About 15 years ago, Richard Sandrak, who moved from Ukraine to the United States, was called the strongest boy in the world.
Richard started to exercise seriously when he was just a child. And at the age of 8 he could bench-press with more than 30 pounds! At 11 years of age he lifted 53 pounds!
Now he’s 24 years old and it’s hard to call him a jock.
Once he was given the nickname «Little Hercules», he was constantly invited to competitions, TV-shows, commercials, magazines and even movies. That’s why Richard’s family moved to California, so the son could fully realize himself.
Training, nutrition, regime — these points were monitored by the boy’s father — a former world champion in martial arts. Very often the man was criticized for abusing his son and putting a lot of pressure on him.
And when Richard was 11 years old, he called the police when his father assaulted his mother. The man was put in jail for domestic violence.
The boy stopped communicating with his father and no longer recognized him. For a while he was still practicing, but gradually it became less and less.
At the moment Richard says: «I am very proud of my achievements as a child, I am not ashamed of them and I do not try to hide this page of my life from anyone. And he adds: «I just don’t want to live like that anymore.» «They tried to make me look like some kind of abomination of nature.»
Now Richard continues to exercise, but not as fanatically. He runs every morning and also likes skateboarding. By profession, he is a stuntman at the show «Waterworld» in Los Angeles, where he is set on fire at least five times a day, and then he has to dive into the water from a great height.
Once he was asked what he wanted to be, his answer was surprising: «A scientist, doing quantum physics… or an engineer at NASA. Why not»?
4 Rеаl-Lifе Stоriеs аbоut Grаndmаs Whо Наvе tо Сhооsе bеtwееn Ваbysitting Тhеir Grаndkids & Тhеir Оwn Тimе
Grandmothers often grapple with the dilemma of balancing family responsibilities with their personal well-being. Here, we delve into four real-life scenarios showcasing the complexities they face.
1. The Overbearing Rules Dilemma: Asked to babysit, one grandmother was confronted with a long list of rules from her daughter-in-law, including dietary restrictions and limited screen time. Feeling stifled and isolated, she stood her ground, refusing to comply with demands that infringed on her personal boundaries. As she asserted, “I’m not a pushover. I have rights too.”
2. Financial vs. Familial Duties: Another grandmother was tasked with caring for her newborn grandchild while her daughter returned to work. Despite financial strain, she hesitated, feeling her parenting duties had been fulfilled. Suggesting a paid arrangement, she urged her daughter to consider alternative childcare options, balancing financial constraints with her own well-being. As she explained, “I love my grandchild, but I can’t sacrifice my own well-being.”
3. The Petty Revenge: Feeling unappreciated, one grandmother playfully disrupted her grandchild’s nap, highlighting the overlooked contributions of grandparents. As she quipped, “Sometimes you have to remind them of our value.”
4. Choosing Rest Over Responsibilities: Prioritizing self-care, a 56-year-old grandmother declined to babysit during her vacation, emphasizing the need for personal time despite her daughter’s financial struggles. As she reasoned, “I need to take care of myself too, or I won’t be any good to anyone.”
These stories unveil the intricate balance grandmothers navigate between familial duties and personal needs in intergenerational relationships.
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