My Mother Abandoned 10-Year-Old Me to Raise Her ‘Perfect Son’ — but My Grandma Made Her Pay for It

I was ten when my mother decided I was a burden. She had a new family and I didn’t fit the picture. So she got rid of me and gave me away like I was nothing to raise her “perfect son.” My grandma took me in and loved me. Years later, the woman who abandoned me showed up at my door… begging.

There’s a moment when you realize some wounds never heal. For me, that moment came at 32 as I stood at my grandmother’s grave. The only person who had ever truly loved me was gone, and the woman who gave birth to me and abandoned me stood across the cemetery, not even looking in my direction.

I hadn’t seen my mother in years. Not since she decided my brother was worth raising… but I wasn’t.

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A grieving woman in a cemetery | Source: Midjourney

The rain fell in sheets that day, soaking through my black dress as I watched them lower Grandma Brooke’s casket into the ground. My mother, Pamela, stood under an umbrella with her perfect family — her husband Charlie and their son Jason… my replacement and the “golden” child worthy of her love.

She didn’t cry. Not really. She just dabbed at her eyes occasionally for show.

When it was over, she turned and walked away without a word to me, just like she had 22 years ago when I was ten. I remained rooted to the spot, alone with the fresh mound of dirt that covered the only parent I’d ever really had.

“I don’t know how to do this without you, Grandma,” I whispered to the grave.

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A heartbroken woman | Source: Midjourney

I was born from a brief affair and I was an inconvenience my mother never wanted. When I was ten, she married my stepfather Charlie and gave birth to their “perfect son” Jason. Suddenly, I became nothing more than a reminder of her past mistake.

I still remember the day she told me I wouldn’t be living with them anymore.

“Rebecca, come here,” she called from the kitchen table where she sat with Grandma Brooke.

I walked in, hope blooming in my chest.

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A frustrated woman | Source: Midjourney

“Yes, Mom?” I asked. She rarely spoke directly to me anymore.

Her eyes were cold and distant. “You’re going to live with Grandma now.”

The words didn’t make sense at first. “Like… for the weekend?”

“No,” she said, not meeting my eyes. “Permanently. Grandma’s going to take care of you from now on.”

I looked at Grandma, whose face was tight with anger and grief.

“But why? Did I do something wrong?”

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A sad little girl looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

“Don’t make this harder than it has to be,” my mother snapped. “I have a real family now. You’re just… in the way.”

Grandma’s hand slammed the table. “Enough, Pamela! She’s a child, for God’s sake. Your child.”

My mother shrugged. “A mistake I’ve paid for long enough. Either you take her, or I’ll find someone who will.”

I stood there, tears streaming down my face, invisible to the woman who gave birth to me.

“Pack your things, sweetheart,” Grandma said gently, wrapping her arms around me. “We’ll make this work, I promise.”

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An annoyed older woman | Source: Midjourney

Grandma’s house became my sanctuary. A place where I was wanted and where someone’s eyes lit up when I walked into the room. She hung my artwork on the fridge, helped with my homework, and tucked me in every night.

Still, the wound of my mother’s rejection festered.

“Why doesn’t she want me?” I asked one night as Grandma brushed my hair before bed.

Her hands paused. “Oh, Becca. Some people aren’t capable of the love they should give. It’s not your fault, honey. Never think it’s your fault.”

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An upset girl | Source: Midjourney

“But she loves Jason.”

Grandma resumed brushing, each stroke gentle and soothing. “Your mother is broken in ways I couldn’t fix. I tried, God knows I tried. But she’s always run from her mistakes instead of facing them.”

“So I’m a mistake?”

“No, honey. You are a gift. The best thing that ever happened to me. Your mother just can’t see past her own selfishness to recognize what she’s throwing away.”

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An older woman with a kind smile | Source: Midjourney

I leaned into her embrace, breathing in the scent of lavender that clung to her clothes.

“Will you ever leave me too, Grandma?” I whispered.

“Never,” she said fiercely. “As long as there’s breath in my body, you will always have a home with me.”

“Promise?”

“I promise.”

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A disheartened girl looking up at someone with hope | Source: Midjourney

When I was 11, Grandma insisted we visit for a “family dinner.” She thought it was important to maintain some connection, however tenuous. Deep down, I hoped my mother realized what she’d thrown away and welcome me back with open arms.

Walking in, I saw her doting over my brother, laughing and proud… like she had never abandoned me. One-year-old Jason sat in a high chair, mashed potatoes smeared across his chubby face. My mother wiped it away with such tenderness it made my chest ache.

She barely glanced at me.

“Hey, Mom,” I said, forcing a smile.

