When Elliot Costello and a group of other people visited Cambodia, he had an encounter with a young girl named Thea.
Little did Elliot know that this encounter would have an impact so profound on him that it would help start a movement whose goal is to end sexual abuse against children.
Namely, Thea always had nail polish on her tiny nails. One day, as she and Elliot chatted, she asked to paint one of his nails. He agreed and was happy to speak to the chatty girl, but he then learned that she was once a victim of sexual abuse.
“As she painted one of my nails, I assured her I would always keep it that way to remember her, and by extension, her suffering,” Elliot said.
This motivated Elliot to try and make positive change among men so that less and less children fall victims of sexual abuse.
That is when he came up with the movement called #PolishedMan where men put nail polish on one of their nails. That one nail represents the one in five children who will be victims of sexual violence.
Polished Man works towards ending sexual violence against children. According to the organization, “being a Polished Man means challenging violent behavior and language, both locally and globally.”
Elliot believes that since men are responsible for 96% of this type of violence against children globally, they should be catalyst for change if we are ever to see an end to the abuse of innocent children.
The goal with the painted nail isn’t just to remind people of the number of children who are abused every single day, but to serve as a conversation starter about this reality, leading to new ideas about prevention. He also hopes that people will start donating to “support educational programs and resources for child survivors of abuse,” as per APlus.
We hope that more men, including celebrities would be willing to join this movement.
Woman Marks 100th Birthday Solo Until Man from Her Past, Unseen for 60 Years, Shows Up at Her Door
On her 100th birthday, Miranda found herself alone, having outlived all her friends and loved ones. As she prepared to blow out the candles on her birthday cake, a surprise visitor arrived, someone she hadn’t seen in six decades.
Miranda sat quietly at her kitchen table, reflecting on a life filled with historical changes and personal achievements. She had chosen her nursing career over marriage and children, and though some had predicted she would regret it, she felt at peace with her choices. Her life had been full, and while loneliness touched her from time to time, she was content.
On this particular birthday, the solitude felt especially poignant. She reminisced about past celebrations and the joy they brought. But her introspection was interrupted by the sound of the doorbell. Startled, she shuffled to answer it, wondering who could be visiting.
To her surprise, a man in his 60s or 70s stood at her doorstep, looking at her with a familiar yet distant smile. He introduced himself as Adrian Miller, a name that sparked distant memories for Miranda.
Adrian revealed that he had been one of her patients many years ago, a young boy battling cancer. Despite the dire prognosis at the time, Miranda and her team had provided hope and care, and Adrian had made a miraculous recovery. Over the years, Miranda had kept in touch with his family, but they had lost contact after moving away.
Seeing Adrian now, all grown up, was a profound moment for Miranda. The encounter filled her with a deep sense of joy. They spent hours reminiscing and catching up, with Adrian showing her pictures of his life, his family, travels, and achievements.
Miranda felt overwhelmed with happiness, realizing that the impact of her work had not only touched lives but had also come full circle with this unexpected reunion. The birthday that had started in solitude ended with a meaningful connection, reminding her of the lasting effect of compassion and care.
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