It’s a no-brainer that sleep is vital for one’s health. That is why so many researchers study the best way to get good quality shut-eye. However, forget chamomile tea and meditating before bed. According to new research, women sleep better next to dogs. That’s right; Canisius College in New York State conducted a study that found that canines make better-sleeping partners than humans or cats.
“We found that women commonly rate dogs as better bed partners than cats and human partners and report that their dogs enhance their sleep quality,” Christy Hoffman, Ph.D., animal behaviorist and lead researcher of the study.
Research Finds that Women Sleep Better Next to Dogs
Hoffman surveyed almost one thousand women living in the United States to come to these findings. The results showed that 55% of the participants shared their bed with at least one dog and 31% with at least one cat. Also, 57% of these women shared a bed with a human partner, while the rest did not. [1]
Hoffman also discovered why dogs seemed to make the best bed companions. The first reason is that dogs’ sleeping patterns, as opposed to cats, more closely resemble those of humans.
“The difference between dogs and cats is not surprising because dogs’ major sleep periods tend to coincide more closely with humans’ than do cats,’” said Hoffman.
However, while there may be benefits of these similar sleeping patterns, more research is needed to know for certain. But Hoffman has some ideas of how this could work.
“In comparison to human bed partners, dogs may be better at accommodating their human’s sleep schedule,” she said. “It’s not uncommon for human bed partners to go to bed at very different times and wake up at very different times. Such differences in partners’ schedules can certainly disrupt sleep. It may be that dog bed partners adapt more readily to their owner’s schedule than do human bed partners.”
Moreover, dogs require certain schedules and responsibilities, such as a morning walk. This kind of regime helps their owners maintain a routine, improving sleep quality as a result.
Stillness and Security
Additionally, dogs tend to stay stiff as they sleep. Anyone who’s slept with a fidgety partner knows how disruptive they could be. However, women in the study reported that their dogs stayed on the bed most of the night instead of felines, who tended to come and go.
“This suggests that cats may be more likely than dogs to create disruptions by moving on and off the bed during the night. In addition, we found that dog owners kept to more consistent bedtime and wake time schedules than cat owners and also tended to go to bed earlier and wake up earlier than cat owners,” Hoffman said.
Here’s the third and most important reason: Canines provide a sense of security to their owners. More so than with cats or even human partners.
“Some dog owners may take comfort in the thought that their dog will alert them in the case of an intruder or other type of emergency; furthermore, a dog’s bark may deter a potential intruder. A cat is less likely to take on this role, and so, may not provide psychological comfort in the same way a dog might,” said Hoffman.
The Best Partner for Quality Sleep
However, while the study suggests that dogs are the perfect slumber buddies, their benefits are subjective to each case. For example, a dog could snore or make the bed too hot. Additionally, there are many owners who find that their cats help them sleep.
Keep in mind that the research was based on how the volunteers perceive their pets’ effects on their sleeping quality and duration. As a result, more objective research is needed to definitively consider dogs the superior sleeping partners. However, Hoffman believes that these studies could be beneficial as many American households have pets.
“It will be valuable to continue this line of research so we can develop a clearer picture of the contexts under which pets and their presence in their owner’s bed may positively impact sleep quality, and the contexts under which co-sleeping with a pet may be detrimental to one’s sleep quality,” she said.
For instance, research has also shown that women sleep better while alone than with a human, but many believe in the opposite. Future research could use Fitbit-like devices to objectively track the sleep quality of people in different sleeping conditions.
Waitress Made Me Kneel in the Restaurant — Her Reason Shocked Me to Tears
On what would have been a celebration of our 50th anniversary, a seemingly normal dinner turned into a life-or-death ordeal. A brave waitress’s urgent command to kneel led to a surprising act of heroism and a heartfelt message from my late husband.
My name is Clara, and I’m a 78-year-old grandmother. Today would have been my 50th wedding anniversary with my late husband, Brian. We had a tradition of dining at a nice restaurant to celebrate, and I still do it to honor his memory.
A happy elderly lady | Source: Pexels
The restaurant was bustling. I felt a bit overwhelmed as I navigated my way to the table. The noise, the people, and the busy waitstaff made it hard for me to find my way. My heart pounded, both from the effort and the emotions this day always brings.
As I entered the restaurant, the familiar smell of delicious food greeted me. The soft clinking of cutlery and the hum of conversations filled the air. The lighting was dim and warm, just as Brian and I always liked it.
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I finally made it to my table, my favorite one by the window. I sat down and took a deep breath. The chair felt cold and unfamiliar without Brian sitting across from me. I could almost see him there, smiling at me, his eyes crinkling at the corners.
“Happy anniversary, love,” I whispered to myself.
An elderly woman in a restaurant | Source: Pexels
I glanced around, watching couples and families enjoying their meals. It reminded me of all the anniversaries Brian and I had celebrated here. We would hold hands across the table, laugh about old memories, and make new ones. Those were the best days of my life.
My excitement for the meal started to build. I picked up the menu and scanned it, though I already knew what I wanted. The special of the day was always our choice. Brian would joke, “Why change a good thing?”
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The waitress, a young woman with a kind smile, came over. “Hello, ma’am. Are you ready to order?”
“Yes, I’ll have the special, please,” I replied, smiling back at her.
She nodded and left to place my order. When she returned with my food, my heart sank. The plate was dirty, smudged with something I couldn’t quite identify.
A waitress with a dish | Source: Pexels
“Excuse me,” I said politely, “Could you please replace this plate? It’s not clean.”
“Of course, ma’am,” she replied, looking slightly flustered. “I’ll be right back.”
