With tattoos becoming increasingly popular, it is not uncommon to come across individuals who have extensive body art. Unfortunately, some people face criticism and even calls for their children to be taken from them. One such case is that of a Canadian man named Remy who has spent over $100,000 on tattoos and has encountered criticism on social media, with some people telling him he’s not a suitable father.
He doesn’t feel guilty about being a tattooed dad.
Despite his extensive amount of ink, Remy doesn’t feel guilty about his tattoos, nor does he believe they’ve changed who he is as a person or a father. He says, “Tattoos and piercings haven’t changed at all, so I wasn’t worried that my son would see me differently.”
But the man has been criticized for not being a stereotypical father.
Remy shared that he has received online comments suggesting that his son should be taken away from him due to his appearance. He stated, “I’ve had a few people say things like my son should be taken from me because of how I look, but this is only ever online.”
He continued, “My argument to that would be that if you think that way, you should never have children yourself.”
Remy added that while people stare at him in public, they only say nice things and ask questions about his tattoos. “People stare a bit [in public] but they only say nice things and ask how long it took, how I handle the pain, and generally compliment my work,” he attests.
His child is nonchalant toward his father’s tattoos.
Remy’s first tattoo was of his son’s name, but since then, he has become obsessed with getting more and more ink. His son never really noticed his tattoos.
“He’s never really noticed them, as I was already pretty different looking [when he was born in 2009] — it’s completely normal for him. As he’s gotten older, he’s become very nonchalant, and it’s actually made him more tolerant of people being different looking, I believe,” Remy says.
In fact, Remy’s son’s favorite tattoo is the eye on his stomach and chest.
Being a good parent has nothing to do with superficial looks.
While some may argue that Remy’s tattoos make him an unfit parent, it’s important to remember that body modification is a personal choice and doesn’t necessarily reflect one’s ability to be a good parent. As long as a parent is providing a safe and loving environment for their child, their appearance should not be a factor in determining their ability to care for their children.
One of Remy’s fans explained things in a wonderful way.
As one commenter on Remy’s story put it, “You give the cloth and care about what you do. As long as you can put a roof over your child’s head, it’s not anyone’s job.” Ultimately, it’s up to each individual to decide how they want to present themselves to the world, and that decision should not be used to judge their worth as a parent.
As we conclude this story of unfair judgment and inked journeys, it’s only the beginning of our exploration into the world of those living tattooed lives. In our next article, we’ll introduce you to a mom whose 800 tattoos have become a barrier to employment, shedding light on the surprising consequences of living life fully inked.
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Why Purslane?
Have you ever used purslane in a recipe? It may surprise you to hear that this frequently disregarded plant—which is occasionally seen as a weed—is actually a nutritional powerhouse and can be quite pleasant. I was first introduced to this adaptable item by my Turkish neighbors, who also showed me how to use it to make a dish that surpasses the flavor of meat. Allow me to explain to you how to enjoy this tasty and healthful plant at home.
Omega-3 fatty acids, vitamins A, C, and E, and minerals like calcium, magnesium, and potassium are all abundant in purslane. It’s a lovely complement to many recipes because it’s not only healthy but also has a crisp texture and a somewhat acidic, lemony flavor. The best thing about it is that it grows really easily and is frequently found in markets and gardens.
You’ll need the following to make a tasty purslane meal with Turkish influences:
Two cups of young purslane leaves with delicate stalks
One large onion, diced finely
two minced garlic cloves
two medium-sized sliced tomatoes
One-third cup olive oil
One tsp of paprika
To taste, add salt and pepper.
Juice from lemons (optional)
To prepare the purslane, start by giving it a good rinse to get rid of any grit or debris. Take off any tough stems, leaving the fragile stems and leaves alone.
Sauté the Garlic and Onion: Heat the olive oil in a big skillet over medium heat. Add the minced garlic and diced onion, and sauté them until aromatic and tender.
Add the Tomatoes: Cook the diced tomatoes for about 5 to 7 minutes, or until they begin to break down and produce a sauce.
Cook the Purslane: Add the purslane to the skillet along with the tomato mixture, making sure to fully combine. Add the pepper, salt, and paprika. Cook everything until the purslane is soft but still somewhat crunchy, about 5 minutes.
Finish with Lemon Juice: Right before serving, drizzle a little lemon juice over the dish to add even more flavor.
This is such a versatile dish made with purslane. It goes well warm as a side dish or cold as a component of a cool salad. It tastes well on its own with a slice of crusty bread or as an accompaniment to fish or grilled meats.
A tasty and healthy addition to any dish is purslane. Its distinct flavor may compete with even the tastiest meats. This easy and tasty meal with Turkish influences is a great way to incorporate this amazing plant into your diet. Try it and savor the delicious flavors and health advantages of purslane!
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