Admirers all around the world wished they were the stunning Debra Winger when Naval Officer Zack Mayo snatched factory worker Paula into his arms and whisked her from her place of employment in a classic romantic tale.
The iconic moment from the romance drama An Officer and a Gentleman, in which Richard Gere portrayed the dashing hero in navy whites, Officer Zack Mayo, became the standard for romantic tales for daydreamers.
Acting beside some of the sexiest men in Hollywood made Debra Winger the envy of many.
Winger, who is 67 years old, is still stunning today. Winger has shared pictures of herself on Instagram throughout the last few years; initially, she had brown hair, but now it is a naturally wavy gray.
Winger played Drusilla, the younger sister of Lynda Carter’s Diana Prince/Wonder Woman, in the popular TV series Wonder Woman (1979). Her first major role came in the 1976 film Slumber Party ’57. Winger was requested to make more appearances, but she declined out of fear that the role would mold her into a certain mold.
The emerging star would have a lucrative early 1980s and had no regrets about that choice.
She was nominated for multiple Academy Awards and Golden Globes during the peak of her early career for her roles in three classic 1980s films.
She costarred with John Travolta in Urban Cowboy in 1980; at the time, he was making fans go crazy with his slick dance moves in Saturday Night Fever (1977) and Grease (1988); she also played Emma in Terms of Endearment (1983), where she played a dying young woman with an overbearing mother named Aurora, played by Shirley MacLaine, and as Paula in An Officer and a Gentleman (1982).
Despite her enormous success, Winger took a brief break from acting to focus on other projects. Over forty years after her ascent to fame, rumors about her departure persist.
The majority of these rumors center on Winger’s conflicts with her co-stars.
Despite the fact that Winger reportedly had enough of the attractive Gere on the set, fans couldn’t get enough of him.
As stated in a passage from co-star Louis Gossett Jr.’s book “An Actor and a Gentleman,” which ABC News published, “The onscreen chemistry between the two of them was terrific, but it was a different story once the camera was turned off.” They were too close to one another to have remained apart.
Additionally, according to Gossett, Winger didn’t think highly of Gere’s acting and once called him “a brick wall.” She also called Taylor Hackford, the film’s director, who she did not like, “animal.”
Not just the characters in the movie bothered her.
MacLaine was a gorgeous, quirky, and seasoned veteran who contrasted with Winger, who was a free spirit both in real life and in her part as Emma.
Their romance began with that first meeting.
In a People interview, MacLaine stated, “I was wearing all my leftover movie-star fur coats to see how my character would feel.” “Debra was there, wearing a miniskirt and combat boots.I exclaimed, “Oh my goodness.”
According to People, “In fact, the set turned into the origin of Hollywood’s most cherished rumors.” Winger desired first place. It was said that one slugged the other.
Subsequently, the two women faced off at the Oscars after receiving nominations for best actress.
“I deserve this,” MacLaine declared in her acceptance speech as she took the award home.
Despite the rumors, Winger maintains that she “pushed the pause button” on Hollywood for private, not for work-related, reasons.
“I didn’t care for the parts that were about to happen. That was something I had already done or experienced. I required a challenge. I totally embraced the challenge that my life presented to me, Winger said to People.
MacLaine was a gorgeous, quirky, and seasoned veteran who contrasted with Winger, who was a free spirit both in real life and in her part as Emma.
Their romance began with that first meeting.
In a People interview, MacLaine stated, “I was wearing all my leftover movie-star fur coats to see how my character would feel.” “Debra was there, wearing a miniskirt and combat boots.I exclaimed, “Oh my goodness.”
According to People, “In fact, the set turned into the origin of Hollywood’s most cherished rumors.” Winger desired first place. It was said that one slugged the other.
Subsequently, the two women faced off at the Oscars after receiving nominations for best actress.
“I deserve this,” MacLaine declared in her acceptance speech as she took the award home.
Despite the rumors, Winger maintains that she “pushed the pause button” on Hollywood for private, not for work-related, reasons.
“I didn’t care for the parts that were about to happen. That was something I had already done or experienced. I required a challenge. I totally embraced the challenge that my life presented to me, Winger said to People.
We can’t imagine a Hollywood without Debra Winger and we hope she soon gets to take home an Academy Award! What are your favorite Winger movies?
