Kathleen Turner rose to fame in the 1980s with her strength and attractiveness – many consider her one of the most beautiful actresses in Hollywood.
It is this fortitude that has helped her through the many goods and bad times the actress has experienced over the years.
Kathleen Turner was reared in a home with four other children despite having a difficult upbringing. She and her siblings were raised in both Venezuela and London. She experienced tragedy when, at a young age, her father passed tragically suddenly while mowing the lawn of their Hampstead house.
The foreign service expelled Kathleen and her family from the UK a month after his death. Turner moved her family to Springfield, Missouri, where everyone was still mourning their father and their former residence..
After relocating to New York to pursue an acting career as an adult, Tuner at last experienced calm. Although she had some success on the stage, her big break came when she was cast as the femme fatale in the 1981 film “Body Heat.”
Three years after starring next to William Hurt, Turner was given a chance to co-star with Michael Douglas in the famous “Romancing the Stone.” Douglas was in a rocky separation from his wife Diandra at the time of filming, and he and Turner developed some feelings for each other.
“We were in the process of falling in love – fervent, longing looks and heavy flirtation. Then Diandra came down and reminded me he was still married,” Kathleen said.
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She eventually married the property developer from the film, Jay Weiss, in 1984. The two had their only daughter together soon after. Rachel Ann Weiss was born on October 14, 1987.
Unfortunately, the couple’s relationship began to fracture as they started raising their daughter.
“I’d make the movie companies give me long weekends or provide extra tickets so my daughter and husband could come to me. But there was a sense in the marriage the effort was all on his side, which made me feel guilty. It was one of the reasons it ended. I started to feel very oppressed. I thought, ‘Hang on a minute, you’ve done very well out of being married to me also,’” Kathleen explained.
Their marital issues reached a breaking point when Turner played Martha in the Broadway revival of “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?” in 2005. Acting in eight performances a week caused Turner to become exceedingly busy, and it seemed Weiss didn’t want to spend any time with her when she was at home.
Turner received a Tony nomination for her performance as Martha during that period, and the two split peacefully.
In 1987, the actress received an Oscar nomination for her performance in “Peggy Sue Got Married.” In the 1980s, she continued to make movies and appeared in a number of blockbusters, three of which starring Michael Douglas.
Kathleen, however, suffered a medical setback in the 1990s when her neck locked, preventing her from turning her head. She also lost the ability to use her hands because of swelling in them.
“It was crippling,” Kathleen said. “You stop taking things for granted when you lose them, even temporarily. What I took for granted – my athleticism, my ability to throw myself around, and just be able to move however I wanted to. When I lost that, that was a real crisis of self: who am I if I cannot do this?”
Rheumatoid arthritis, which is defined by the swelling of the lining of our joints, turned out to be the cause of her unfortunate circumstances. Chronic pain brought on by this illness can be challenging to manage.
“When it was first diagnosed, I was terrified because they said I’d be in a wheelchair,” Kathleen explained. “I thought, ‘If I can’t move, I can’t act.’ Acting isn’t just what I want to do. I was born to do it. It’s at every point of my living. The idea of not being able to do it was the most frightening part – that and the constant pain.”
As a pain reliever, Kathleen used booze and medications. Although they made it easier for her to work, her propensity for consuming vodka caused her to pass out during dress rehearsals for plays like the 2002 theatrical production of “The Graduate.”
After the episode ended, the actress genuinely entered rehab, where it was discovered that she was not an alcoholic. She was instead instructed to just keep better note of when she took her prescriptions and any negative side effects.
The actress now practices yoga and pilates to help her manage her discomfort and stay flexible.
The celebrity started to truly concentrate on her theatrical profession while managing her pain better. Although she occasionally continued to work in cinema and television, she mostly went back to her origins as she got older, even starring in “Cat on a Hot Tin Roof” on stage in her forties.
“Because I knew that the better roles as I got older would be in theatre, which is absolutely true, so that was a little foresight on my part of which I am justly proud,” Kathleen said.
The actress has been able to devote more time to her passions by concentrating on the theater, including volunteering for Amnesty International and working for Planned Parenthood of America.
Turner has dedicated her life to supporting other women as a fervent feminist and has done so for the majority of her life. Send Yourself Roses, Gloria Feldt’s 2008 biography of the actress, accurately depicts her ideas.
“We are the first generation of women who are financially independent. Women are going back to work,” Kathleen said. “They’re reinventing themselves. I thought I could support that, even increase that. So it has got a lot of philosophy in it and a lot of my beliefs.”
