they refused to listen to him. They knew my history with that side of the family.

Of course, Stanley and my mother bad-mouthed me to anyone who would listen. I have been severely judged for my decision, but I didn’t listen to their criticism. After all, no one ever judged my mother for what she did to me.

What can we learn from this story?

  1. Caring for your loved ones is important. While Brooke’s choice is controversial, it’s easy to understand her point of view, given her background.
  2. Forgiveness is divine. Sometimes, you have to be the bigger person. Caring for your parents when they’re old is a big duty, both financially and emotionally. Someone has to do it.

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I Found Out My Son Was Planning to Cheat on My Lovely Daughter-in-Law and Decided to Crash His Date with His Mistress

Maggie adores her daughter-in-law, Lara. So when she overhears her son, Dan, planning a night with his mistress, she refuses to stay silent. With Lara by her side, she follows him, straight to his betrayal. But exposing him just isn’t enough. Instead, Maggie is about to teach her son a lesson that will cost him everything.

I have two sons. My eldest? James. A loving husband, a wonderful father, hardworking, honest, and kind.

My other son? Dan.

A woman sitting at a kitchen table | Source: Midjourney

A woman sitting at a kitchen table | Source: Midjourney

Dan has always been… difficult. Selfish. Lazy. He was the type of kid who skated by on charm, always looking for the easiest way out. While James built a life, Dan bounced from one “passion” to another.

“It’s just the way I am, Mom,” he’d say. “Life is full of opportunities, and I want to try them out!”

The latest? A local fitness blogger, selling online courses on “proper nutrition and sports.” He barely had any followers, but he loved the attention.

A smiling man | Source: Midjourney

A smiling man | Source: Midjourney

The comments, the likes, the little taste of fame.

We had long accepted that Dan would never settle down. So when he married Lara six months ago, we were shocked.

And Lara?

Oh, she was a dream. Sweet, thoughtful, kind, exactly the kind of woman I wished Dan could be worthy of. A wonderful wife and an even better daughter-in-law. A beautiful soul. And for a moment, I truly believed she could change him.

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A young woman holding a puppy | Source: Midjourney

But Dan is Dan.

And a few nights ago, I found out exactly how much of a fool I had been.

It was late afternoon, and Dan was in my guest bedroom. He and Lara had a studio apartment, meaning that there was no room for his digital set-up. I was used to him coming and going, constantly making noise while filming.

I had just put the kettle on when I heard Dan’s voice, muffled but still audible, coming from the hallway.

“Yes, babe,” he chuckled. “I miss you too. But she’ll be at work tomorrow until late, so we can go to the restaurant and then move to the hotel. Yeah?”

A man talking on a phone in a hallway | Source: Midjourney

A man talking on a phone in a hallway | Source: Midjourney

There was silence for a moment.

“Yes, the fancy restaurant on Paradise, Jen… I’ll text you the time.”

I gripped the container of teabags I was holding. My stomach dropped.

This foolish man was cheating.

On Lara.

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A woman standing in a kitchen | Source: Midjourney

The sweet girl who made him homemade lunches. Who laughed at his bad jokes. Who believed in him when the rest of us had given up any hope.

My hands shook as I turned off the stove. And in that moment, I made my decision.

I wasn’t going to let Lara be another woman blindsided by Dan’s selfishness. I was going to tell her everything. And we were going to teach Dan a lesson.

A woman making a sandwich | Source: Midjourney

A woman making a sandwich | Source: Midjourney

The next afternoon, I picked Lara up from work. She greeted me with a warm smile, wiping her hands on her apron. She worked at one of the busiest bakeries in town.

“Maggie! What a surprise! What are you doing here?” she asked, beaming.

I took a deep breath.

“Lara, sweetheart, we need to talk.”

A young woman in a bakery | Source: Midjourney

A young woman in a bakery | Source: Midjourney

We sat in my car, and I told her everything. Every single word I had overheard. Everything I had suspected.

Her face went pale.

“He… he said that?” her voice cracked.

“I love and respect you too much to hide it, Lara. You’re the daughter I never had,” I said, reaching for her hand.