Acting alongside Hollywood’s hottest men, Debra Winger was the envy of many.
Today, Winger, 67, is as beautiful as ever. In the past few years, Winger has posted photos herself on Instagram, first with brown hair and now to a natural wavy gray.
Winger’s first starring role was in the 1976 film Slumber Party ‘57, which led to a part on the hit TV series Wonder Woman (1979), where she played Drusilla, the younger sister to Lynda Carter’s Diana Prince/Wonder Woman. Winger was asked to appear more often but concerned she’d be typecast by that role, she declined.
There were no regrets for that decision, the early ‘80s would be prosperous for the rising star.
At the height of her young career, she received numerous nods from the Academy and Golden Globes for performances in three iconic movies of the 1980’s.
In 1980, she starred in Urban Cowboy, with John Travolta, who at the time was driving fans wild with his smooth dance moves in Saturday Night Fever (1977) and Grease (1988); as Paula in An Officer and a Gentleman (1982) and in Terms of Endearment (1983), where she played Emma, a dying young woman with an over-bearing mother, Aurora, played by Shirley MacLaine.
Despite her huge success, Winger, carving hours from her acting schedule, took a mini Hollywood hiatus, and more than four decades after her rise to stardom, speculation of why she left is still circulating.
Most of these rumours revolve around the feuds that Winger had with her co-stars.
Though fans couldn’t get enough of the handsome Gere, it’s been widely reported that Winger had enough of him on the set.
According to an excerpt published on ABC News from the book, “An Actor and a Gentleman,” by co-star, Louis Gossett Jr., who played Sgt. Emil Foley: “The onscreen chemistry between the two of them was terrific, but it was a different story once the camera was turned off. They couldn’t have stayed farther apart from each other.”
Gossett also claims that Winger didn’t think much of Gere’s acting and wrote that she once described Gere as “a brick wall.” And, the film’s director, Taylor Hackford, whom she also did not like, she referred to as “animal.”
It wasn’t only people on that film that ruffled her feathers.
Winger, a free spirit in real life and in her role as Emma, also clashed with the prolific MacLaine, a glamorous, eccentric and seasoned veteran.
Their first meeting set the stage for their relationship.
“To see how my character would feel I was wearing all my leftover movie-star fur coats,” MacLaine said in an interview with People. “There was Debra dressed in combat boots and a miniskirt…I thought, ‘Oh my goodness.’”
People writes, “Indeed, the set became the source of Hollywood’s most relished rumors. Winger wanted top billing. One reportedly slugged the other.”
And then, the women were pitted against each other in the Oscars when they were both nominated for best actress.
MacLaine, taking the trophy home, said in her acceptance speech, “I deserve this!”
Rumors aside, Winger insists she “pushed the pause button” on Hollywood for personal reasons and not professional.
“The parts that were coming, I wasn’t interested in. I’d already done that or I’d already felt that. I needed to be challenged. My life challenged me more than the parts, so I dove into it fully,” Winger told People.
After starring in the 1995 romcom Forget Paris with Billy Crystal, Winger took a six-year break.
In that time, she moved to New York City and shifted her focus to actor Arliss Howard, whom she married in 1996. The pair have a son, Gideon Babe, who was born in 1997, and she is stepmother to Sam, Howard’s son from a previous marriage. She also has another biological child, Noah Hutton, whom she mothered while married to her first husband, Timothy Hutton (1986 to 1990).
She reappeared in the 2001 film Big Bad Love, that was directed and produced by her husband, who also co-starred alongside Winger and Rosanna Arquette, who’s next project was 2002 film Searching for Debra Winger. As director of the documentary, Arquette attempts to answer why Winger temporarily abandoned her career at peak performance.
Winger gained some momentum with roles in Rachel Getting Married (2008) with Anne Hathaway, the 2017 romcom The Lovers, and the crime-comedy, Kajillionaire (2020).
In 2021, she was in With/In, Volume two of the anthological drama film, in the segment Her Own, which is written and directed by her husband, who also co-stars.
“I don’t know what Hollywood is. I’m living under the freaking sign now, and I just stare at it and laugh. Los Angeles is a place, but the idea of Hollywood doesn’t really exist for me,” Winger said, adding, “…although there must be some in-crowds that I just don’t know about.”
