Betrayal is among the most devastating feelings, but it takes on an even more horrible dimension if it comes from a close family member.
That’s the case of Josie, who felt utterly crushed when her son lied to her.
The devoted mother made a decision to give her house to her son and his young wife so they could comfortably start a family, but things took a turn that Josie wouldn’t have expected in a million years. She sent a letter to us to share her story and ask for advice.
Here’s her story
I live alone in a 3-bedroom house. My recently married son kept saying that it was the perfect home to start a family, so I ended up giving it to them while I went to live with my widowed sister.
Yesterday, my son told me that his mother-in-law is moving in with them. I said, “I didn’t leave my home to have her live with you.”
My daughter-in-law declared, “We lied about starting a family right away. We are not ready yet; we’re too young.” She added, “But my mom is alone. We have a big house now, so she will come live with us.”
I was furious and said that I didn’t agree to this arrangement. I reminded her that it is still technically my house.
My son then stated, “My MIL is much more in need of us than you are. She’s my family too now and I have to take care of her.”
I feel betrayed and heartbroken. What should I do?
Randy Travis: A Story of Resilience and Hope
Randy Travis is a well-known country music performer whose rich baritone voice has won over millions of fans. Travis has had great success in his career, from selling over 25 million albums to collecting Grammy awards. But despite his notoriety and splendor, he has had his share of difficulties.
Travis went to the ER in July 2013 with complaints of congestion; nevertheless, a few days later, he suffered a massive stroke. He was placed on life support to preserve his brain due to the substantial damage to the core of his left brain. With only 1% chance of life, the doctors forced his then-fiance Mary to make an impossible choice. Nevertheless, she remained by his side, resolved to defend his life.
After undergoing brain surgery, Travis stayed in the hospital for more than six months to recuperate. He had trouble walking and speaking after the stroke, but with his wife’s help and physical therapy, he was able to gradually restore his strength. Even though it got harder for Travis to sing and perform, he didn’t let it define who he was.
Randy Travis stunned the crowd in 2016 at the Country Music Hall of Fame by performing “Amazing Grace” for the first time after suffering a stroke. His performance stunned everyone in the room when his wife spoke on his behalf. It served as evidence of both his tenacity and the miracle he encountered.
Eager to reunite with his fans, Travis returned to the CMA Fest three years later. He smiled beautifully as he posed for pictures, signed autographs, and greeted his fans for the first time in twenty years. In terms of getting his life back and sharing his music with others, it was a big step.
Travis shared details of his experience in his autobiography, “Forever and Ever, Amen: A Memoir of Music, Faith, and Braving the Storms of Life.” He was frank in sharing his highs and lows, from his celebrated music career to his struggles with drinking. Travis talked about his serious financial difficulties as well as the lessons he discovered along the way.
Despite his continuous battle with aphasia, Travis’s wife affirms that his singing ability is still present as he approaches his 61st birthday. His baritone voice, which is a testament to his artistic ability, is still audible. He sings in the car when they drive, in the correct mood and with great verses.
The tale of Randy Travis is one of tenacity, optimism, and the force of love. It reminds us that no matter what obstacles we encounter, we can return to what really matters if we have the love and support of our loved ones and a strong will.
As we honor Randy Travis’ unyielding spirit and timeless music, let’s keep him and his amazing journey in our prayers.
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