She frowned. “Oh! You’re here.”

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A woman frowning | Source: Midjourney

My chest tightened, but I swallowed the hurt and reached into my pocket. I pulled out a small, slightly crumpled handmade card. I had spent hours on it, carefully folding the paper, writing “I Love You, Mom” in my neatest handwriting on the front.

Inside, I had drawn a picture of our family — me, my mother, my stepfather, my baby brother, and my grandmother. I had colored it with the few markers I had, making sure to give everyone a smile. Because that’s how I wanted us to be… a real, happy family.

With hopeful eyes, I extended it toward her. “I made this for you.”

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A desperate little girl holding a sheet of paper | Source: Midjourney

She barely glanced at it before passing it to my brother. “Here, honey. Something for you.”

I froze. That gift wasn’t for him. It was from me to my mother.

“I-I got that for you.”

She waved a hand dismissively. “Oh, what would I need it for? I have everything I want.”

Everything. Except me.

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A shattered girl | Source: Midjourney

Years of neglect hung between us. My grandmother shot me a sympathetic glance, but I forced a smile. I wouldn’t let them see me break.

“Dinner’s ready,” Charlie called from the dining room, oblivious to the moment or choosing to ignore it.

“Come on,” my mother said, lifting Jason from his high chair. “The roast will get cold.”

That was the last time I ever wanted to see my mother. After that night, I stopped trying. And she didn’t seem to care. Not long after, she moved to another city and only called my grandmother occasionally. But she never called me.

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Shot of an airplane passing above high-rise buildings | Source: Unsplash

Years passed. I grew up, became a successful woman, and built a life of my own. I went to college on scholarships, got a job in marketing, and bought a small house near Grandma’s cottage. I dated, sometimes seriously, but relationships were hard. Trust didn’t come easily when my own mother couldn’t love me.

Grandma was my rock through everything. She never missed a graduation, a birthday, or a milestone. She hung my college diploma next to her achievements. She made sure I knew I belonged.

But time is relentless. My grandmother, my true parent, grew older too. Her hands became gnarled with arthritis, her steps slower, and her memory was sometimes foggy.

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An older woman walking in a park | Source: Pexels

“Remember when you tried to teach me to bake cookies and we set off the smoke alarm?” I asked one afternoon as we walked in her beloved garden.

She laughed, the sound still musical despite her 78 years. “The neighbors thought the house was on fire. That fireman was so handsome, though… I almost didn’t mind the embarrassment.”

“You flirted with him shamelessly,” I teased.

“Life’s too short not to flirt with handsome firemen, Rebecca.” She patted my hand. “Promise me something?”

“Anything.”

“When I’m gone, don’t waste time on bitterness. Your mother made her choice, and it was the wrong one. But don’t let that choice define your life.”

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Close-up shot of a young woman with her grandmother | Source: Freepik

I felt a chill despite the summer heat. “You’re not going anywhere.”

She smiled sadly. “We all go somewhere eventually, honey. Just promise me you’ll live fully. That’s all I’ve ever wanted for you.”

“I promise,” I whispered, resting my head on her shoulder like I had countless times before.

Three months later, she was gone. A stroke in her sleep. “Peaceful and a blessing, really,” the doctor said.

But it didn’t feel like a blessing to me.

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A woman shaken to her core | Source: Midjourney

I was 32 when I buried her. My mother arrived with her family, but I never really saw any remorse in her eyes. She didn’t even look at me during the service.

The house felt empty without Grandma. I wandered from room to room, touching her things — the crocheted blanket on the couch, the collection of ceramic birds on the mantel, and the worn cookbook in the kitchen with her handwritten notes in the margins.

God, I missed her so much.

Just a few days after the funeral, there was a knock on my door. When I opened it, I froze.

It was my mother.

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A desperate senior woman at the doorway | Source: Midjourney

She looked older, gray threading through her dark hair, and lines around her eyes and mouth that hadn’t been there before. But her eyes were the same — distant and calculating.

“Please,” she whispered, gripping her purse with white-knuckled hands. “I just need to talk to you.”

Every instinct in me screamed to shut the door and walk away. But something in her tone, something almost… defeated, made me pause.

I crossed my arms. “Talk.”

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An annoyed woman with her arms crossed | Source: Midjourney

She exhaled, looking down before meeting my gaze. “Your brother knows about you.”

My breath hitched. “What do you mean?”

“Before she passed, your grandmother sent him a message. And told him everything.”

I swallowed hard.

“He was too young to remember you, Rebecca. And I… I didn’t let your grandmother talk about you to him. I told her if she did, she’d never see him again.”