Without Debra Winger, we couldn’t imagine Hollywood, and we hope she wins an Oscar soon! Which Winger films are your favorites?
My In-Laws Demanded Our Luxury Villa on Our Family Honeymoon – My Husband Gave Me the Green Light to Put Them in Their Place
What was supposed to be a dream honeymoon in Bora Bora quickly turned into a battle for control when my in-laws demanded our luxury villa for themselves. But when my husband finally allowed me to handle them, I made sure they got exactly what they deserved.
When we broke the news, my parents were overjoyed. They had always been modest, easygoing people who never expected extravagance.
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Growing up, vacations for us meant road trips, budget-friendly hotels, and simple pleasures like picnics on the beach. So, when Mark and I invited them on this luxurious trip, they were stunned.
My mom teared up, and my dad kept shaking his head, saying, “Are you sure this isn’t too much?” They kept thanking us, calling it the trip of a lifetime.
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Mark’s parents, however, were harder to please.
Before we even booked the trip, I got a taste of just how much control Mark’s parents had over him. We had originally planned to go in late May. But when Mark told his mom, she immediately shot it down.
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“No, Mark. That won’t work for us,” Linda had said firmly. “Your father has his golf tournament, and I have my garden club’s spring luncheon. You’ll have to move it.”
I had expected Mark to push back, to remind her that this was our honeymoon, not a family reunion. Instead, he sighed, gave me an apologetic look, and said, “We can reschedule, right?”
I was stunned. “Mark, we already put down deposits.”
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“I’ll cover the change fees,” he assured me. “It’s just easier this way.”
It wasn’t easier for me or my parents, who had to rearrange their own commitments. But for Linda and Richard? It was perfect. And, as always, what they wanted came first.
That night, I confronted him. “You can’t keep letting them run our lives.”
He sighed, rubbing his temples. “Just this once,” he promised. “After this trip, no more. We’re setting boundaries.”
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I smiled and squeezed his hand. “Next time, let me handle things.”
We had booked them a gorgeous bungalow on the water. It had a glass floor, an open-air bathroom, and a private deck. But their expressions when they arrived? Disappointment. They barely said thank you.
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Mark and I, on the other hand, had taken the only available villa. It turned out to be a 4,000-square-foot paradise. It had a sauna, an outdoor tub, a private pool, and an ocean slide that dropped straight into the turquoise water. It was breathtaking.
Still, I had a feeling trouble was brewing.
At first, I thought Mark’s parents just needed time to adjust. Maybe they were overwhelmed. But I was so wrong.
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That evening, we all gathered for dinner. The warm air smelled like coconut and grilled seafood. The sun dipped into the horizon, painting the sky in pink and gold. We were laughing, enjoying fresh pineapple cocktails, when my cousin Jason leaned over to me, grinning.
“That ocean slide of yours is insane! I saw the pics—can I try it tomorrow?”
I laughed. “Of course! It’s so much fun.”
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But across the table, I heard a loud gasp.
“Wait… WHAT?” My mother-in-law, Linda, slapped her hand against the table. Her eyes darted to Mark. “You have an ocean slide?”
My father-in-law, Richard, frowned. “Your place has a slide?”
I felt my stomach twist. Here we go.
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Linda grabbed Mark’s phone off the table. She scrolled through the photos we had taken earlier that day. Her face turned red. “Mark, THIS is your place?!”
Mark hesitated. “Uh… yeah?”
Richard shoved his chair back. “And we’re stuck in a bungalow?!”
I blinked. Stuck? The bungalows were luxurious. People dreamed of staying in one.
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“Mom, Dad,” Mark started, “your place is amazing. It’s the best bungalow they offer.”
“But it’s NOT a villa,” Linda snapped. She turned to me, voice sharp. “Why do YOU get the best place?”
I took a slow breath. Stay calm, Emily. “There was only one villa available,” I said. “It wouldn’t have been fair to give it to just one set of parents.”
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Linda huffed. “We’re the elders! We shouldn’t live like peasants while our children enjoy luxury!”
I almost choked on my drink. Peasants? In Bora Bora?
Richard crossed his arms. “Mark OWES us. We raised him. He wouldn’t even be here without us.”
Linda nodded, smug. “You can’t even sacrifice a little for family?”