She took the plate and hurried back to the kitchen. I sat there, waiting, my excitement dampened by the small disappointment.
Waitress attending to a customer | Source: Pexels
A few minutes later, the waitress returned with a clean plate. But instead of setting it down in front of me, she leaned in close and urgently said, “You need to get on your knees immediately, ma’am!”
I blinked, shocked. “Why?” I asked, my voice shaking.
“Please, just do it now,” she repeated, her voice trembling. Her eyes darted towards the entrance.
A terrified waitress | Source: Midjourney
I hesitated, my mind racing. Why was she asking me to do this? But there was something in her voice, a note of desperation that made me comply. Slowly, I slid off my chair and knelt beside my table.
As I knelt there, humiliation and confusion washed over me. Tears pricked my eyes. I glanced up at the waitress, hoping for an explanation. She quickly knelt beside me and whispered, “I’m so sorry, ma’am. There’s a man with a gun. Stay down and follow my lead.”
Scared elderly lady hiding under a table | Source: Midjourney
My heart pounded in my chest. I glanced towards the entrance and saw him—a man with his hand tucked inside his jeans, looking around the restaurant suspiciously. Fear gripped me, making it hard to breathe.
“We need to stay calm,” the waitress continued, her voice steady but low. “He threatened to shoot if anyone moved. I needed to get you down without alerting him.”
Suspicious-looking man in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney
I nodded, tears streaming down my face. The reality of the situation hit me like a wave, and I felt a mix of fear and gratitude toward this brave young woman.
Just then, a loud crash came from the kitchen. Pots and pans clattered to the floor, and shouts erupted. The man near the entrance turned his attention toward the noise, his eyes narrowing.
“This is our chance,” the waitress whispered. She grabbed my hand, her grip firm but reassuring.
Wide-eyed waitress | Source: Midjourney
“Stay low,” she instructed.
We began to crawl, moving as quickly and quietly as possible. The floor was cold and hard beneath my knees, but I focused on the waitress, trusting her completely. My heart was pounding so loudly I was sure everyone could hear it.
We made our way to a small door marked “Storage.” The waitress opened it, and we slipped inside. She locked the door behind us, her hands shaking.
A restaurant’s storage door | Source: Midjourney
“We should be safe in here,” she said, leaning against the door to catch her breath. “Just stay quiet.”
I nodded, my breathing ragged from the fear and exertion. The small room was cramped, filled with shelves of supplies. The waitress sat down beside me, her face pale but determined.
“Thank you,” I whispered, tears streaming down my face.
Elderly lady looking away | Source: Midjourney
The waitress gave me a small smile. “My name is Emily. I’m sorry I had to scare you like that, but I couldn’t think of any other way to keep you safe.”
“You did the right thing,” I replied, my voice trembling. “You saved my life.”
Emily looked down, her eyes glistening. “My brother is a cop. He taught me what to do in situations like this. And…you remind me of my grandma. I couldn’t let anything happen to you.”
Woman looking concerned | Source: Midjourney
I was touched by her words. “Thank you, Emily. You were very brave.”
Emily reached into her apron’s pocket and pulled out a small, beautifully carved wooden box. “I almost forgot,” she said. “Your husband left this with the manager for you. I was supposed to give it to you today.”
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My hands trembled as I took the box from her. It was exquisite, with delicate carvings that looked like they were made with love. I opened it slowly, revealing a letter and two walnut shells inside.
Tears welled up in my eyes as I recognized the handwriting on the letter. It was from Brian. With a trembling voice, I began to read aloud.
A hand-written letter | Source: Pexels
My Dearest Clara,
Today marks our 50th wedding anniversary, and although I am not there with you in person, I am always with you in spirit. This little box holds a part of our love story that started all those years ago. Do you remember the first time we met? You gave me a walnut as a token of our first encounter. I have kept these shells with me ever since, as a reminder of that beautiful day and the countless wonderful moments we’ve shared.
A man writing a letter | Source: Pexels
My love for you has only grown stronger with each passing year. You have been my strength, my joy, and my everything. I hope you continue this tradition and feel my love surrounding you today and always.
Forever yours, Brian
As I finished reading, tears streamed down my face. I held the walnut shells in my hand, their smooth surfaces bringing back a flood of memories. Brian had always been sentimental, and this gesture was so like him.
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Emily gently placed a hand on my shoulder. “He loved you so much,” she said softly.
Just then, we heard a knock on the door. “Police, open up!” a voice called.
Emily quickly unlocked the door, and a group of officers entered, their faces stern but calm. “Are you alright, ma’am?” one of them asked gently.
I nodded, still overwhelmed by the emotions from the letter and the terrifying experience. “Yes, I’m alright now.”
Police arriving at a restaurant | Source: Midjourney
The officers led us out of the storage room. I saw the man being handcuffed and escorted out of the restaurant. No shots had been fired, and everyone was safe. The restaurant slowly returned to normal, though the atmosphere was still tense.
One of the officers, a tall man with kind eyes, approached us. “Emily here did a brave thing,” he said. “She kept you safe and helped us apprehend the suspect.”
I turned to Emily, my eyes filled with gratitude. “Thank you for saving my life,” I said, my voice trembling.
Two women hugging | Source: Midjourney
She smiled, though her eyes were still filled with concern. “I just did what I had to do. I’m glad you’re okay.”
As I left the restaurant, clutching the precious box and letter, I couldn’t help but think about the unexpected twists that day had taken. What began as a humiliating and confusing moment turned into an act of heroism that I would never forget. Emily’s quick thinking and courage had not only saved my life but had also given me a beautiful connection to Brian’s enduring love
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