My stomach churned. It was worse than I imagined. My mother not only abandoned me… she ERASED me.

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A happy little boy walking on the road | Source: Pexels

She must have seen the horror on my face because she rushed to explain. “I thought I was doing the right thing! You had your grandmother, and I had my family —”

“You had a family,” I cut in. “You decided I wasn’t part of it.”

Her lip trembled. “He won’t speak to me, not since he read the message last night. His phone fell in the water and had been switched off for days… and he’s just gotten the message from Grandma after turning it on last night. He’s mad at me for hiding you from him. I need you to talk to him. Tell him I’m not a monster.”

I let out a hollow laugh. “Not a monster? You abandoned your daughter at ten, pretended she didn’t exist, and threatened your own mother just to keep your secret. What would make you a monster, then?”

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A guilty woman | Source: Midjourney

Tears welled in her eyes, but they didn’t move me. I had shed enough tears for her years ago.

Still, despite everything, I hesitated. Not for her, but for my brother.

I spent my life believing he had forgotten me. But he never had the chance to know me at all. He was just a child, manipulated by a woman who only saw me as an obstacle.

“I’ll take his number,” I said flatly.

My mother exhaled in relief, but her face fell when she realized what I meant. I wasn’t calling for her. I was calling for him.

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A furious yet composed woman | Source: Midjourney

“You can give him my number,” I clarified. “If he wants to talk to me, that’s his choice. And if he doesn’t want to talk to you…” I shrugged. “That’s his choice too.”

“Rebecca, please —”

“Goodbye, Mom,” I said, and slowly closed the door.

I met Jason a week later at a quiet café across town, my heart pounding as I saw him walk in. He was tall, with dark hair like our mother’s, but his eyes were kind.

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An upset man in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

He looked nervous but when he spotted me, something in his expression softened.

“I’m so sorry,” were the first words out of his mouth.

I stared at him. “You don’t have to apologize. You didn’t do anything wrong.”

“But I…” he swallowed hard. “I didn’t know. She never told me. I only found out because of Grandma’s message. I can’t believe she did that to you.”

I studied his face, searching for any sign of dishonesty. But there was none. He was just a kid when it happened. He hadn’t chosen this.

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A smiling woman looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

“You’re nothing like her, Jason.”

His shoulders sagged in relief. “I’ve been so angry since I found out. It’s like… everything I thought I knew about Mom was a lie.”

“How did you find out exactly?”

Jason ran a hand through his hair. “I got this email from Grandma. It had pictures of you, stories about you… things Mom never told me. And a letter explaining everything.”

“She was always clever,” I said, a sad smile tugging at my lips. “Even from beyond the grave, she was looking out for us.”

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A man lost in deep thought | Source: Midjourney

“She wrote that she promised not to tell me while she was alive because she was afraid Mom would cut me off from her completely.” He shook his head. “I can’t imagine being forced to make that choice. It’s so cruel.”

“That’s who Mom is,” I said. “She makes everything a transaction.”

He nodded, then pulled out his phone. “I have the pictures Grandma sent, if you want to see them?”

We spent the next hour looking at photos of a life intersected but separate. Grandma had documented everything for him, creating a bridge across the chasm our mother had dug between us.

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A smiling man looking at his phone | Source: Midjourney

“I always wanted a sibling,” Jason said quietly. “I used to beg for a brother or sister. Mom always said she couldn’t have more children after me. Another lie.”

“You know,” I said, pushing my empty coffee cup aside, “we can’t change the past. But we can decide what happens next.”

He nodded, a tentative smile crossing his face. “I’d like to know my sister, if that’s okay with you.”

For the first time in over two decades, I let myself feel something I never thought I’d have again — a connection to family that wasn’t built on obligation or pity.

“I’d like that,” I said. “I’d like that very much.”

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A cheerful woman | Source: Midjourney

Over the next few weeks, we talked more. I told him about my life, about how Grandma raised me, and how I spent years wondering if he ever thought of me.

And he told me about our mother. About how she had always been controlling, suffocating, and never allowed him to make his own choices.

We met at a park on a crisp autumn day, walking along paths covered in fallen leaves.

“Mom’s been calling me nonstop,” he said. “Showing up at my apartment. She even contacted my work.”

“That sounds like her. When she wants something, she doesn’t stop.”

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People walking in a park | Source: Pexels

“She always acted like the perfect mom, Rebecca. I thought she was just overprotective, but now I realize… she’s just selfish. Everything has always been about her image, her comfort, and her needs.”

“Has she always been like that with you?”

He kicked at a pile of leaves. “Yeah, I guess so. I just didn’t see it clearly until now. Nothing I did was ever quite good enough unless it made her look good too.”