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Mark sat frozen. His eyes darted between me and his parents. Linda’s nostrils flared. Richard’s jaw was clenched so tight I thought he might break a tooth.
“Mark,” Linda snapped, expecting him to take their side. “Say something!”
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Mark opened his mouth, then shut it. His hands curled into fists on the table. I could see the battle in his head. He had spent his entire life bending to their will. But now, it wasn’t just about him. It was about us.
He glanced at me. His blue eyes searched mine. And then, he exhaled and nodded. A small, almost imperceptible nod. My heart leaped. He was giving me permission.
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I turned to my in-laws, keeping my voice steady. “I understand you want something better. You’re right—family should be treated well. I’ll make sure you get the special treatment you deserve.”
Linda smirked. “Well, it’s about time.”
Richard scoffed. “Should’ve done that in the first place.”
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They stood up, practically preening, acting as if they had just won some great battle. Linda threw her napkin onto the table. “We’ll expect the change first thing in the morning.”
Richard grumbled under his breath as they stalked off. I caught the words “ungrateful children” before they disappeared down the wooden walkway.
I turned back to Mark. He exhaled, rubbing his face.
“Are you sure about this?” he asked.
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I smiled. “Oh, I’m very sure.”
That night, I made a quick call to the resort’s concierge. The request? An ‘upgrade’ for my in-laws.
The woman on the other end of the line was confused at first, but once I explained the situation, she let out a soft laugh.
“You want me to book them a flight home?” she asked.
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“First-class,” I confirmed. “Only the best for them.”
“Consider it done.”
The next morning, I woke up to the sound of suitcases rolling across the wooden deck outside my villa. I stepped onto the balcony just in time to see Linda and Richard arriving at the front desk, their chests puffed out in expectation.
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They were already gloating. I could see the certainty that they were about to waltz into our villa and take what they believed they deserved in their faces.
The concierge approached them with a warm smile. “Mr. and Mrs. Harrison, your special arrangements have been finalized.”
Linda beamed. “Finally! Where are our new keys?”
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She handed them an envelope. “Your first-class tickets.”
Silence.
Linda’s eyebrows shot up. “Tickets?”
Richard snatched the envelope, ripping it open. His face turned a shade of red I hadn’t seen before. “This is a joke,” he growled. “This is a goddamn joke.”
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Linda’s mouth opened and closed like a fish. “YOU’RE SENDING US HOME?!” she shrieked so loudly that nearby guests turned to stare.
I stepped forward, flashing them my sweetest smile. “You said you deserved the best… and home is the best place we could find for you.”
Richard’s face burned. “HOW DARE YOU?!”
“Oh, very easily,” I said lightly.
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Linda looked around, desperate for someone to intervene. She turned to Mark. “You’re going to let her do this to us?”
Mark sighed, running a hand through his hair. “Honestly? Yeah.”
Linda gasped like he had just slapped her. “We’re your parents!”
“And we’re on our honeymoon,” he replied. “You don’t even like Bora Bora, Mom. You complained the entire flight.”
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Linda sputtered, grasping at an argument. “Well… we… we didn’t think we’d be treated like this.”
I shrugged. “Safe travels.”
And just like that, the resort staff took over. Their bags were already packed and loaded onto a boat. Linda was still screeching when the boat pulled away from the dock. Mark stepped beside me, watching his parents disappear across the water.
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He exhaled, shaking his head. “I can’t believe you actually did that.”
I wrapped an arm around his waist. “Believe it.”
He turned to me, his expression softer than I had seen in days. “I’m sorry I let it get this bad. I should have shut it down sooner.”
I reached for his hand. “You did the right thing in the end. That’s what matters.”
And finally, for the first time since we arrived, we could enjoy our honeymoon.
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We spent the next few days soaking up every bit of luxury the villa had to offer.
We had slow, lazy mornings, wrapped up in each other, watching the sunrise over the ocean from our private deck. We sipped coffee in bed, no one interrupting us, no guilt hanging in the air.
At night, we had romantic dinners in our villa, the sound of waves in the background, the entire world feeling like it belonged to just us.
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One evening, as we lounged in the outdoor tub, Mark pulled me close, pressing a kiss to my forehead. “Best decision ever,” he murmured.
I smiled, sinking into his embrace. This trip was supposed to be about celebrating love, and in a way, it still was.
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