If there is one thing we are certain of in life, it’s the fact that people have an opinion. Some will even try to voice that opinion as loud as possible, despite the fact that very few people are listening.
The Internet really makes it easy for anyone to have such an opinion and to voice it for the world to hear. The funny thing is that the stranger the opinion, the more press it seems to receive.
That is what one expert is now experiencing, thanks to their unusual recommendation for parents. They are a self-proclaimed relationship expert, and they said that parents should ask for permission before changing a diaper.
We realize that there are a lot of issues revolving around consent these days, and it can be difficult to navigate them. As far as many parents are concerned, however, asking a baby’s permission before changing a dirty diaper is just out of the question.
To be honest, most parents are not very happy about the fact that they have to change diapers but it is a necessity if you are going to raise your children happy and healthy. Adding the extra layer of having to ask permission before doing so is above and beyond.
The woman who made this claim says that she is a ‘sexuality educator, speaker, and author.’ Her name is Deanne Carson and her unusual recommendation for parents is making waves.
She was on ABC in 2018 to share these insights. She said that this is typically done with children above the age of three but she also feels that consent is important to introduce at a much younger age.
She does admit that babies will not be able to verbally respond to the request for consent, but they should be able to give nonverbal communication with eye contact and in other forms.
She claims that it’s about setting up a culture of consent in the home, and asking if it is okay to change the nappy before doing so.
Carson went further to explain the process, saying that allowing a moment for anticipation and waiting for any nonverbal cues can help parents and toddlers communicate on a deeper level.
Perhaps the most interesting thing was the way the reporters reacted to the suggestion. Not only were they very verbal, but they were also wondering what would happen if the baby said no.
I Found a Strange Ornament on Our Christmas Tree – Then My FIL Smirked, ‘Now You Know the Truth’
When Eden decided to surprise her husband by decorating the Christmas tree, she uncovered a mysterious heart-shaped ornament bearing a strange detail. Her father-in-law’s sly grin deepened the chill as he uttered: “Now you know the truth, don’t you?”
It started earlier that evening. My husband Liam was working late and he had hung a few ornaments on the tree before darting out the door, promising to finish later.
“Just the usual holiday chaos with my friends,” he’d mumbled with a quick kiss on my forehead, leaving me surrounded with boxes of glittering decorations.
A man walking away | Source: Midjourney
I decided to surprise him by finishing the tree myself. As I pulled out each ornament, memories spilled out like water from a cracked vase.
The star Liam and I bought the first year we were married. The garland I’d convinced him was perfect even though he teased that it looked like tinsel vomit. Just as I was about to hang the garland, I found something strange on our tree.
A small, shiny, heart-shaped ornament. Glittering symbols shimmered in the soft glow of the fairy lights. But what froze me were the initials scrawled across the front in a delicate flourish: L+N.
My stomach dropped.
I knew every ornament we owned. But this wasn’t one of them.
A heart-shaped ornament hung on a Christmas tree | Source: Midjourney
“If ‘L’ stands for Liam… what does ‘N’ stand for?” I whispered, my fingers tightening around the ornament. My mind raced, piecing together every late-night phone call and every text Liam had hidden under a casual tilt of his screen.
The sound of footsteps made me turn. My father-in-law, Richard, lingered in the doorway, his eyes sharp and amused. He’d been staying with us for weeks. He’s a bit… complicated and had grown increasingly smug and aloof lately.
His gaze flickered to the ornament, and his mouth curled into a smirk. “Ah,” he said, stepping closer. “So you’ve found it at last.”
“Found what?” My voice cracked, though I tried to keep it steady.
A shocked woman | Source: Midjourney
Richard crossed his arms, leaning against the wall. “Now you know the truth, don’t you?”
“What truth?”
He chuckled softly, his eyes glinting. “Let’s just say she wanted you to see it. In your house. Where you live.”
“She?” My heart hammered.
He didn’t answer immediately, savoring the tension. “Ask Liam,” he said, shrugging. “Or don’t. Sometimes it’s better to walk away before you dig too deep.”
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My breath hitched. “Who IS she?”
He just gave me this smug grin and said, “Ah, c’mon, Eden. Don’t act dumb. SHE wanted it here. In this house. Where YOU live.”
“Who? Be clear.”
“NANCY!” he said with deliberate ease.
“Nancy?” I repeated, my voice a fragile whisper. “I need to know everything. Right now.”
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“Some secrets are like poison, sweetheart. Once you taste them, they change everything.”
“Stop talking in riddles!” I shouted.
Richard’s smirk deepened, and before I could ask anything else, he walked to the hall closet, yanked out a suitcase, and began stuffing my clothes inside.
“What are you doing?”
“Helping you,” he said, not looking up. “You deserve better than this. Better than someone who’d betray you.”
I stood there frozen, gripping the ornament like a lifeline as Richard tossed my jeans and sweaters into the suitcase with almost gleeful precision.
Clothes in a suitcase | Source: Pexels
“Stop it!” I snapped, yanking the bag from his hands. “You don’t get to—”
He looked up, his eyes suddenly weary. “Liam never told you about his past, did he? Some people are experts at creating the perfect illusion.”
“What does that mean?” I demanded, the ornament still clutched in my trembling hand. “Speak plainly!”
“Some truths,” Richard said, “are better discovered than explained.”
Just as I was about to dig deeper, the sound of the front door creaked open, making us both freeze. Liam was home.
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“Eden?” his voice called from the doorway, his footsteps growing louder. He appeared in the living room seconds later, his expression flipping from confusion to alarm as he took in the half-packed suitcase and my tear-streaked face.
“What’s going on?” His gaze darted to Richard.
I shoved the ornament toward him. “Tell me what THIS is.”
Liam frowned, taking it from my hands.