We both knew, at that moment, that neither of us owed her anything.

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Portrait of a smiling man | Source: Midjourney

Weeks passed. I built a relationship with my brother, the one thing Mom had tried to keep from me. And she kept calling, sent messages, and even showed up at my door again.

But this time, when she knocked, I didn’t answer. She had made her choice 22 years ago. And now, I had made mine.

On what would have been Grandma’s birthday, Jason and I met at her grave. We placed her favorite yellow daisies and stood in silence.

“I wish I’d known her better,” Jason said. “Really known her.”

“She would have loved you,” I told him. “Not because you’re perfect, but because you’re you.”

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A bouquet of yellow daisies on a gravestone | Source: Midjourney

As we walked back to our cars, something caught my eye across the cemetery. A familiar figure stood watching us.

Our mother.

Jason saw her too and tensed beside me.

“We don’t have to talk to her,” I said.

He shook his head. “No, we don’t.”

We got into our cars and drove away, leaving her standing alone among the gravestones.

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A sad woman in a cemetery | Source: Midjourney

In the end, family isn’t always who gives birth to you. Sometimes it’s who sees you and chooses to stay. Grandma chose me. And in her final act of love, she gave me back the brother I never knew.

Some wounds never heal completely. But around the scars, new life can still grow.

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People holding hands | Source: Pexels

Once One of the Most Handsome Men, This Hollywood Legend, 88, Lives Reclusively after a Stroke amid His Kids’ Bitter Feud

Following a stroke, a well-known Hollywood celebrity who was formerly regarded as one of the most attractive men leads a reclusive existence. His children had been at odds for a long time during his health scare.

This attractive French actor,88, who was once praised as one of the most beautiful men in the world, leads a very different life now that he is no longer in the limelight of Hollywood.

After sadly suffering a stroke in 2019, the “Flic Story” artist, who is aware of how “handsome” he is, lives a reclusive life at his house. This happened a few weeks following his honorary Palme d’Or acceptance in Cannes, France.

His mansion is situated behind a magnificent stone wall that stretches 2.4 miles (2.3 km) and is part of the expansive estate known as La Brûlerie. It is situated in the Loreit department of central France, close to the Douchy-Montcorbon commune, at a distance of 86.99 miles (140 km) southeast of Paris.

Sources claim that this is not just the actor’s house but also the location of his dream burial, next to a chapel on the grounds of a cemetery he constructed. More than thirty of his cherished hounds are laid to rest in this cemetery.

Despite having France as his home base, sources indicate that the reclusive divides his time between his Douchy home, his apartment in Geneva, and his workstation in Paris.

The French sensation has been handling a tense family matter in addition to choosing his final resting place. His three children are at conflict with one another.

Based on their father and his possessions, his two sons and daughter have engaged in public arguments, leveled allegations, and pursued legal actions. The public nature of their arguments has brought the actor’s kids a lot of media attention.

So much so that Christophe Ayela, their father’s attorney, has made an effort to mediate a ceasefire between them. “It must end, and everyone must become calm. That’s enough for now, reprimanded Christopher.

The fact that the “Purple Noon” actor, whose kids attest to this, is aware of their argument and has made it quite evident that he has a favorite child adds even more nuance to the family conflict.

He had earlier said, “I have a daughter who is the love of my life, maybe a little too much in comparison to the others.”

In 2008, he claimed, “I have said I love you to no other woman so often.” Observant viewers speculate that the father may see his sons as competitors, which could explain their tense relationship. This theory is supported by the father’s own remarks and other observations.

The actress’s kid has made public her intense affection for her father, much like her devoted father. She recently sent a heartfelt homage to him on Instagram, providing followers with an update on the actor’s health.

She wrote a touching note in French and included it with a photo of her father. That caption says, “Friday morning I took a picture of my dad,” in English. for myself. A remembrance of our times. Breakfast with him fills me with unending gratitude. A singularly lovely moment.

She continued by praising his looks, describing him as “handsome” and emphasizing his “vivid” and “fighting” attitude. “My personal eternal,” she penned.

“I showed the image to him. As his audience who is interested in him, I asked him if I may share it with you. Thus, it is here with his consent. “Don’t worry,” he responds to your concerns. #love,” the actor’s daughter said.

It’s none other than Alain Delon, the legendary French casanova about whom admirers have been worrying and who has been leading a secluded life. Many of Alain’s admirers responded to his daughter Anouchka Delon’s Instagram photo by leaving comments on the platform.