My Family Dumped Grandma at the Airport and Left for Vacation Without Her—They Didn’t Expect Me to Strike Back
Some people show their true colors when you least expect it. For me, it came through a tearful call from my grandma, who was dumped at the airport because my family thought pushing her wheelchair was too much trouble. They went on vacation without her, thinking they’d never face consequences.
After losing both my parents, my family circle had shrunk to just my dad’s sister, Aunt Liz, her husband Ron, and my two grandmothers—including Grandma Ruth, my last connection to Mom’s side. She may use a wheelchair, but she doesn’t let anyone tell her what she can or can’t do… and that’s exactly what I adore about her.
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Living three states away with my husband and two kids, plus working two jobs, made regular visits difficult. So when a bonus check landed in my account, I thought, “Why not give them a memory?”
I booked my remaining family a fully paid vacation to Paradise Cove. Flights, hotel, meals—all prepaid under my name.
“Amy, you shouldn’t have!” Aunt Liz gushed over the phone. “This is too much!”
“Family comes first, right, Aunt Liz?” I said, and back then, I meant every word.
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The morning they left, Aunt Liz posted a photo from the airport gate. All smiles with the caption: “Family is everything! ❤️🌴 #Blessed”
I was in my office when my phone rang three hours later.
“Hello?”
“Amy…?” Grandma’s voice trembled, barely audible over the airport announcements.
“Grandma Ruth? What’s wrong?”
“I’m still at the airport, honey. They… they left me.”
“Left you? What do you mean?”
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“Liz said pushing my wheelchair was too much trouble. That I was moving too slowly and they’d miss their flight. They just… walked away.”
My stomach dropped like a stone.
“Where are you exactly?”
“Terminal B. By the coffee shop. I don’t know what to do.”
“Don’t move. I’m going to fix this.”
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I hung up and immediately texted Aunt Liz: “Why did you leave Grandma Ruth at the airport? She’s alone and crying.”
The reply came fast: “We’re on vacation! We’re not babysitters. Maybe if she wasn’t so slow and helpless, she could have kept up. Don’t ruin this for us.”
I stared at those words, something inside me hardening with each second.
“Karen!” I called my assistant. “I need your help.”
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While Karen flew back to my hometown to pick up Grandma Ruth, I sat down at my laptop. Every booking—the flights, the hotel, and even the rental car—was under my name. I had full control.
I called the hotel first.
“Paradise Cove Resort, how can I help you?”
“Hi, this is Amy. I need to cancel a reservation.”
After processing the cancellation, I added: “Do you have any availability for a spa package next weekend? Something really nice… and oceanfront.”
“We have our Serenity Suite available with daily massages and premium dining.”
“Perfect. I’d like to book that for two people.”
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Next, I canceled my family’s return tickets. No drama, just a few clicks, and their way home vanished.
My phone buzzed a few hours later. It was Karen.
“I’ve got her. We’re grabbing some food before our flight,” she said.
“Put her on a video call, please.”
“Amy?” Grandma Ruth’s voice was steadier now. “Did I do something wrong?”
My heart sank. “No, Grandma. You didn’t do anything wrong. THEY DID.”
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“But why would they just leave me like this?”
“Some people only care about themselves. But I care about you. Karen’s bringing you to my house, and then you and I are going on our own special trip next weekend.”
“Oh, honey, you don’t have to do that.”
“I want to. Ocean views, room service, everything.”
She paused. “What about Liz and Ron?”
“Don’t worry about them. They wanted a vacation. They got one.”
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I ignored the flood of calls and texts that started coming in hours later. I imagined them arriving at Paradise Cove, only to learn there was no reservation under their names.
“Amy, there’s a problem with the hotel. Call me back immediately,” Aunt Liz texted, her words tight with irritation.
Twenty minutes later: “This isn’t funny. We’re sitting in the lobby with all our luggage. Fix this now.”
By the third text, panic had crept in: “Please call us back. The whole island is booked solid. We don’t know what to do.”
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I deleted each message as it came in, and Tom brought me a glass of wine while I waited for Karen’s flight to land.
“Still not answering?” he asked.
“Nope.”
“Good.”
“I also canceled their return flights.”
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Tom nearly choked on his wine. “Remind me never to get on your bad side.”
“They abandoned her like she was inconvenient luggage.”
“You did the right thing. When do you plan to talk to them?”
“When Grandma Ruth is safe in our guest room. Not a minute before.”
***
My grandmother arrived just after midnight, exhausted but smiling weakly.
“There’s my girl!” she said, opening her arms to me.