“It was on the tree,” I said, my voice trembling. “Your dad said it belonged to someone named Nancy. He said she wanted it here. In OUR house.” I pointed at Richard. “And now he’s packing my things and telling me to leave.”
A woman holding a Christmas ornament | Source: Midjourney
Liam’s face darkened as he turned to his father. “What did you do?”
Richard faltered. “I just thought she deserved the truth! You’ve been sneaking around—”
“I wasn’t sneaking,” Liam snapped.
“Then explain this!” I shouted, cutting him off. “Who’s Nancy?!”
Liam exhaled, his jaw tightening. “She’s… she’s not what you think.”
“Then tell me what to think!”
“Nancy’s a little girl,” Liam revealed. “She’s eight years old. I met her at the shelter.”
“WHAT?” I blinked, trying to process his words.
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“I’ve been volunteering there,” he continued, his voice softening. “Helping with the kids. I didn’t tell you because I didn’t want to hurt you.”
“Hurt me? How would this hurt me?”
Liam hesitated. “Because… because I know how much you wanted kids. And we can’t.” His voice cracked on the last word. “I didn’t want to make it worse.”
The room spun. “So you’ve been going behind my back to… to—”
“To feel like I could still do something good,” he said quickly.
When Liam said, “Nancy made this for me,” I couldn’t hold back anymore.
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“You’ve been keeping this secret, volunteering at a shelter, connecting with a child, and you didn’t think I deserved to know?”
“Eden, please,” Liam pleaded, his hands reaching out. “It wasn’t like that.”
“Then tell me exactly what it was like!” I screamed, my composure shattering. “How long have you been hiding this? How many times have you looked me in the eye and said nothing?”
Richard shifted uncomfortably, watching our exchange with a mix of guilt and anxiety.
An anxious senior man | Source: Midjourney
“I was protecting you,” Liam whispered, his voice raw with emotion. “Protecting us.”
“Protecting me?” I laughed. “From what? From hope? From the possibility of something beautiful?”
The silence stretched, heavy and raw.
“She made this for me,” Liam broke the silence, holding up the ornament. “She said I made her feel safe. She even asked me to adopt her. I just didn’t know how to bring it up to you.”
A little girl making a glittery Christmas ornament | Source: Midjourney
Richard’s laugh cut through the moment like a blade. “Oh, come on. Do you seriously believe this tale?”
Liam turned on him, his fists clenched. “You knew, didn’t you? You overheard me on the phone, and you twisted it to suit your sick agenda.”
“Agenda?” Richard sneered, his voice dripping with contempt. “You mean exposing you for the liar you are? Someone had to do it. She deserves to know who she’s married to.”
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“Liar?” I snapped, my voice trembling with rage. “The only liar here is you, Richard. You knew the truth, and you used it to try to break us apart. What kind of person does that to his own son?”
Richard’s expression hardened, his lips curling into a bitter sneer. “The kind of person who sees through the fairy tale you two think you’re living. Your perfect little life isn’t so perfect, is it?”
Liam took a step forward, his voice low and menacing. “You’ve always been a bitter old man, but this… this is low, even for you. You’re pathetic.”
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Richard jabbed a finger in Liam’s direction. “Oh, don’t you dare talk to me like that! Her mother and I could’ve had a future if it weren’t for you and Eden tying yourselves together. Eden’s mother and I—”
“What are you even talking about?” I asked, my voice rising in disbelief. “Do you even hear yourself? You’re blaming your son and me for something that never existed in the first place?”
It all came spilling out then, the words dripping with years of resentment. Richard had been in love with my mother since high school. He spoke about her like she was some prize he had been cheated out of, his bitterness twisting each word into something almost unrecognizable.
When I married Liam, any hope he had of rekindling that old, unspoken dream vanished.
Grayscale shot of a newlywed couple | Source: Unsplash
Liam’s jaw tightened as he shook his head. “You really think that justifies what you’ve done? You tried to destroy my marriage because of some twisted fantasy? You don’t deserve her, and you sure as hell don’t deserve to be part of my family.”
“You’re pathetic,” I said, tears burning my eyes as I took a step closer. “I can’t even believe I let you stay in our home. You’ll never get to hurt us again.”
Liam’s voice was cold and final, his eyes locked on Richard. “Get out, Dad. And don’t come back.”
Richard looked between us, his face a storm of anger and humiliation. But he said nothing. He just grabbed his suitcase and dragged it out the door. He left that night, taking his bitterness with him and leaving us to pick up the pieces of his cruelty.
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The days that followed were a blur of raw conversations and quiet rebuilding. Liam and I talked late into the night, untangling the knots of mistrust Richard had planted.
When we finally felt ready, we reached out to the shelter. Liam introduced me to Nancy, and my heart softened the moment I saw her. She was small for her age, with bright eyes and a warm smile that broke my heart in the best way.
“She’s been through a lot,” Liam murmured as Nancy shyly handed me a picture she’d drawn of the three of us. “But she’s still so hopeful.”
And just like that, I knew I had to follow my heart. We filed the paperwork to adopt her a month later. And soon, Nancy walked into our lives like a little miracle.
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As I sat by the softly glowing Christmas tree, my eyes kept drifting to a new ornament nestled among the branches. It was small, glittery, and shaped like a heart. My fingers brushed against it more times than I could count, tracing the initials “L+N+E” in sparkly gold.
Liam. Nancy. Eden.
It wasn’t just an ornament… it was a reminder. Of the battles we’d faced. Of the lies that had tried to tear us apart. And of the love that had stitched us back together, stronger than I ever thought possible.
Love hadn’t been perfect, but that year, it was ours. And no one could take it away.
A cute glittery Christmas ornament on a tree | Source: Midjourney
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