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A woman sitting in a car | Source: Midjourney

Tears welled in her eyes, and she clutched her apron tightly with one hand. But she didn’t break.

She swallowed hard and whispered,

“I want to see it with my own eyes. Do you know which restaurant?”

I nodded.

“Then let’s go, sweetheart. I heard which restaurant while he was on the phone.”

The exterior of a restaurant | Source: Midjourney

The exterior of a restaurant | Source: Midjourney

Dan had made dinner reservations at a fancy restaurant. One of those dimly lit places where the food is served in tiny portions, but the bill could make you cry.

Lara and I slipped inside, finding a perfect spot by the window.

And there he was.

My son, grinning like a fool, sitting across from a blonde woman in a tight red dress. Jen.

A woman sitting in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney

A woman sitting in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney

She leaned in, twirling a piece of hair around her finger, laughing at something he said.

I watched Lara dig her nails into her palm. I put my hand on her knee.

“Breathe, Lara. It’s not over yet.”

“Unbelievable,” she muttered.

We didn’t confront them. Not yet. We just watched. Watched him pour her wine. Watched him whisper in her ear. Watched him act like he wasn’t married to the best woman he would ever have.

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An upset woman | Source: Midjourney

Someone a million times more than he deserved.

Then, hand in hand, they left the restaurant.

And we followed.

As they approached the hotel two roads away, we sat in the car and waited. As much as I knew we were doing the right thing, I didn’t want to break Lara’s heart. But here Dan was… already doing that.

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The exterior of a hotel | Source: Midjourney

I pulled out my phone.

“He probably posted something about it on his socials, right? Dan’s that stupid. He can’t resist posting hints about his ‘private life.’”

“Let’s check his story,” Lara said.

And there it was.

A grainy black-and-white photo of a hotel hallway, stupidly captioned:

Privacy is everything.

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A hotel hallway | Source: Midjourney

Lara zoomed in, and all the answers were there.

“Room 312,” she said.

Bingo.

Dan had given us everything we needed.

We got to the third floor just in time to see Dan and Jen disappear inside the room.

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A woman walking down a hotel hallway | Source: Midjourney

“Are you sure you want to do this, Mom?” she asked, exhaling slowly.

I loved when she called me Mom. It made my heart melt. And I realized that I truly did love this girl.

“Oh, sweetheart, I’ve never been more sure of anything in my life, Lara,” I said. “He cannot get away with this.”

And with that, we stormed in.

Dan was on the bed, his shirt already halfway unbuttoned, Jen straddling his lap.

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A man sitting on a hotel bed | Source: Midjourney

His face went ghost white when he realized what was happening.

“What the… Mom?!” he yelped, scrambling to push Jen off him.

Lara wasn’t crying. She wasn’t yelling. She simply picked up Dan’s phone from the table with his wallet and watch and held it up.

“Smile for the camera, Daniel,” she said.

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A man’s phone and wallet on a table | Source: Midjourney

And just like that, she went live on socials.

Dan’s followers flooded in. His small but dedicated audience, the ones who actually believed in his “perfect athlete and family man” persona, were tuned in and watching.

“Hey, everyone!” Lara said into the camera, her voice steady although her hands shook. “You all think this man is a role model, right? A perfect husband? A loyal partner?”

She turned the camera to Dan.

Jen shrieked, covering her face. Dan lunged for the phone.

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A woman holding a phone | Source: Midjourney

“Turn it off, dammit!” he screamed.

I stepped in front of him.

“Oh, honey, don’t you dare.”

Lara looked straight into the camera.

“Meet the real Dan. A liar. A cheater. A fraud. This is what he does while he tells you to be ‘better, stronger, healthier!’ While his wife is at work, supporting him. This is the man you follow. This is the man you trust.”

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An angry man | Source: Midjourney

I picked up my phone and joined in on the live. I wanted to see the comment section explode.

Wait! He’s married?!

This is the guy I bought a nutrition plan from?

Unfollowing NOW! What a joke!

Is this him cheating? And his wife is exposing him? Haha!

Dan shouted. He yanked at his hair, rage and panic flooding his face.