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I hugged her gently, breathing in the familiar scent of lavender and rosemary oil. “I’m so sorry this happened,” I whispered.
“Not your fault. You’re a good granddaughter.”
Once she was settled with tea, I checked my phone. Seventeen missed calls, 23 texts, and five voicemails.
The final text: “HAD TO PAY $460 FOR A FILTHY MOTEL. WHAT DID YOU DO???”
I turned to Tom. “I think it’s time.”
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Alone in our kitchen, I dialed Aunt Liz’s number.
“Amy! What’s going on? We’re stranded, the hotel has no—”
“How’s your vacation going, Aunt Liz?”
“What did you do?”
“I canceled everything. Hotel, return flights, all of it.”
“What?? You… you can’t do that!”
“Actually, I can! It was all booked under my name.”
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“Why would you do this to us?”
I laughed. “That’s rich coming from the woman who abandoned a 78-year-old at the airport.”
“We didn’t abandon her. We just—”
“Left her alone, in a wheelchair, with no help. Then lied about coming back.”
“She was slowing us down! We would have missed our flight!”
“So you miss the flight,” I snapped. “All of you. That’s what family does.”
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“Don’t lecture me about family. You’re never even around.”
“I work two jobs to support my children. And still found the time and money to send you on vacation.”
“Where is she?”
“Safe… with people who actually care about her.”
“You need to fix this. Book us new flights home, at least.”
I took a deep breath. “No.”
“No? What do you mean, no?”
“Figure it out yourselves. Consider it a life lesson in consequences.”
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“You snake!” she spat. “Your mother would be ashamed of you.”
“My mother would be horrified by what you did. Don’t speak for her.”
“We’re family, Amy. You can’t just—”
“Family doesn’t leave family behind. You made your choice at that airport gate. I’m making mine now.”
I hung up and blocked her number.
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The spa weekend with Grandma Ruth was everything I’d hoped. We got massages as waves crashed outside, ate seafood overlooking the ocean, and talked for hours about Mom, life, and everything.
On our last evening, we sat on the balcony with glasses of champagne, and Grandma took my hand.
“This isn’t the first time Liz and Ron have treated me… differently. Since your mom passed, they’ve canceled plans and forgotten to include me. I didn’t want to burden you.”
My heart ached. “Why didn’t you tell me?”
She patted my hand. “You have your own family and troubles, dear. I didn’t want to be a burden.”
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“You could never be a burden, Grandma.”
She smiled, her eyes crinkling. “I know that now.”
Before bed, I posted a photo of us. Grandma Ruth in a fluffy spa robe and me with my arm around her, tropical flowers in our hair.
The caption? “Family is everything. 🥰“
***
My cousin Jen called the next day.
“Mom and Dad are losing their minds. They spent three nights in some roach motel. Dad got food poisoning.”
“Tragic!”
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Jen snorted. “Between us? They deserved it. I can’t believe they left Grandma Ruth.”
“You didn’t know?”
“No! Mom tried to spin some story about Grandma choosing to stay behind, but Dad cracked under questioning. Your revenge was pure art, by the way. Evil genius level.”
I laughed. “Is that a compliment?”
“Absolutely. Is Grandma okay?”
“She’s great. We just got back from Paradise Cove. Spa treatments, room service, the works.”
“Oh my God! You didn’t…!?”
“I did! With plenty of pictures for your parents to enjoy.”
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It’s been two months since the airport incident. Aunt Liz and Uncle Ron still aren’t speaking to me… a bonus I didn’t even ask for.
Grandma Ruth moved in with us last week. We converted the office into a sunny bedroom overlooking the garden. The kids adore having her. She’s teaching my daughter to knit and my son how to make her famous apple pie.
Last night, as we sat watching fireflies blink in the gathering darkness, she turned to me.
“Thank you, sweetie.”
“For what?”
“For showing me that I matter.”
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I rested my head on her shoulder, just like I used to do as a little girl. “You’ve always mattered, Grandma.”
“Maybe so. But sometimes we need reminding.”
We sat in comfortable silence for a while.
“You know what I’ve learned?” I said finally.
“What’s that, sweetheart?”
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“People show their true character not through grand gestures, but through small, everyday choices. Who they help when it’s inconvenient. Who they protect when it costs them something.”
Grandma nodded. “And who they leave behind when no one’s watching.”
“Exactly.”
She squeezed my hand. “Well, I’m watching now. And I see you, Amy.”
Some people say revenge doesn’t solve anything. Maybe they’re right. But sometimes justice tastes like room service pancakes shared with a grandmother who finally knows how cherished she truly is. And that feels like healing enough for me.
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