As always, he is stunning and gorgeous. Please remain by his side; he needs you more than anybody. I know you adore your father and are very protective of him, a fan exclaimed. Actor Gilles Marini, who is also French, said, “Remain near.brimming with affection. Nothing more is important.

Even though Anouchka and her brothers, Anthony and Alain-Fabien Delon, have not always agreed on everything, they both agree that their father’s financial and medical needs must be met.

According to a French news source earlier this month, Alain’s children banded together in March to demand that their father be put under a “reinforced curatorship.” Alain was previously placed under judicial protection for “medical monitoring” prior to this action.

According to the article, their request was granted as of April 4. This implies that a “curator” will be designated to supervise Alain’s finances and act, effectively, on his behalf with regard to matters pertaining to his possessions and, occasionally, his healthcare needs.

Nobody has confirmed the identity of this curator as of yet. It’s unclear if it will be Hiromi Rollin—who the news source called Alain’s “lady in waiting”—or one of his children.

What will happen to Alain’s business, Alain Delon International Diffusion SA, of which he is the President and Anouchka is the Vice President, is another concern. As the curatorship request has been approved, Alain will no longer be able to make decisions in that role.

Nevertheless, Alain is more concerned with the here and now than the minutiae. He revealed in a 2021 interview that he wanted to make one last picture, which he believes has the potential to be his best to date.

The “Borsalino” actor said, “In my life what I loved most was being Alain Delon, the actor Alain Delon,” to end the conversation.

“Observe Purple Noon and Rocco [And His Brothers]!Every woman was enamored with me. Alain described himself as an attractive performer in a prior statement. “From when I was 18 till when I was 50.”

Alain is said to have discovered his attraction to women in the 1950s when on a trip to Saint-Germain-des-Prés with a buddy. “I became aware that everybody was staring at me. Women started to inspire me. To them, I owe everything. Alain said, “They were the ones who motivated me to look better than everyone else.”

Alain made it his mission to “look better than anyone else,” going so far as to claim the title of “most seductive man in cinema” at the age of 25, and he was even compared to Brigitte Bardot in terms of appearance. One of the biggest “It” girls in the history of film, the French star is widely recognized.

Her famous roles in many silver-screen movies have earned her recognition and admiration. Playboy, a popular platform for showcasing stunning celebrities, had elevated the French blonde beauty to the top of the list of the 20th century’s most attractive female stars.

She is even regarded by certain media sources as the greatest “It” girl of all time. In addition to her attractive appearance, Brigitte is well-known for her pouffy lips. She ranked fourth on Playboy’s list of the sexiest female stars.

Her seductive confidence and alluring personality also earned her the title of most watched star in her native nation. In addition to her accomplishments as an actor and general entertainment, Brigitte has developed a strong reputation as an enthusiastic supporter of animal rights.

Regarding her private life, the well-liked celebrity, better known by her stage as BB, is a mother of one child and has been wed to Bernard d’Ormale for 31 years. Media sources claim that the pair married in secret in August 1992, inviting just a small number of friends to share in their big day.

Since then, the couple has been happily married. When Brigitte and Bernard got married for the first time, acquaintances of the “Contempt” singer informed a news outlet that the abrupt and covert marriage had made her happier than she had been in a long time.

It’s interesting to note that Brigitte’s friends weren’t sure she would get married again after her first spouse died. Nevertheless, the couple lived together in Brigitte’s opulent ten-bedroom mansion in Saint-Tropez after being married in a charming tiny wooden chapel in Norway.

Bernard has supported Brigitte ever since they first met, particularly during her health problems. Brigitte’s knight in shining armor promptly reassured the extremely alarmed audience that she was okay when French newspapers announced for the first time in 1992 that their adored celebrity had supposedly overdosed on sedatives while at home.

“Brigitte was overwhelmed with fatigue and took too much medication to go to sleep,” he clarified.After a few hours, she was fine and had not had her stomach pumped.”

Bernard’s claim that his wife was okay was further corroborated by a representative for the clinic where Brigitte was brought. Years after her sedative scare, Brigitte was confronted with yet another health issue.

Bernard attested to Brigitte’s breathing difficulties earlier this year. Fortunately, first responders came to her aid right away, gave her oxygen, and stayed with her to make sure everything was alright.

Bernard cited an intense heatwave that was sweeping through Europe at the time to support his explanation that his wife’s respiratory issues were age- and weather-related. It seems that their La Madrague home’s air conditioning system was not operating at its best.

Brigitte had assured the public that she was fine, but a news source had said that she had remained in the intensive care unit. But in a handwritten message, the “A Very Private Affair” star corrected the record, saying, “I want to reassure everyone.” I’m doing great right now. The disease that I contracted was a source of scandal for the press.

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