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A woman using her phone | Source: Midjourney

But it was too late. The world had seen him. The real him.

The fallout was brutal.

Lara filed for divorce. Dan lost everything. Sponsors dropped him immediately. Followers vanished overnight. And as for Dan’s courses?

Refund requests flooded in.

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An upset man | Source: Midjourney

James, my eldest, washed his hands of him.

“No way. I’m not bailing you out this time, Dan. And why would you do that to Lara? You make me sick. I don’t want my kids to know you.”

And me?

I did what a mother had to do.

I let him fall.

Because if you raise a son who has no respect for his wife, then as a mother, you have failed.

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A woman sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney

I may have lost a son that night, but I gained a daughter.

And I’d choose Lara every time.

Lara sat at the kitchen table, fingers tracing the rim of her mug. The warmth of the tea did little to thaw the heaviness in her chest. It was clear to see.

“I still can’t believe you stood by me like this,” she whispered, her voice thick with emotion. “You didn’t have to. You could’ve just… ignored it. Pretended that you didn’t hear any of it.”

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A woman sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

I swallowed the lump in my throat.

“Sweetheart, how could I?” I said softly. “I love you. You’re my daughter, even if not by blood.”

Lara looked up, her eyes glassy.

“But it must have hurt. To see your own son exposed like that.”

I clenched my hands around my mug.

“It broke me, Lara,” I admitted.

A woman sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

A woman sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

“Because of what he did to me?” she asked, her gaze fixed on the scone in front of her.

“Because of what he turned into,” I said. “Because I raised a man who could humiliate a woman like you. And because I couldn’t stop it.”

Lara let out a watery chuckle. “And instead, you helped me destroy him.”

I smirked. “Damn right I did.”

She reached across the table, squeezing my hand.

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A scone with jam and cream | Source: Midjourney

“I lost a husband,” she whispered, “but I gained a mother.”

Tears stung my eyes.

“And I’ll always choose you, sweetheart.”

A week later, Dan had moved out of his apartment and into Jen’s home, leaving Lara to find herself in her own space. But this evening, he had come home for one final family meeting.

Dan stood in my living room, arms crossed, looking every bit the sulking child he had always been. James sat beside me, his jaw clenched so tight I thought he might break his teeth.

“So, what now?” Dan scoffed. “You guys are just going to cut me out completely?”

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An angry man | Source: Midjourney

James exhaled sharply.

“You did that yourself, Dan.”

Dan rolled his eyes. “Oh, come on. Lara’s fine. She got her revenge. What more do you want?”

I stared at him, disgust curling in my stomach.

“Fine?” My voice was low, dangerous. “You humiliated her. You destroyed your own marriage. You ruined everything, and for what? A cheap thrill?”

A woman sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney

A woman sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney

Dan scoffed. “It wasn’t like that…”

“Shut up, Dan.” James’s voice was sharp, cutting through his excuses. “For once in your life, shut up and take responsibility.”

Dan had the audacity to laugh.

“Oh, please. You’ve always hated me. This is just an excuse to push me out.”

I stood up, my hands trembling.

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A woman standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

“Do you think this is easy for me?” I whispered. “Do you think I wanted to be ashamed of my own son?”

Dan’s smirk faltered.

“I have always loved you, Dan. Even when you failed. Even when you disappointed us.” I swallowed hard. “But this? I can’t stand by you after this.”

James stood beside me.

“Neither can I.”

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A man standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

Dan looked between us, panic flickering in his eyes.

“You’re choosing her over me?” he asked, voice cracking.

I nodded.

“Dan. I’m choosing what’s right over you.”

And with that, I turned away. James followed. As for Dan? He was finally alone.

Some betrayals deserve to be exposed. Some men deserve to lose everything. And sometimes? Your real family isn’t the one you’re born into. It’s the one you choose.

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A woman holding a plant | Source: Midjourney

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When Emily’s sister-in-law plans an elaborate potluck, she feels nothing but dread at the things that Jessica insists she brings. Trying to keep her budget in mind, Emily makes a casserole, but Jessica dismisses it, and her. It’s only when karma steps in, that Jessica has no choice but to eat humble pie.

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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